All cultures in the world want boys to take the initiative. Influenced by the growing environment, boys in China were taught "Don't talk to strangers", "Be careful when making friends" and "Don't fall in love early". A leopard cannot change his spots. Even if he goes abroad, most of him can't change his introverted and shy personality and won't take the initiative to chat up girls. In western culture, this is a kind of "unconfidence". In front of confident and unrestrained western boys, of course, they will be marginalized and naturally cannot attract the attention of girls.

Contrary to our country, in western countries, love for the purpose of marriage is hooliganism! More than three foreign girls in China complained to me that their boyfriends in China either talked for less than a week and directly offered to take him home to meet their parents, and then talked about their married life. Either the boys have the attitude of "you are a foreigner, so we can't get married, so I won't be serious with you, we are just having fun", which makes the girls puzzled. In western countries, dating and marriage are almost completely irrelevant in most cases. Marriage usually takes a long time to get together and live together.

Language problems. Boys should take the initiative. But? If the language is not good, you can't communicate. Even if you have all the skills, you will naturally have eggs. No matter how elegant you think, you can't understand local jokes and tell unsmooth stories, but it's still natural. Having cleared the language barrier, we will begin to build ourselves. Girls all over the world like interesting people. It's just that this "fun" will have different understandings in different cultures.

In developed countries, "money" is no longer the primary criterion for choosing a spouse. A fitness instructor with a story is much more competitive than an entrepreneur with a big belly and a boring life. Go to work, keep fit, exercise, travel, bungee jump, try all kinds of things you haven't tried, and don't just eat and sing all day. The richness of life experience is very beneficial to the whole life.