What did you say?/Sorry? It has been registered in the marriage registry, but it has not been officially certified. Can I only be friends after getting the certificate? Mom thinks that you can't have sex until you tell your relatives and friends to have a big banquet, because if you break up before the banquet, you can divorce quietly, and no one knows what happened, otherwise giving birth will be a tricky thing.
It suddenly occurred to me that there was a joke that said: a newly married wife was bending over, and the cat was looking for clothes in the cupboard and farted several times in a row. At this moment, the in-laws came in, but the new wife was embarrassed to death. ...
Why does my dear mother acquiesce that I must have a harmonious sex life with my partner in the future? Isn't she worried about my asexual marriage? What's even more amazing is that after seeing countless newlyweds who are going to have babies a few months after marriage, there is no expected scene of "I seem a little nauseous", so all kinds of suspicions begin. Freedom, caution about future children, and infatuation with the chic life of two people have never been considered.
In the relationship between men and women, women are often put in an awkward position because of the subtle events caused by the word "sex". Tracing back to the source, most women are embarrassed by women and have the greatest prejudice against their homosexuality. The inferiority complex in the bones formed over thousands of years always objectifies women. Words like shameless, fall in price, and worthless goods at a loss have always been planted by women in all kinds of women. They use this malice to flaunt themselves as good women who know how to be measured, hoping that their daughters can inherit their fine traditions.
Most of the young people of our generation have controlling parents. It is forbidden to fall in love before college. I hope you can find someone to marry as soon as possible after work. As for the standard, it is best for a son-in-law to have a house, a car and a serious job. Daughter-in-law whose parents are far away, with a score of 100, is probably in the system or has a teacher who can take care of the family at leisure. When I meet my parents for the first time and get the information, I will secretly tell my daughter: don't go out the night before marriage. But no parent will secretly tell his son: don't lose your virginity before marriage, be a strong man.
Their endless desire for control will only fade away when you have enough economic ability to shock them. As long as you dare to ask for help, they will always have the right to ask you everything except whether your sexual life is harmonious. They call it "this is my right."
After graduating from college and having a job, try not to live with your parents if possible, which is a wonderful way to avoid all unpleasantness. The motto that personality can only be independent after economic independence is definitely the conclusion reached after a long struggle by the post-80s generation who are ahead of us. Since our parents and we don't share harmonious values, let's get rich with hard-working hands.
Fortunately, the rise of various new media in recent years has made our ears and eyes receive different sounds, which is very important. Through these voices, we know all the secrets about the body, we know how to get along with the body better, and we know that it is not shameful to please ourselves. We can communicate openly and generously with people close to us in the sun, which can only exist in the dark corner in the eyes of our parents. We know that premarital physical examination and "trying to love before marriage" will not be shameful and degenerate because we applaud love when we are not talking about marriage. It is necessary and important to know each other thoroughly and be responsible for your marriage for decades.
Parents always talk too much about marriage, childbirth and life, and seldom talk about love, sex and happiness. In this battlefield with parents and no smoke, we must firmly believe that we represent the free and brave side, and victory will be late but never absent.
Every girl's dream is probably a mother-daughter relationship like a best friend (not to mention the role of dad here). The core of this relationship is love, sharing and happiness. My mother would never say to me, "You are a girl, you should know how to be reserved." My mother won't let me be a good girl just because my aunt is talking. My mother will tell me what "sex" is at my appropriate age; My mother will help me check whether my boyfriend is worth trusting for life, instead of putting secular standards on him; My mother will discuss with me whether the new toy of a certain brand is good or not and whether the design is humanized; As soon as there is a nosebleed on TV, my mother will sigh: I have a good figure. I want to go to the gym with you to exercise!
No one can force me until I am ready; When I am ready, I will be responsible for myself. I have no plans to get married. My sex life is up to me.