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This summer, "30+ women" is quite popular.
From "Sisters Riding the Wind and Waves" to "Nothing but 30", it is undoubtedly like a shot in the arm, which quickly and accurately satisfies women's beautiful fantasies about middle age.
Especially 37-year-old Orfila.
In an interview with definition, she said frankly:
"A large part of the audience likes me because I am closer to them than what an artist should be."
The host Yi Lijing immediately added:
"I will regard you as a person who will struggle and become a success."
Indeed, when it comes to Orfila, everyone has a lot of criticisms, because her characteristics of "laziness, crying, timidity, Buddhism and a little transparency" are easy for everyone and have always been common.
Therefore, when people see Orfila out of the circle again and again, they will naturally have an illusion that even if he is not good enough, he can have a good 30+.
But what did Orfila say when he announced these achievements? She described herself as "better off". This kind of thing, luck, really pays attention to time, place and people, not often. For ordinary women, the best medicine to cure anxiety is never all kinds of fantasies, but really hard enough.
This point, the middle-aged girls after 80 pay a little crooked, and have a deep understanding.
Pay a little crooked body has a lot of labels:
Moreover, each label is not of a ticket-playing nature. "Start seriously and keep working hard" is her consistent style of doing things. Therefore, it is quite wonderful to screw out any label list.
"Ordinary women's 30+ is too risky to fight for luck. Always make progress, always leave yourself a way out, and you can ride the wind and waves forever. "
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There is a saying: in the world of adults, it is too easy, easy to get fat and easy to get old. But this kind of ease, to pay a little crooked, obviously slowed down.
Let's put some beautiful photos first, and have some excitement.
If I don't tell you, can you believe that this is the post-80s generation?
For women, especially after getting married and having children, there are a lot of things to worry about every day, and from time to time they have to face the problem of "how to balance career and family". Keeping in shape management is often more than enough.
But the pay is small and unfair.
Just flip through her circle of friends and you can see the daily routine of various fitness punching cards.
As a senior iron runner, no matter how busy she is at work, she always sets aside time to go to the gym, in order to pursue better lines and relax.
If you really don't have time to iron, get up early and run. Even if there is occasional conflict with work, it can be carried out at the same time as the voice conference. Anyway, that's what I said: self-disciplined people are the worst at making excuses for themselves.
As she wrote in her circle of friends:
"The figure after the age of 25 is your own choice."
If the middle-aged person's resignation started with giving up her figure, then she happened to be the one who didn't accept it.
Many people are afraid of entering middle age, because they know that years will take away many things, such as collagen, opportunities for trial and error, energy and so on. But on the contrary, when your age is not so dominant, your attitude towards life will be written on your face more intuitively.
Seeing this, you should understand why I used "middle-aged girls pay for small deviations" when I introduced her before.
Not only does she have requirements for her figure, but Fu Xiaoying also maintains persistent enthusiasm for all kinds of new things.
She likes to travel. Everywhere she went, she was excited by the local customs and what she saw and heard. In her view, the meaning of travel can not only explore the world and the heart, but also bring more possibilities to life inadvertently.
"The eyes can hold the vast universe, and the heart can hold clouds and wind."
She has been to countless places. I have traveled more than half of China by car, traveled around Australia in my RV, explored wildlife in the African jungle, and lived in the United States for half a year ... roughly speaking, it is dozens of countries and spans five continents.
Besides, she loves islands very much. In Maldives alone, there are more than a dozen islands that have left her footprints. In order to better appreciate the scenery on the island, she also took the AOW exam and became a registered diver.
You see, anything, even just to satisfy your love, as long as you can keep up with your actions, there will always be more enjoyment and pleasure than anxiety and predicament.
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If all of the above are just a little insistence and a little deviation, then the next thing to say is her big toss.
Xiaoyan has a little hobby every time she travels. She likes to stay in some homestays with characteristics or stories, talk about life with the host people, or stay in an interesting space in a daze, which is also a special gain during the trip.
It is precisely because many warm and interesting stories happened during my stay that Xiaoyan came up with the idea of opening a shop.
20 15, just returned from go on road trip, Turkey, and my best friend suggested that we rent a yard in the country together. The suggestion hit her heart at once, as if an ideal were within reach.
Moreover, both she and her husband like flowers and plants, but the house at home is not big and it is difficult to play freely.
So they hit it off and rented a remote yard. Originally, I just wanted to give it a try, and it was transformed into a satisfactory appearance at low cost, but I didn't expect this courtyard to become unexpectedly popular, and it was even rated as "the most beautiful small courtyard in Chengdu".
This made Xiao slanting excited, and then he got out of control on this road.
In 20 17, her book Looking for Garden Bookstore was reported by CCTV.
On 20/0/8, another "Lemon Garden" was opened, and Wang Sicong, Mai Chao and Jenny all rushed to visit it.
Until 20 19, she had another bold idea: to open a "waiting wind" on the top of Chengdu.
By chance, Xiao Yao met this mountain pass at an altitude of more than 900 meters. It is a place suitable for climbing and overlooking. You can watch the sunset all over the city, and the scenery is not inferior to the Taiping Peak in Hong Kong.
The breeze blew, and the sudden comfort made her immediately make an adventurous decision-to rent a private house in a remote place in Yakou, so that more people can enjoy the short-term peace and comfort like themselves.
"I am on the mountain, waiting for the wind to wait for you."
The implication is romance, but the house on the mountain is hard to change.
Those infrastructures that are used to it at ordinary times are obstacles at the top of the mountain. Insufficient water pressure, insufficient cable load, no natural gas and sewage pipelines, no cell phone signal, no express delivery, and material procurement are all big problems. ......
But even so, at the moment when Waiting for the Wind came into being, Bian Xiao couldn't help saying: This world is worth it.
It consists of 2 acres of peach forest and a building of about 600 square meters, as well as a very large swimming pool. Swimming at the top of the mountain? It's a little weird to think about it.
Peach blossoms are everywhere in Longquan Mountain in spring, so the whole three-story building is dominated by pink and has its own romantic attributes.
The dining area on the first floor consists of an indoor restaurant and an outdoor viewing restaurant. In the evening, a group of friends are blowing cool breeze, watching the city lights and eating barbecue. It's amazing. Even if they don't drink, they will go online.
If the first floor is a holiday and leisure style, then the second floor is a warm and comfortable home space.
The public living room area is still pink, and a whole bookcase wall can not only store things, but also play a very good decorative role.
The layout of the enclosed sofa constitutes an interactive communication area.
Although there is not much difference in style, all bedrooms are divided into three colors: pink, green and white. Every room has a whole floor-to-ceiling window, so even if you lie in bed, you can have a panoramic view of the scenery outside the window.
On the third floor is the viewing coffee bar with excellent view. Have coffee, take selfies and be in a daze. Please feel free.
Known as the "city view frame", it has designed many photo punching points to meet the habit of "taking photos everywhere".
Nowadays, this online celebrity resort located at the top of the mountain is in full swing. Looking back on the difficulties and obstacles along the way, Bian Xiao can only be grateful: didn't people grow up in difficulties and challenges?
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Generally speaking, after these great achievements, someone should question: Is her family sure to be good? Money and leisure? Otherwise, how can you open a shop all over the world?
For these question marks, Xiao Yan's answer is:
"Born well, high starting point, married to the rich second generation, these don't exist in me. If you have to say something about me, it is a counterattack. "
In fact, single parents, violence, lack of care and material resources all appeared in Bian Xiao's childhood. When I was at school, I was also a scum, the kind who often sat next to the podium.
It was not until the third year of high school that she suddenly began to understand, admitted to two law majors, and then passed the judicial examination. When I got a stable job, I got a full scholarship to study in Sichuan University. In this way, an unfortunate academic scum of childhood became a master student who graduated from 985 school.
There is no luck, only despair.
Even now, after she has made achievements in various fields, she has not lived a life like a duck to water, and even, like many people, she will be tired of middle-aged anxiety.
This year's epidemic and the demolition of the small courtyard, these sudden setbacks, also let her fall into a short-term state of life disorder, weight skyrocketing, depressed.
However, people who keep fighting back have a very powerful energy: action. You won't allow yourself to stay too long, whether in the comfort zone or the low valley.
In this way, she learned to stand upside down from 0 to 1, read 100 books every year, practice oral English every day and break up regularly.
When you improve your ability, you will feel more in control of your life.
"Life will always give you some small surprises and accidents from time to time, happy, not overjoyed, not sad, not self-pity. Life is a process of constantly solving troubles and creating happiness. "
Some time ago, Xiaoyan started a new "creation".
After becoming a mother, she will often face the problems of "career and family". Although she is a freelancer and spends more time with her children, she still feels that it is not enough.
After thinking for a long time, she decided to build a small farm and let her children run wild.
On the farm, the wind blows the wheat waves, vegetables and fruits grow freely, chickens, ducks and geese walk in the fields, and children receive natural education and beauty here. ......
After the idea was formed, she did it. When designing, running the construction site, being a farmer, doing recruitment ... all kinds of cross-border, playing until flying.
It is worthwhile to watch the children grow rice seedlings and play with mud in the fields here.
From lawyers to shopkeepers among network celebrities to farmers now, Bian Xiao's labels are still accumulating. She hopes to be a person who can export value. Maybe she will try to be a teacher in the future, or share her life experience, life experience or entrepreneurial experience with more media people.
There is a line in the small crooked tattoo:
No pain, no gain.
Fitness, reading, work and hobbies are all painful things at first, but they are all beautiful things to stick to. So you don't need to be excellent at first, you need to be excellent at first.
Don't take chances, don't be overly afraid, don't count on luck, and rely on strength and action to make yourself as rich, beautiful and capable as possible.
This is the 30+ of ordinary people.
The materials and pictures in this article are provided by Fu Xiaoyao.