1, occasionally give him a little surprise. No one likes to live a regular and boring life all the time, because it is easy to feel tired and lead to loss of hope for life. So in love, the same is true. If you want to keep your man interested in you, you'd better prepare a surprise for him from time to time! When a man comes home after a hard day's work, he finds that his woman is beautifully dressed, which is different in peacetime, or has cooked a lot of dishes that he likes to eat, which will make him full of praise for you. Doing this occasionally will not cause too much pressure on a man, but will make his life full of expectations. 2, occasionally a small temper will always be a docile woman, but it is not easy to be cherished by men, because everyone likes to tame things that are not very smart. If you want your man to be fascinated by you, flirt with him once in a while. When he is in a good mood, let him spend some time and energy on you, give him a chance to discover your advantages, and make it easier for men to live without you! In this way, no matter how busy he is, he will worry about you. He will think about whether you are angry or not before doing many things, and always think about you. Have the women learned this trick? But remember never to be really angry! 3. Leave some private space for yourself. When a man gets all of you, he will become less cherished. The easier he gets, the less he cares. Therefore, women must keep some secrets for themselves. For example, don't let him know all your arrangements, don't let him know all your friends, and don't take him with you every time when you go out to play, so he will feel insecure because of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and then he will care more about you. Even if you love him again, you should leave some private space for yourself. 4, learn to cook, it is said that to grasp a man's heart, first of all, to grasp his stomach, this is a fact, women can cook is really a great skill. Men who have worked hard all day outside want to go home and see a delicious meal, a gentle wife and perhaps a lovely and sensible child. If a woman wants a man to cling to himself and go home for dinner every night, she must learn to cook, and occasionally cook a loving meal for him to make him face in front of his colleagues. 5. Keep your face and body. Everyone likes to please women and men are 100% visual animals. Therefore, no matter how old women are or how busy they are at work, don't forget to leave some time for fitness and beauty. It is very useful to "hang" a man with beauty. A woman's good figure is not only her confidence, but also her face in front of friends, so she will cherish you more. 6. Learn to reject him occasionally. Women should never be obedient to men, otherwise men will feel exclusive and treat you as a maid. In love, two people are equal, so you can occasionally refuse his request, which will not only hurt the feelings of two people, but also make men want to know you more. How can I make him miss you more 2 1? In front of him, sometimes he will hold his cheek, not talking and thinking. Men usually like and respect considerate women. You don't have to do everything for him, but you can also quarrel. Life is not only sweet, but also has other flavors. Occasionally unreasonable, coquetry, complain a few words and finally leave angrily, but remember to turn around and leave gracefully. When you break away from his hug, help him to dust himself. Even if he is spotless, we will do this fake action. This is our combination of rigidity and softness. 4. Always learn to say: Sorry, now is not the time! This sentence seems simple, but it is used by the twelfth division! Sometimes saying a few seemingly confidential words in a man's ear will get unexpected results. 6. When shaking hands with him, you can take this action and scratch his palm with your fingers, so that a man will feel shocked and never forget you. 7. When two people eat together, make proper AA system several times. Don't make men pay for it. Let's give him a small sum of money once in a while and let him eat ice cream, melon seeds, French fries and so on. Give him a tissue when eating, but don't wipe your mouth, so that a man's heart will be warm! 8. Don't let life revolve around your man, take some time for yourself, focus on your own affairs, or keep in touch with your friends and girlfriends. He will thank you for giving him a break, and at the same time, he will gradually feel a sense of crisis about you and worry about whether there will be special circumstances around you. To some extent, a sense of crisis is a good way to promote the relationship between two people. Only when you are worried will you care. If you are too relieved, it is easy to reduce your attractiveness. Make him miss you. It's that simple. 9. Say to men at the right time: I love you so much. The most primitive love story is this sentence. Most women are shy, especially those who have feelings for their youngest daughter. They are often not used to expressing their love directly. And when she can say "I love you so much" to you, it is often a sign that you have been deeply rooted in her heart. How to make him miss you more? 3. How to make him miss you more and more after breaking up? 1. Keep a good mood. If you want to save your predecessor, you must keep a happy mood. Don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. This will only make her feel that you can't live without this relationship, but it will make the other person look down on you even more. When chatting, be like an ordinary friend, so that she will feel that chatting with you is not oppressive. Talk to her about her hobbies or something. Creating a comfortable chat atmosphere will help to calm her nervous mood and reduce the contradiction between you. Make her feel relaxed, and she will gradually remember all the good things you used to have. She will miss you more and more. Second, let bygones be bygones. Never mention the unpleasant things in the past again, especially avoid quarreling over trifles. Fighting will only affect your feelings. Let the past go with the wind and turn over a page. Don't deny that she pointed out all kinds of shortcomings in your body in order to eliminate your bad impression in her mind. It's right to try to justify your behavior, which makes her feel that you are more stubborn and finally broke up, which makes her more sure that it's right to leave you. You have been together for some time, and the advantages and disadvantages of both sides are well known, so calm communication will be more acceptable than aggression. Learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes, put yourself in her shoes, reflect on it, and don't expand the contradiction just because of a little contradiction, you will silently make targeted changes. When you appear in front of him with a brand-new face, the new way of communication will drive her to change, so as to achieve your goal of redemption, and even she will take the initiative to come back to you. Third, a sincere heart, don't beat around the bush, be measured and domineering. Because of this, she thinks you are special; It's masculine again. Women like this feeling and care more about the quality of communication. If you just say something without nutrition, it will make her feel bored chatting with you, and slowly she will lose interest in you. At the same time, you are too tired to have a wonderful conversation with her, which is also a feeling of insufficient feelings. It takes a lot of courage for her to be with you again, because the taste of lovelorn is as painful as stabbing someone in the heart with a knife. When she thinks you really want to start over with her, she will come back to you. Fourth, enhance self-worth. Do the first few steps, and you can start to change yourself. The process of saving one's predecessor is also a process of improving one's self-worth. Strengthening self-improvement and making yourself better in the process of freezing is the biggest role of emotional freezing. The incumbent saw your change and frozen the previous emotional foundation. By this time, he no longer hates you, and maybe he will have some affection for you. At this time, he can't help but contact you and even want to get back together with you. How to make him miss you more after breaking up? To save a person, we must first know how to love. When saving, there are always a group of people who kidnap each other in the name of love, but are they really saving because of love? More for their own face, in order to save. In their world, being dumped is a very shameful thing. For their own dignity, they had to save each other, even if it was unsuccessful. Also want to create some embarrassment for each other. This is the recovery psychology of some people. Later, you told me that you were wrong, and I really wanted to make it right, not to vent my anger or to be dignified. But talking is useless. In feelings, you are the dominant, if you really want to save each other. The first thing you have to do is to change your mind. Love is not bondage, nor kidnapping. So if you want to make it back, the first step is to find out whether you can make the other person feel your love comfortably. 2. To save a person, it is painful to leave him room to break up, but love is a game for two people after all. Even if the other party proposes to break up, I think he is probably uncomfortable. After all, the relationship has not been broken for such a long time. In order to vent your emotions, you go to the other company and come to the door. Have you considered each other's feelings? The more you do this, the more disappointed the other person will be, because you will make the other person feel that you really don't know him, and then push you further and further. On the contrary, what you need to do is not to disturb each other first, and give each other a time and space to calm down and think about the problem. Only when the negative emotions of two people slowly dissipate can the problem be effectively solved. 3, to save a person, we must understand that attraction is king. Instead of focusing on the other person, it is better to shift your attention to yourself. Redemption is actually to attract the other party back again, not by stalking. Why did he go with you in the first place Since I can be attracted to you once, there will be a second time. Why did the other party break up with you? Because in love, people who make rapid progress will always get rid of those who are stagnant, because people's instinct is to explore the extension and connotation of life more. The hint that a man is waiting for you to save is 1. If a person is still reluctant to part with you, he will always praise or comment in your circle of friends. After breaking up, I found that this man was still commenting on your talk or your circle of friends. In this way, this man is waiting for you to save him. In fact, you two have not entered the desperate situation at all. You find that your old one hasn't accepted anyone yet. Perhaps in his heart, you are still the most important, and you are the most reluctant to part with him. If someone asks, he is always twittering and doesn't know how to answer. In fact, he is waiting for you to come back to him. This is very important. What are the signs that men can recover? 1. Many men will still miss each other after breaking up, so they will interfere in each other's lives and don't want each other to have sex with other members of the opposite sex. If some men keep in touch with you after breaking up, they can't help but want to care about you. At this time, men can be redeemed. They probably haven't forgotten, and you are still thinking about you. In fact, when men break up, sometimes they just seem to care about it on the surface, but they still don't want to break up. So many men will choose to endure the breakup silently, thinking that they will get back together with you one day.