What? Can you get pregnant by eating folic acid?
What? Didn't miss m just stay with her boyfriend?
What? Miss m wants to get pregnant before marriage?
……
S is also in distress situation. She said that Miss M seems to be a different person. Now she is no longer the maverick "royal elder sister", but trying to please her boyfriend and beg for a "long-term" red card. According to S, Miss M's original words were: I'm almost 30, and I can't stand falling in love with young people anymore. I'm getting married!
……
What do you mean, almost 30 years old? What do you mean you can't afford love? I believe this sentence will be sprayed to death by many independent women
Forget about miss m for the time being. Let's talk about our unilateral love. Do you think it will last long?
Absolutely not!
Guagua is not sweet, and the robbed girl is not spicy.
People who pay unilaterally will collapse one day.
So, begging for love is better than not!
Woman, this life is so short, trying to please yourself is much more enjoyable than trying to please men!
Miss X, 30 years old, is now the planning manager of a listed company. Now, she goes to the gym to exercise three times a week, attends flower arranging classes on weekends, gets together with colleagues and friends after work, occasionally goes shopping with her girlfriends to buy clothes, and dresses herself up with brand-name cosmetics.
She lives a wonderful life alone!
She said that girls should live for themselves!
She was not like this in her early years.
In college, she is as eager for the nourishment of love as countless ignorant girls.
As soon as she graduated, she left home with her first boyfriend and came to Shenzhen.
The boyfriend quickly found a job and quickly integrated into the new environment.
However, she couldn't find an ideal job for a long time. After all, she must be close to her boyfriend, with high salary and professionalism.
Boyfriend said it doesn't matter, he can keep her.
She was happy and guilty, and vowed to give him the warmest home.
She keeps the house tidy every day. When he goes to work, she prepares shoes and socks for him; When he came back, she served hot soup and food; He took a bath, and she even gave him bath water. ...
He praised her for being virtuous, caring for her family, being a good daughter-in-law and having a sweet mouth.
Before long, she finally found a good job.
She is very capable, the leaders trust her, and at the same time, she has been given many important jobs.
She can't finish it, but she never works overtime because she has to go back and cook for him.
The leader sent her on a business trip, but she declined politely.
She doesn't even attend colleagues' parties because he says male colleagues have ulterior motives;
On a company trip, she was worried that he couldn't find socks and underwear, and he didn't have a good time. ...
Her world just revolves around him.
Later, the leader felt that she was incompetent and no longer attached importance to her; Colleagues didn't dare to disturb her and didn't call her at the party; Students who talk less have never contacted her actively. ...
So she feels that besides her parents, he is the only person who is best for her in this world; She is going to, in this life unless he doesn't marry!
But instead, he has more parties and can't finish talking about "work". He goes to socialize every day and comes home later and later. ...
She began to think: she would ask him where he went, she would peek at his mobile phone, she would smell whether he smelled of perfume, and whether there was lipstick on his white shirt. ...
He began to dislike him: why didn't she trust him, why was her clothes so bad, how her personality and temper changed, and her figure was not good-looking. ...
Since then, he no longer likes to kiss her, and he feels more soot; Every time the essential "sex scene" gradually disappeared; Later, because I was tired from work, I simply refused.
In this way, they repeat the boring life every day, and the so-called home can no longer be warm.
Later, he often went out at night, drinking in bars, smoking and playing games, watching videos and chatting with beautiful women.
She thinks she is tired of this kind of life. She just started to please him, and then shouted at the top of her lungs: She doesn't want this life, she wants them to be good, and she wants to make up. ...
"Made up? Can we still do it? "
"Why not, I am still me?"
"But I am not me anymore, and you are not the person I want, okay?"
"I don't understand, but we agreed!"
"So what? We are all grown up, and it is time to solve this problem in an adult way. "
"What do you mean?"
"Let's break up!"
"Can you not take this step, you don't like me to change, ok? We don't want to be apart! "
"Can we grow up and stop wasting ... I'll go out looking for a house tomorrow and leave it to you. Girls are too tired to find a house. "
"Then don't look. We live together, just like before. "
"Do you want me to be so unique? Can't you live without me? "
"I really can't live without you! You took me to Shenzhen, you said you would fight with me, you said we would have a long time, you told me to stay away from the social circle, it was you, it was you, how could you? "
She wailed.
And he slammed the door!
Yes, at first, we said we would go on together. We said we would be together forever. We also said that we won't get married unless you love you. We love and spoil you, but that's just the beginning!
It is possible that he really thought so at first, and he really loves you so much that he can't extricate himself. It is also true that he will give you a home.
However, woman, this can't be an excuse for you to rely on him gradually, let alone a reason to hinder your growth and progress.
You got it? You live for yourself. You shouldn't live for anyone, including your parents.
In love, if you choose to stand still and pay blindly, it will only make him look down on you more and more.
So, why beg for such love? You should pursue life.
No one can live without anyone. If there is, it is deceptive, or self-deception!
So, begging is fucking love, that's the grave!
Teacher Z used to be a playboy in our class. She is a realistic version of "Girls We Chased Together in Those Years", a goddess that many boys dream of, and a demon that many girls envy and hate.
She was born in a scholarly family and has been a people's teacher for generations. She has read poetry books since she was a child, and she is also proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. She is excellent in her studies and is the apple of almost all teachers' eyes; She is gentle and clever, and is the most ideal child in the eyes of all parents.
To say that such a person can almost be described as "perfect", and his future life will not be much worse.
However, the result was unexpected.
It is said that after she went to college, she began to be pursued by an art boy.
Boys chased him for four years and finally won his heart in senior three.
Soon they established a relationship, yes, that kind of relationship.
I don't know if the girl doesn't understand the routine of the young man, or if she has lived in a simple world for too long and is eager to find the excitement outside. In short, she just lost her virginity for the first time in more than 20 years.
Then he began to bring her into his circle.
She discovered that the outside world can still live so easily.
University life, love muddle along; Don't study, talk about drama in the dormitory; If you don't want to attend class, then skip class; Copy each other's exams and pass. Just a piece of paper, you can buy it with money; It's boring at night, so let's go out to soak. There is no night return, only over the wall!
She suddenly had an epiphany and felt that she had been too single these years.
I gave up a lot for studying, for my parents and for my so-called dream.
Dandelion, which was originally flying with the wind, was simply pressed in a locked greenhouse;
This is easy virtue's age, and he is labeled as a good girl;
Without freedom and happiness, what fragments can be embellished in the aftertaste?
He persuaded her to live a good life for herself in college;
He encouraged her to indulge herself at will in college;
He taught her that there must be a vigorous love in college;
He also encouraged her to be a rebellious girl in college. ...
She dyed Huang Cancan's hair, got the same tattoo as her boyfriend, wore a skirt with suspenders, and often wore heavy makeup, going in and out of bars and hotels; She also learned to lie, reported the school situation to her parents as usual, went to the library to study every night, and went to the children's home for extra lessons on weekends. She was a good student.
She thought, just let her indulge in college once, it doesn't matter, it's only one year. Then, she will continue to study for postgraduate entrance examination and PhD according to her parents' wishes, and then be a good girl in everyone's eyes. One year is not much to ask. She believes that her parents will understand her.
In fact, she knows in her heart that she is just betting with herself, and the bet is: one year's freedom.
If she wins, there will be good memories in the boring days; If she loses, it's a big deal to forget this ugly experience.
And the boyfriend is just a passer-by.
However, she lost completely.
The reason is that she is pregnant.
It was a little life, conceived in her belly, sharing joys and sorrows with her;
She saw the baby in the B-ultrasound, miraculously writhing;
But these are not the endings she expected.
If you miscarry, it is life. She is a highly educated person, and she can't do it.
If she doesn't have an abortion, then she must get married at once. How can she control herself?
She suddenly thought of the boyfriend who promised her life.
"I am pregnant!"
"ah? What happened? Whose? "
"Who else but you?"
"Didn't I take measures?"
"You don't want to be responsible?"
"No .. but have you decided?"
"What else can I do? Do I have to have an abortion? "
"I mean, should we reconsider and seriously think about how to solve this problem?"
"In a word, are you responsible or not?"
"I must be responsible. I will discuss it with my family first, and you can also find time to talk to your parents."
"Oh."
"My parents said that if I dare to have this child, they will not recognize me."
"What shall we do?"
"Don't worry, let's wait until they are angry. Now it's time to have children, and they will accept it sooner or later. "
"Is the wedding still possible?"
"Yes, but not now. You see, we are still at school. We can't let this affect our graduation. We'll reissue it after giving birth, okay? "
"What should I do, go to class with a big belly? What will others say about me? "
"Your stomach hasn't come out yet. It's almost winter vacation when I was born. If you wear more clothes in winter, you won't see it! "
In this way, the baby was born.
Paper can't wrap fire after all.
The two parents soon learned about their situation.
Her parents' attitude: either give him the child or never contact him again; If you don't get married honorably, make plans later.
His parents' attitude: we will raise the grandson, but the daughter-in-law won't need it for the time being.
And his attitude is his mother's attitude
She cried and let her tears flow like a waterfall.
However, even if you cry blind, it won't solve the problem.
Before,
He will appear at the door of her dormitory when she is ill;
He will play tricks to make her happy and will never be willing to quarrel with her;
He will often clamor to marry her and have many children;
He will love Xia Zi for ten thousand years like the Monkey King. ...
at present
He seems to have forgotten his original promise;
He seems powerless when he really meets something;
He doesn't seem to love her as much as he thinks;
He seems to be escaping from this cruel reality. ...
Although they got married in the end.
But after they got married, they all changed.
Before he took the initiative, she was passive;
Now, she takes the initiative and he is passive.
One person takes care of the baby, one person buys food and cooks, and one person cleans.
She said, no way, for the sake of children, I must be strong and patient.
Oh, forget it. I seem to see her future.
Pay blindly, and one day she will collapse.
Whether in love or marriage, life should be equal.
Respect each other as guests and care for each other. Such a relationship should be like love for a long time.
If you don't love, then let go. There's no need to grab each other and fall together. In the end, it will only hurt both sides!
A one-winged eagle, no matter which chicken it wants to catch, can't give it another matching wing. They will never fly high in the blue sky.
So, courtship, don't let it be!