The netizen exclaimed: I didn't expect many people as young as 14 to be so self-disciplined.
This is not the first time that Huang Duoduo has made a hot search on its own strength.
Last year, Huang Duoduo and the son of violinist Lv Siqing won five first prizes in the piano and violin competitions. In "The Life I yearn for", Huang Lei broke the news that she didn't like practicing piano, and Sun Li would often force her to practice.
It turns out that there are so many excellent people, and sometimes they practice hard.
I always thought that Mr. and Mrs. Huang Lei gave their children an open "happy education", but in fact we were all cheated.
The Excellence of a child lies not in how happy he is, but in how self-disciplined he is.
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Don't let happy education ruin children's future
A professor in Tsinghua once said indignantly: The biggest deception in China education is happy education, useless academic qualifications and the release of nature, which are distorting children's growth.
In life, when their children don't want to study, what many parents say most is: I don't want to give them too much pressure, and it is my greatest wish that they can have a happy childhood.
The seemingly enlightened respect of parents is actually a bottomless indulgence.
In the final of "I am a singer" 20 19 championship, Liu Huan told a true feeling of educating her daughter, which touched the hearts of many parents.
He said, "My daughter is the kind of person who likes playing the piano but doesn't want to practice. I feel a little regretful that I didn't force her to learn music since I was a child. In fact, if you force her to practice, she may be fine. Children with this talent can still push. "
Liu Huan's daughter showed musical talent from an early age.
However, Mr. and Mrs. Liu Huan insist on "happy education". As long as their children are happy, they will not be forced to do unhappy things or put too much pressure on them.
If Liu Huan had paid attention to cultivating her daughter's music at that time, with her talent and cultivation, her daughter would have passed on the music long ago.
Although there is talent, but lack of self-discipline, the result is that talent will be annihilated.
The real "happy education" is not simply to give children happiness, but to let children feel the happiness of progress in self-discipline.
In the TV series "Family with Children", Liu Xing complained that his parents didn't enroll him in interest classes when he was a child.
Mom said: "I reported it to you, and you don't learn it yourself!" " "
Liu Xing said: "At that time, I was too young to understand. If I don't want to learn, you won't let me learn. You have to force me to learn since I was a child. "
This sentence of Liu Xing expresses the inner regret of many adults who have no self-discipline since childhood.
I have heard a saying: adults are uncomfortable and they are uncomfortable.
Every parent wants their children to be better people, but they often ignore that every excellent person is often a very self-disciplined person.
Cai Kangyong said that the biggest regret in the world is not that I can't, but that I could have.
My parents' biggest regret is that I chose to indulge you when I could have been strict with you.
Self-discipline is the fastest curve for children to overtake.
Liu Yuanyuan, the champion of Super Speaker, once said: I am happy every holiday, not because I can relax and play, but because I can finally have a long time to work hard secretly.
Liu Yuanyuan was born in the countryside. Before high school, she was almost the scum of the school. After high school, she began to counterattack.
She got up the earliest among the girls in school and insisted on going to the playground to recite English. It rained and snowed all the time.
She doesn't go home in winter and summer vacations, and insists on going to the school library for self-study every day.
During the postgraduate entrance examination, in order to save money, she shared an apartment with her friends.
Even though there is water in the snow, she still studies by herself. When she came to the study room and found few people, she thought she would be admitted.
Because she knew that self-disciplined people were the easiest to succeed, she finally achieved a counterattack and was successfully admitted to Peking University.
It is enough to make a master of learning and give him a long vacation, but to destroy a child, just let him spend a long vacation indulgently.
Hengshui under the epidemic continues to brush the screen, and two words are projected behind the screen: self-discipline.
Students get up at 5: 40 every morning to read books, take 6 online classes and do 8 sets of exercises a day, excluding self-study and exams. Working and sleeping at home is similar to working at school.
During the epidemic, some students studied 16 hours a day, while others practiced writing and printing.
Hengshui is the myth of college entrance examination, not how smart the students are, but how hard they work and how self-disciplined they are.
A teacher said: "after the epidemic, students will have obvious two-level differentiation." Self-discipline will become better and better, and it is a big step; Without self-discipline, you will fall far behind. "
The epidemic has lengthened the holiday, but self-discipline has widened the gap between people. It can be seen that self-discipline is the fastest corner overtaking.
Every time you are lazy, it will be the deepest regret in the future.
Teaching children self-discipline is the real enrichment.
Children's self-discipline is not innate, but needs to be cultivated. In this process, parents' guidance is very important for children.
Every parent should let their children form the good habit of self-discipline.
1, let children be their own role models.
Recently, my husband became a madman, and my son sent a circle of friends to take online classes and do homework.
I said, "Why do you sunbathe your baby every day? Very annoying. "
He said, "I asked him to be my role model."
It turns out that every time I send a circle, my husband publicly tells my son "You are great".
After a long time, my son naturally feels that he is really great. In order to maintain this image, he will do everything consciously. In the process of this kind of effort, self-discipline is quietly developed.
Every child needs an example on the road to growth, and the best example is himself.
2. Help children find interesting things.
Interest is the best teacher, and children are only willing to take the initiative and focus on what they are interested in.
A few days ago, Han Han took photos of his running in Weibo and quickly went to Weibo for hot search.
In addition to his 5 km speed of only 18 minutes and 36 seconds, his topless photos reveal the charming figure of six-pack abdominal muscles.
Han Han is a real sports fan. He likes running and running since he was a child.
Now in my thirties, I can still keep such a good figure. It can be seen that Han Han is a very self-disciplined person, and the motivation of self-discipline comes from his hobby of sports.
Every child doesn't know what he is interested in, which requires careful guidance from parents to help children find their own interests.
If you are interested, you will have self-discipline, and if you have self-discipline, you will shine.
Parents will be self-disciplined, and so will children.
Self-disciplined parents can teach self-disciplined children.
Two days ago, a father and son in Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province, used the limited space on the roof and at home to run 10 km every day in order to continue to exercise during the epidemic.
Parents are masters and children are supervisors.
When parents know self-discipline, children will get the message and become the same people as their parents through imitation and learning.
Behind the self-disciplined and studious children, parents who are equally self-disciplined and studious often stand.
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Life is impermanent, and self-discipline is king.
Parents please remember to tell their children:
If you can't recite a book, someone will recite it;
If you can't do the problem, someone will;
What you put off till tomorrow, someone will finish it today;
Then, I'm sorry, the school you want to go to can only be attended by others; The life you want can only be lived by others.
Self-discipline is the ultimate weapon for a child to walk in society.