If you are a perfectionist, no matter how hard the other person tries in the future, you can't heal the pain in your heart. Then I suggest you divorce. Don't think that living in an unhealthy family will hurt your child. If you think it is possible to make up, I suggest you face it frankly, because betrayal has already happened, and complaining and getting angry can only hurt yourself. Calm down and think about why the other person is doing this, what shortcomings he has in his marriage life, and then change his mentality and way of doing things, and change his lifestyle. Don't think that cheating on your spouse is the end. There are many happy things in life. It doesn't mean that your spouse is the only happiness. Don't pin the source of happiness on your spouse. Learn to love yourself, find your own happiness and divert your attention. The passage of time will heal the pain in your heart.

Therefore, after your wife cheated, in order to minimize the damage, there are only two choices: either completely forgive her faults, try to repair the cracks and live the rest of her life; Or give up completely and leave flatly. The most important thing here is your attitude. Whatever your final choice is, be thorough. Why should it be thorough? Because only by being thorough, not dragging your feet, and not wandering around can you bring the least harm to yourself and others.