At first, I followed the travel agency. Later, I felt that I was not free and spent a lot of money. The salary of our old couple is less than 6000 yuan a month. In addition to arranging their lives and wanting to travel to several cities, we have to choose the way of free travel. I felt good all the way. I traveled freely in 58 cities for three years and traveled abroad for 297 days, spending 4 1343 yuan. In retrospect, I don't even believe in myself. I am old and my heart is beating wild. It's not easy to remember that I can go today.
I remember my first free trip. I went to Wuxi and organized several people to live in nursing homes. In the process of playing, everyone has different interests, different consumption concepts and different economic conditions. Later, I slowly explored the freedom of myself and my wife for a long time. With some free travel experience, I finally took the first step of free travel.
In fact, free travel is to challenge yourself and travel in an unknown city. Everything in the journey is strange and unknown, and all the strategies must be completed by yourself. I am like a primary school student, learning to sum up experience after each free trip, and gradually becoming free to obey the rules and find some rules.
Because I choose to travel freely, my mind becomes more flexible, my thinking becomes more agile and my steps become lighter. In short, as long as the next city goal is determined, any kind of spirit can be so excited that it will forget that it is an old man at this time. There is a growing sense of urgency now, and I always feel that time passes too fast. If I don't speed up my free travel, I won't be able to go to several cities in a year. So on 20 19, I will speed up the pace of free travel, travel to more cities, and make the road of free travel go further and faster.
Traveling in Haining
Travel by train again and again
Some tickets for our old couple to travel to 58 cities.
When people reach the age of 60, there are many things that should be left behind, no longer to think about, or even completely put down. Since we haven't got it yet, why think about it? It's time to think about yourself! What they think most is these aspects:
Have a real home of your own. There are still many 60-year-old people working in rural areas. They have reason to go out, but they are out all the year round, suffering and tired, and have no fixed place to live; For people who have given birth to two (or three) sons, some children have actually reached a way of "taking turns to support the elderly" on the issue of supporting their parents, making the elderly always feel homeless; People in their sixties are also married with their children. When children grow up, they should also have their own space, and more should try to avoid small contradictions. Parents don't want to be with them.
In any case, people want to have a home that really belongs to them. People in their sixties are not old, and there are still twenty years to live. The old house left by my parents, my hometown in the country, or living in a corner of the city can all be my home. This can reduce children's unnecessary troubles, help themselves and feel at ease.
Save some money for the elderly, don't panic. Old people in cities have pensions that can't be spent. Some people think about their children and grandchildren, making themselves very embarrassed and pitiful; Old people in rural areas have spent most of their lives marrying their sons, building houses and repairing houses, and exhausted all their possessions. Many people still owe a lot of debts. There are even some unfilial sons, and even parents have a pension of more than 80 yuan every month.
In fact, at this age, selfishness means living for yourself. First of all, you must be "financially independent". What the child gives you is your "exclusive product", and you can't "share"; Your own pension and pension are privately owned by you. If your children want to use it, they will borrow it. If you borrow it, you have to pay it back. Although life does not take them, death does not take them, closing your eyes is theirs. This time, they formed the habit of frugal housekeeping only out of kindness. Moreover, my own money is freely spent, and I have to spend money on life and medical treatment, so I don't have to open my mouth with my children, which saves unnecessary trouble.
Children and grandchildren are not as good as wives. People in their sixties are married. When people are old, the love when they are young has already turned into affection, which is the most stable. As the saying goes, "Young couples always feel sorry for each other", which is true. Children have their own jobs or careers, and they also have their own children to take care of, leaving only the old couple. Cooking and washing are also done by your wife, whether you take headache medicine or your wife brings you water. Thankfully, life can take care of itself. If you can't take care of yourself, you are bitter and tired, and only your wife is sorry. Your wife is the one who will really accompany you to the end. Taking care of each other and cherishing each other is the greatest happiness in life.
Pay attention to health and live a healthy mind. When people reach the age of 60, some people say they can get by. The word "forbearance" expresses the bitterness of the elderly, which is determined by different living conditions and their own conditions. In fact, the only person who can change is himself, that is, to keep a healthy and cheerful attitude. Even if life is not satisfactory, you should know how to protect yourself, eat and wear warm clothes, and don't feel ashamed and give up on yourself; At the same time, we should pay attention to "health preservation": less drowsiness and more activities. I have met many old people in the countryside who always fall asleep as soon as they eat. They smoke a lot of dry cigarettes and drink strong tea, which is bad for their health. There are few fitness equipment and activities in rural areas. Actually, it's not bad to get up early and go for a walk. There is an old man from a military background in my village. Although he walks a little shambling, he never shambles. He said that he got up at 5 o'clock every morning, walked out of the house, walked around the fields and the river, and returned home at 8 o'clock. But seeing him holding the radio all the way and holding his head high, you can't see that he is an 89-year-old man. Let a person not envy also not line!
Yes, people over 60 should think more about themselves. Worrying too much, worrying too much, isn't it yourself? As long as you can take care of yourself, have a good beginning and a good ending. It is a self-made blessing and the greatest happiness of children. What do you think of people in their sixties?
In reality, what do people in their sixties usually think? This problem is very complicated, because the people, the people, have a hundred hearts. Everyone's living conditions, conditions, personality, habits, cultivation, culture and connotation are of course different, and the thinking of rural people and urban people is also different. The 60-year-old city people retired, lived a happy old age with their pensions, watched TV, walked, danced, fished and lived a sunset life every day. Someone hired a nanny to cook and wash clothes at home. Rural children go to work in cities, and the elderly should take care of their children as well as their studies. They are busy with farm work in the fields every day, leaving early and returning late, which is very hard. There is no time for exercise at all. They say that working every day means exercising. Country people think about what they need to do tomorrow, while city people think about where to go fishing tomorrow, or it is better and cheaper to go to that supermarket to buy food. In short, everyone has different ideas.
Old people with good health and good economic income just want time to pass slowly and enjoy life in peacetime.