The performance of straight male cancer in love
1, control freak
Most straight men are masculine in love, and like to control and restrict their girlfriends' social life, especially with the opposite sex. If you have a boyfriend with straight male cancer, he will forbid you to contact men other than him and ask you to delete all the contact information of your ex and friends of the opposite sex who have a good impression on you. If you find that you don't do what he says, he will make a scene, lose his temper and make you nervous. The control of straight male cancer can be divided into emotional control, social control and economic control.
2, double standard dog
Straight male cancer is a double-label dog in love. It is very demanding of his girlfriend, but he is very lenient with himself. He can come whenever he wants, and his girlfriend has no right to interfere. For example, you must get home before what time, and you should call him in time to report that you are safe when you get home. Moreover, every phone call from a man with straight male cancer should be answered. You can answer or not answer the phone you call him. If he finds that you have some contact with the opposite sex, he will suspect that you are very open. And this kind of straight cancer people are fooling around outside and having an affair with all kinds of girls. When you remind him that his behavior is out of line, he may say that it's just a joke with his sister. Why are you making such a fuss?
3. Egocentricity
Once a straight cancer man is in love, he will ask you to revolve around him. He is the center of your world. He must always keep track of your whereabouts, completely control you in his own hands, and you must obey him. He will arrange your dating, eating and other activities in love, and he will not ask his girlfriend for advice at all. The straight Cancer man will also stipulate what clothes and shoes you can't wear in summer, and he will dress according to his own preferences.
Step 4 be selfish
Once you become the girlfriend of straight cancer, you should be ready to be his top nanny. He will ask you to keep your home clean and tidy, and he will cross his legs and enjoy this comfortable environment. If his emotions come up, you can only take care of his emotions, and he won't take care of your emotions and feelings at all. If you have any objection to some aspects of him, then he will probably dump you and say, I am such a person and I am not happy that you can leave. Making friends or falling in love with straight male cancer requires a strong psychological quality. If your skin is thin enough, you will naturally want to drill a hole in the ground in minutes and completely disappear from the world of straight male cancer. Is straight male cancer really useless? People have different views on this. If you just ask straight male cancer for help and do something, it is estimated that straight male cancer should not be a problem. It's just that if you want to communicate with straight cancer for a long time, it's estimated that it will be difficult. Either he is crazy or you will collapse. Cherish life and stay away from straight male cancer. Straight male cancer is a disease in the final analysis, with different degrees of symptoms. Some are early patients and may be saved; For those patients who retry straight male cancer, it is estimated that they can only ask for more happiness. This is not sexism, just seeking truth from facts. For girls, falling in love with straight cancer is undoubtedly a shot in the temple. Advise girls that not everyone can be a Van Gogh in love, so stop when you are ready. Try to avoid falling in love with straight male cancer, and don't fantasize that you can change straight male cancer through your own strength transformation.
The performance of straight cancer in treating true love
1, will not take the initiative to confess
If a man with straight male cancer falls in love with a woman, then he will definitely not take the initiative to confess. Often, girls are more active and will not easily confess. Maybe their hearts are already choppy, but they still have to pretend that they don't care, pretend to be cold, and say that they still have to think about it.
2. Don't understand romance
Although a man with straight male cancer falls in love with a girl, he doesn't know how to add a little interest to love and won't create romance. They have a reserved and noble heart and can't give you a good love experience at all. No matter whether he yearns for romance or not, no matter how much he loves you and misses you, you can't expect to hear anything from him. Every holiday, birthday, anniversary, etc. It is likely that you have carefully prepared it, but he thinks it is too redundant to buy a flower.
Just like the cold war
Most boys with straight male cancer have the same heart, live in their own world and lack the internal force of self-expression. Even if there are fluctuations in my heart, I don't know where to start expressing it. When you are angry, they really don't know how to deal with it. They can only express women's sensibility through silence and action.
4. Active dedication
A straight cancer man falls in love with you, and he will use various actions to express his love. They are very controlling and will take care of everything from dating to life. He wants to help you with everything. He wants to participate in your whole life.
5. Low emotional intelligence.
Those with low EQ must be self-talking, self-directing, self-acting, self-amorous, ignorant of your emotional expression or playing dumb (mostly playing dumb), ignorant of sweet words, ignorant of girls' minds, and so on. They are self-centered and prone to conflicts in their communication and life.
6. Restrictive behavior
If you have a straight Cancer boyfriend, he will try his best to limit your social life, especially with the opposite sex. Once you associate with any friend of the opposite sex, he will think that you must have cheated him and done something wrong to him. You are a slut. You can only have him in your world.
Step 7 be selfish
In the eyes of straight male cancer, women are basically the role of nannies. All they want is women's care and love, but they never think they have to give love. He is a pure winner.
8. Control your mind
Straight male cancer can't tolerate different advice from himself. Once others, especially women, disagree with him, he will fly into a rage and even swear or fight. However, straight male cancer thinks that women are inferior in heart and are prone to differences in daily life.
The difference between straight male cancer and male chauvinism
1, male chauvinism: forced to give yourself some obligations based on your male identity. Straight Cancer: Because of his male identity, he was forced to give himself some rights.
2. I like a paragraph in a Zhihu user's answer: male chauvinism: you have to listen to me because you are my woman; Straight Cancer: You have to listen to me, because my penis is small.
I feel that many people beautify male chauvinism. I think male chauvinism is just a sugar-coated male chauvinism. The difference lies in male chauvinism, which holds that men are better than women, so men should take care of women. The so-called straight male cancer means that men are strong and women are weak, so you women should obey my wishes and be good women.
4. Male chauvinism is stricter than self-discipline, while straight male cancer is stricter than law.
I think the difference is respect. Male chauvinism: leave this and let me do what is a man's thing; Straight male cancer is what you should do. Why do you want me to do this? You are my woman. You should serve me.
6, straight male cancer: women should eat, clean, sensible, obedient, independent, men should not force women to talk and do things. Male chauvinism: women don't have to work too hard As long as I have the ability, I can support you and protect you, so that you can rely on me and avoid being hurt.
7. Similarity: Everyone thinks that women are inferior to men. The difference: Straight men and cancer regard women as their own tools, while male chauvinism regards women as their own women.
8. Straight Cancer: The only responsibility of a woman is to have children; Male chauvinism: I am a man. I want to take responsibility for this family. I want to earn money and buy a garage. Your only responsibility is to have children. After that, if you don't want to do housework, I'll hire a housekeeper. If you don't want to take care of the children, I'll hire a nanny. If you want to open a small shop, I'll give you money.
9. One has no money, and the other has no money.
10, male chauvinism: I care about what a big man and your little girl care about, so you should; Straight Cancer: Why should I bow and scrape to a little girl like you?
1 1, there is no difference. For women, it is male chauvinism that makes them happy if they have the ability to earn money to support their wives. If love rat is poor and drives the losers to complain, he is classified as straight male cancer.
12, male chauvinism: no work. You don't have to go to work. If something goes wrong, I will bear the burden of others bullying you and find me. Stay at home, because you are my woman. Straight Cancer: You should be financially independent. You should do all the housework. It's your fault that others bully you. You should serve me honestly because I have a penis.
13, male chauvinism: Look at this bag, one is the first four or five you bought, and later you bought less and more expensive. Straight Male Cancer: What? An ice cream costs tens of dollars and supports several packs of cigarettes! You are sick!
14, male chauvinism: This dress is too revealing, so you are not allowed to wear it. You can wear it at home, only I can see it! Straight Cancer: Why don't you wear pink? Who do I like/wear that X for! Make an x!
15, male chauvinism: eat more vegetables instead of always eating meat, which is good for your health and obedient. Straight male cancer: how can you waste food! Do you know that it is not easy for my parents to raise me? I don't feel like eating anything.
16, male chauvinism: I have the ability to support you. If you don't want to work, you can also cultivate other hobbies. The little girl is so lucky that she works hard. It's good to arrange flowers and watch a play. Straight Cancer: What friends do you make? And socializing with colleagues? Isn't it enough for you to do so much work at home after work? Why do women go out in public all day when they are so idle?
17, male chauvinism: Your friends will bring you bad influence, so don't be intimate. Straight Cancer: Your friend is not a good woman at first sight. You should break up with her at once! Let me know that you have contacted her again, and I will. . .
18, male chauvinism: want to go to the postgraduate entrance examination? Go if you want, take the exam and have fun. It doesn't matter if you don't pass the exam. In a word, bringing home the bacon is a man's business. Straight male cancer: What's the use of such a highly educated woman? Learning to be a husband, tutoring children and serving in-laws is the truth.
19, male chauvinism: both boys and girls are good. Boys fell and hit when they were young, it doesn't matter. When they grow up, they should go out and see the world, but girls can't A girl is too delicate to let her suffer. Growing up will also worry parents. Just stay with us and live a stable life. Straight Cancer: I am the only one in our family. I am the root of our family. You must have a boy, and a girl is a money-losing product for others.
20. Male chauvinism: Women and children are weak, so we should give them hope of survival. Straight Male Cancer: Are Women Weak? Where is the weakness? At this time, whoever has the ability to live, no matter who is weak, I will live anyway. Get out of my way!
2 1, male chauvinism means: I think men should try to protect women outside. Straight Cancer: I think women should serve the whole family at home and dedicate their youth.
22, male chauvinism: you are my wife, I should give you money; Straight Cancer: You are my wife, so you should give me money.
23. Male chauvinism is at least responsible. For example, if his daughter-in-law is bullied, he will go out. Whether it's for the daughter-in-law or for the sake of face, this kind of thing happens to the straight man Cancer and will discuss with others how the daughter-in-law lives, which is extremely disgusting.
24. Male chauvinism feels that it is difficult for women to suffer. Do straight men think it is necessary for women to work so hard? According to my wishes, it is enough to find someone to get married and have children every day and do housework well. You have no right to say that I don't work hard outside, so I can only accept my fate.
25. Male chauvinism: I'm finished, it's your turn; Straight Cancer: When is your turn to talk?
26, male chauvinism is a condescending oppression and rule, straight cancer just wants to interfere with all women, he does not have this condescending mentality.
What happens when men spoil you?
1, everything knows how to respect you and take care of your feelings and thoughts.
If two people want to get along for a long time, necessary respect is indispensable. A man who has moved his heart to you must deeply understand this and always put your feelings and thoughts first. For example, where to play and what to do at ordinary times, not male chauvinism, will discuss with you gently. Even if there are differences sometimes, he will take the initiative to compromise and will not haggle with you. He will be particularly patient with you and will not be impatient with you easily. Even if you have a little temper sometimes, he will take the initiative to choose tolerance. In the process of getting along with you, it will make you feel particularly relaxed and comfortable. It is undoubtedly lucky to meet such a man who considers everything for you and respects your feelings.
2, often accompany you to do what you like, just to make you laugh.
When we love someone, we unconsciously want to see each other happy. A man who loves you deeply will always do his best to make you happy. And the best way is to do what you like with you. For example, if you like shopping, he doesn't say anything about giving his life to accompany women. You like delicious food. He often takes you around the streets, looking for delicious food everywhere. As long as you like it, he will accompany you and watch you satisfied. It was his happiest moment. In his mind, nothing is more important than making you happy.
3, down-to-earth enterprising, so that you can see hope.
What kind of man is most worthy of being entrusted for life? Of course, that's a down-to-earth person. He may not say a lot of sweet words to please you, but he will feel particularly practical and safe with him. I am also very self-motivated in my career. I am a potential stock, which shows you hope. Being with him in this way will make you progress together and lead a happy life. If you meet such a man, it is undoubtedly the most reliable. Please don't hesitate to stick to it.