Men can be romantic, and women can also be romantic.
How should a woman spend her heart?
After getting married, many women don't spend as much time dressing up as before, saying such nonsense as "I'm married anyway, what's there to dress up for".
When I went to my niece's house on weekends, I saw her unkempt, wearing wrinkled pajamas and a pair of dirty slippers, arguing with her neighbors at the top of her lungs.
Seeing me, he greeted me and said, "Oh, hey! It is getting better and better now. Look at this skin and figure ... "After that, her eyes dimmed. I know this is not a greeting, but a heartfelt envy.
In front of this woman with a yellow face, dark complexion and seriously out of shape, you would never think that she was a hot fashion beauty two years ago.
My niece was the editor in chief of a fashion magazine before she got married. She spends almost 80% of her energy and financial resources every day to dress herself up, and she is extremely demanding of herself.
But she resigned after giving birth to a child after marriage. Every day at home, she either mops the floor to cook or changes diapers for the children. No matter what new fashion she wears, a set of pajamas is enough. By the time she wanted to wear it, those clothes were long gone. Not to mention skin care and makeup, sometimes I don't even bother to wash my face.
I have repeatedly advised my niece not to be surrounded by her husband, children, floors that can't be wiped and greasy dishes that can't be washed at the best age. But my niece has given up on herself in advance. She said: "I don't have the best age, so I'll make do with it in my life."
But she added: Aunt, I still envy you. You are about my mother's age, but your figure hasn't changed at all.
If you have good skin, you should thank your parents for their gifts, but it is also blind not to spend time and energy to maintain yourself. It's like holding a good deck of cards. It's useless not to play.
Women must persist in the pursuit of beauty, even in the worst days.
Learning this matter will never be regardless of age, occupation and education level. There is no "can", only "will".
No reason can be a shield to give up learning. Everything in this world is risky. Only by constantly improving yourself can it be a profitable project forever.
Behind self-confidence and aura, it is by no means accidental and lucky. You have to understand that there can't be a pie in the sky, even if it does, it won't hit you, but you are more willing to take the time to improve yourself than others. ?
Everyone knows that Liu Wen is not a talented model.
At first, others thought that she was ugly and walked badly on the catwalk, so she spent more time studying how models made expressions and posed to improve their fashion sense. ......
Others laughed at her poor English, so she practiced oral English again and again day and night.
Until now, we have seen Liu Wen, steady and shining on the T-stage, fluent in English during the interview, and breaking through again and again.
The beauty of a woman lies in her bones, not in her skin. The highest beauty of a woman is that she does not set limits for herself, always keeps learning and is always willing to take the time to improve herself.
Sister Yan is my neighbor and revolves around her husband all day. She is happier when her husband is happy, and she collapses when her husband is unhappy. Nevertheless, it is inevitable to be mercilessly abandoned.
After the divorce, Mei Jie also had a brief despair. Then she figured it out and decided to let go of herself and let the past become the past.
Living alone, you no longer need to take care of other people's lives and emotions. You can do whatever you want and have no time to do anything.
She went to the gym and lost 20 pounds in three months.
Throw away those greasy clothes in the past and put on simple and clean clothes;
Redecorate your home and put on your favorite furniture and color system;
Finally, she got back the heart that had been hanging on others, found herself and lived for herself all her life.
Now, every time I see Yan Jie, she smiles, and when I mention the failed marriage, she can face it calmly. Remember she said to me:
"Stupid woman throws her whole heart on others all day. Exquisite women must spend their hearts on themselves and let others worry. "
Why do women in China live so tired? I just like to worry about other people's affairs. When you can always worry about your own affairs, you can live comfortably and freely.
Pay attention to your figure, and you will bid farewell to the fat on your stomach, thick thighs and arms;
Pay attention to your appearance, and you will bid farewell to dull skin, acne grows wantonly, and wrinkles around your eyes become more and more obvious;
If you focus on your hobbies, you will bid farewell to the dull life and make yourself more substantial and pleasing to the eye.
If a woman only spends her mind on one man in the most important years, then you will beg this man not to leave you for the next few decades. If you focus on yourself, you will get a life that truly belongs to you.
A devoted woman can still live a sweet and beautiful life at any age.
Thank you, Rainbow Legend teacher, for introducing me to Hans Entrepreneurship Platform, and thank you, the builder of Hans Entrepreneurship Platform, so that an ordinary person like me can be better in thought and appearance in middle age than when I was young. Here, I learned nutrition knowledge and beauty knowledge, which made my future life more exciting.