Victor Gu Chian Peow said, "I am gratified to see such a self-motivated person." . Rujing choked and asked him, "You brought me to know ambition and let me taste the sweetness, but where is the end of ambition?" I don't know! "
The Story of Chipper runs through the fourth season. Rujing got stuck in the final in the first season and won the second place. In the second season, Jiang Sida came and won the third place. All the way to the fourth season, she said that she had worked hard, but she was still stuck. Maybe she won't get the wonderful king until someone names the show. She wants to say to Biao and the fans who have been pushing her progress: "There is nothing wrong with not being motivated. It is for people like us who are very, very motivated! " Looking at it like a silent cry, saying all the words, I believe everyone will see themselves in her more or less.
For most of us who are exhausted, we force ourselves to keep working hard, and sometimes we want to say to ourselves, Come on, don't be hard on ourselves, you don't have to be the best, not everyone wants to be a general.
Ode to Joy 2 is being watched more or less, and Mei Sheng, a fan, is becoming more and more upset. In the first season, I was distressed by her family pressure. In the second season, I was distressed that she put all her hopes on Wang Baichuan and gradually lost herself. She is too self-motivated. She wants to compare with Andy and Qu Xiaoyu and buy a house in Shanghai, because only by buying a house can she take root in this city. She forced Wang Baichuan to make continuous progress, which caused great psychological pressure on Wang Baichuan. Finally, the company went bankrupt, so she had to make a living as a driver and had to break up with Fan on her own initiative.
Only then did Fan realize that he was too harsh, but it was too late.
Many people scold Fan, thinking that her vanity killed herself and herself. But no one found that Fan was right. She was an ordinary person, talking about ordinary love, hoping that her boyfriend would improve and buy a car and house. Is this wrong? Fan Meisheng is self-motivated, but she used it in the wrong place and the wrong way.
My saddest scene was when Fan helped a client choose a gift for his daughter, then silently put on a crown headband and said to himself: Who doesn't want to be a princess?
Yes, if possible, Fan doesn't want to work hard in bad karma. She also wants to go on holiday like Andy, fall in love like a ditty, be heartless like Xiaoqiu and pursue love like Xiaoguan. But in reality, she must constantly remind herself of her present situation with her busy and self-motivated efforts, and constantly put pressure on Wang Baichuan to let her know that she is still trying to live a better life.
Just like she is in tears, I hope Wang Baichuan can tell her personally: You deserve the best.
Sometimes it's not that we are too hard on ourselves, but that we have no choice in life;
Sometimes it's not that I don't want to stop and live a comfortable life, but that I'm too afraid to miss it.
Chatting with friends some time ago. Since he started his youth journey, he has been very busy and has no time for leisure and entertainment. Sometimes going to work becomes a sideline, my mind is full of business, and I am exhausted after work. WeChat official account has no energy to update. He used to love photography very much, but he hasn't touched the camera for a long time. A person's life is busy. Every time we chat, what he regrets most is that I don't know where my time has gone.
Last time we met, he asked me if I was too ambitious and aloof.
He is brilliant, humorous and experienced in management. However, whether it is management recruitment or lecturer recruitment, he is unwilling to sign up. He said that he just wanted to do his simple work well and do something he liked in the rest of the time.
I know he is very hard and tired, but I still shared Cai Kangyong's words with him: No ambition, nothing wrong, but you will miss it.
I shared my life experience with him.
Once the company elected a host for the annual meeting, because it was too timid to sign up. Later, at the annual meeting, I found that I was better at hosting than the people on the stage.
In primary school, I memorized a speech by heart, but I was afraid to go on stage. After many years, I have been worried about it.
Life is short. When you are old and sitting in a rocking chair, when you look back on the past time, it is never what you did that is humiliating, but what you wanted to do but missed because you didn't have the courage.
I am still proud that I can bravely stand on the stage and sing a song in the college music elective course, although I am not full of five tones;
In the human body art class, the teacher praised the action standard and demonstrated it on stage;
There are also hands in ancient literature classes; New media classroom demonstration.
Cai Kangyong said that lack of self-motivation is a kind of miss. Xu made a surprise attack: if you do one thing with your heart, you will miss another. Life is about choosing and missing. The only thing we can do is to recognize and straighten ourselves and become better.
Self-motivation will make you braver.
In fact, many times, we don't have to make many things so ritualized. Love what I love, do what I do, and have no regrets, which is enough.
A friend once told me that it is good to do one thing at a time.
However, I am a self-motivated person. Last year, I got a fitness card, learned to swim, got a driver's license, bought a bunch of books, traveled everywhere, listened to lectures everywhere, and wanted to write articles and play the pipa when I was free.
I often make myself exhausted, but in the dead of night, I calm down and don't know what I really want.
Self-motivation really doesn't necessarily mean doing the best, doing everything well, but what a high-living life wants, doing what you want, don't miss it, don't regret it.
Some time ago, the news of Daniel Wu's renovation of the ancient town buildings was hotly searched. Many people know for the first time that Daniel Wu is an architect himself. Daniel Wu's father is an architect. He studied architecture in order to inherit his father's career.
Three years before Daniel Wu came to Hong Kong, his father had hoped that he could go back to California and find a job as an architect. But Daniel Wu thinks that architecture is only allowed to be creative in the learning stage. In an interview, he said publicly:
"I have a lot of classmates who have no enthusiasm for architecture after work. If you are in a company, you may not create. It takes more than ten years to climb to the position where you can create. I have a friend who works in a construction company and has painted the windows of the second floor for two years. He was an excellent student when he was studying. I think it's a pity. Why did this happen? At that time, I told myself, I don't want this, don't become a robot at work. "
Daniel Wu knew what he wanted, so when he clearly realized the current situation of the construction industry at that time, he made another choice.
Coincidentally, Eason Chan also graduated from the Department of Architecture of Kingston University and later became a singer. Professor Julius Weinberg, vice president of Kingston University, said: "The world may have lost an architect, but it has gained a musical genius."
There is a line in the Korean drama "The Doctor": Dad always says that the second favorite is a career and the first favorite is a hobby. So dad's main business is criminal litigation defense lawyer, and his sideline is coffee shop owner.
This sentence makes me deeply touched, so when I am looking for a job, I try to avoid looking for a job related to travel, even though I love traveling so much. Keep this hobby and fun and don't let it become a burden. At least, when I am tired from work, I can be a tour leader and show you around the city, or I can carry a backpack and go far away alone. This is my ambition to travel!
When I think of my college days, LuJian, a famous CCTV host, once gave a speech at my alma mater. Finally, he said, maybe you won't be engaged in journalism in the future, but studying journalism is to let you still have a reporter's touch and perspective when facing a news event in the future.
Everyone's life is full of infinite possibilities, and everyone's future is full of infinite possibilities. You can be an architect, a designer, a painter, a new media person, a game anchor, an actor, a singer, an online celebrity ... no matter what your occupation is, your past experience will affect your future life.
So, when you feel that your life is very tired now, try to stop and ask yourself what I really want. Don't be afraid to face all the problems, and bravely accept any idea you have: am I not motivated? I didn't do such a thing. Am I sorry for myself and my parents?
You can do nothing in the afternoon and brush a Japanese drama casually;
You can pick up a guitar instead of forcing yourself to recite English words;
You can travel aimlessly alone;
You can even KTV alone.
You can even sleep with your head covered;
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It's not that you are not self-motivated, you are looking for another possibility of life.
Daqing, a girl who loves to travel, shared the situation when she first came to Chipa. You can see her resume, because she rushed directly to Mi Gu's office and was rejected by two directors. Until the third director was willing to give her a chance to chat with her, and then she accidentally arrived now. Take Ma Weiwei as an example. She hopes to be Malik Weiwei in the future. Qing said that she is self-motivated and willing to take another step forward.
Ma Weiwei admits that when she was young, she worked hard and dared to fight for everything. But at a certain age, she began to try to let go of herself, not being the strongest and invincible, and her heart became softer and softer. This is a relaxed posture. Because only when you relax, you will focus all your attention on yourself, see your bottlenecks and limitations, and you will find that your efforts are not for progress, but for happiness. Ma Weiwei gave up his victory over Huang Zhizhong, but liked to argue with him. In the end, she will even give up winning this thing, this person or some kind of life.
As Buddhists say, everything is the best arrangement, when to put it down and when to get it. Stop, enjoy the thing itself, face life with a diversified attitude, and find the happiness of unexpected goals.
Ma Weiwei didn't lose her ambition, but began to enjoy it. Ambition should be a happy thing.
If you love watching Japanese dramas, you will become a master of Japanese dramas. You can write an article about the structure, lifestyle and concept of Japanese dramas.
Love music, you will have a hobby that will accompany you all your life, at least it will accompany you to be happy when you are depressed;
Love to travel, you can share your travel strategy with everyone;
Love singing, you can sing a song confidently at the annual meeting;
After a beauty sleep, my skin became better and I was confident.
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Nothing in this world is useless and nothing is wrong.
Cai Kangyong said that mistakes can be corrected, but once they are missed and lost, they can never come back. Nothing is taken for granted. You envy the dazzling figure of international superstars on the red carpet, but you don't know how hard they have gone through in making a movie. You envy those fashion bloggers. You just need to wear the clothes of sponsors to attend various shows in Milan and Paris easily, but you don't know that they have been trying their best to make mistakes and shoot all kinds of street shots since middle school.
So, as Cai Kangyong said, when self-motivation is in trouble, it is not an interruption, but a turn. In another direction, you can always find something worthy of your interest and enjoyment in any corner of your life.
Just like Yan Rujing mentioned what Huang Zhizhong said to her: There is no difference between people, only left and right.
Don't say that you are not self-motivated, you just chose another life path and walked out of your own different life on this road.
Don't be afraid of laziness, don't want to struggle, just follow your heart and be comfortable. If God closes a door for you, he will definitely open a window for you.
Whenever and wherever, just tell yourself not to miss it.