Chasing girls generally goes through these six stages: strangeness-friends-familiarity-ambiguity-intimacy-privacy. The difficulty of chatting and interacting with girls decreases with these six stages in turn, that is to say, the front is the hardest, the back is getting simpler and simpler, and the fault tolerance rate is getting higher and higher. First of all, chatting with girls can start with sharing yourself, finding topics from girls' circle of friends, talking about topics that girls are interested in and arousing girls' curiosity.

Here are some specific topics for chatting with girls:

1, share yourself

In the process of chatting, if you can't control your desire to check your account, you can share yourself actively. You can share your work status, your plans for the future, your past, the food you ate, the movies you watched and your feelings, but don't share too much, because everything needs moderation. You can improve your direct communication by talking about yourself. By the way, you can ask one after each sentence. .

2. Find a topic from the circle of girls' friends.

Chatting can not only share themselves, but also find topics from the state of girls sharing themselves. The quickest way is to circle of friends. The general state of girls' circle of friends is their current mood. For example, a girl can talk about losing weight in private by taking a selfie. For example, if a girl sends a photo of food, she can talk to her privately and ask her where to eat. For example, when a girl travels, she can send a circle of friends to talk about the topic of travel. Where she has been before, she feels much more reliable.

3. Talk about some topics that girls are interested in.

What are girls generally interested in? Frequent topics can always arouse girls' interest, such as entertainment gossip, food, horoscope, travel, emotion, fitness, cooking and cake. When talking about these topics, girls can follow you around, and the point to pay attention to is to upgrade your relationship in time and the relationship with ordinary friends who have been together for a long time. If you talk too much about these topics, you will become good friends, not lovers.

4. Arouse girls' curiosity

This is actually a routine. Everyone is most curious about herself, so let's start with her and find a specific point from her. For example, I feel that you have been a little different recently. I found something about you. I haven't seen you for two days, and I feel different again. One thing these words have in common is that girls are easy to say. What is the difference? What are the characteristics? What is the difference? In this way, the curiosity of girls is aroused by your success.