How to face and solve this confusion?
1, carefully choose the reading object.
You can choose to brush countless hot comments on WeChat. After the excitement, you may only remember a chicken feather. You can also choose a classic book to savor, so as to improve your ideological depth, knowledge and understanding. But it is difficult, just as it is difficult for you to choose between delicious McDonald's fried chicken and light fruit and vegetable fitness meals. Of course, if you think that "doing the right thing, not the easy thing" is your life principle at any time, such a choice may not be painful.
2. Improve the value of your time.
It is called improving the granularity of their time. People think that the time of awesome people is often accurate to hours or even minutes. It is precisely because they think their time is very important and precious that they will make good use of their minutes and maximize the value of limited time just like cherishing life, so that the value of life will be maximized. Of course, what can be done to maximize their time value? This requires asking yourself what you want most and the time you spend.
I like myself from the bottom of my heart
In my personal experience, if you don't like yourself from the bottom of your heart, when you are faced with many choices, you will be very devoted to considering many factors that have nothing to do with the matter itself, which will make your choice very impure, because if you have too many things to consider, you will become bound by your hands, stagnate and lose the courage to act.
4. Find something that excites you.
Think about how long you haven't been excited and excited. This is largely because you have lived too long without passion. There is no passion, largely because there is no change. Without change, there will be no passion. The fundamental reason why you haven't changed is that you haven't tried hard to discover and try new things!