1. I like to fight and touch the opposite sex.

Boys don't like their girls having too much contact with men other than themselves and her father, both verbally and physically.

For example, playing some dirty jokes or ambiguous jokes with friends or male colleagues, or patting and pinching each other ~ If he knows, he will think it is flirting, which is the most unbearable and may even follow suit ~

In work or life, girls will meet many opposite sex besides their male tickets. At this time, no matter the relationship is good or bad, it is best not to fight or have physical contact with the opposite sex. Even if you have no wild desires or just want to make more friends, you'd better make sure he doesn't know ~

2. Always mention ex-boyfriends

When you are with him, you can't help but mention your ex-boyfriend frequently, tell the little things you used to be together, or accuse him of being unfaithful and unfair to you ~

Maybe you just talk about or express your feelings, but as an on-the-job worker, you will be very uncomfortable to hear about the other person's predecessor, especially if you bring it up on your own initiative. He will think that you are still obsessed with your ex, that you don't respect him, and then get angry ~

So even if he asks, don't say too much. It is best to take it skillfully with a forgotten attitude. The topic of ex is the most likely to cause bad blood between the two sides ~

3. I like chatting with the opposite sex and am too enthusiastic about the opposite sex.

If your male ticket sees that you enjoy chatting with other members of the opposite sex, he will feel that he has not brought you enough happiness, otherwise, how can you chat with others so hi ~

He doesn't think about the characteristics of a person's social diversity. He only saw how happy you were talking. Once he has this idea about you, he is not far from being cold to you.

At the same time, if your opposite sex is too enthusiastic, it will make him unbearable. Maybe it's just because of your manners, but he will think that you are kneeling on others and will despise you from the heart. Men can be ruthless and unreasonable sometimes ~

4. Private life is chaotic, and I have had a bad love history.

Even in this dating age, men still want to find a girl who wants to be serious. You'd better be an inexperienced Bai Lianhua before you meet him.

Some girls like to be cool, look through the vicissitudes of life, smoke and drink, go to bars and say a lot of "you smelly men", so he won't find this girl interesting, but will only think that your private life is chaotic, and may only regard you as the object of short-term communication ~

If you were not mainstream and absurd when you were young, or if you were hurt by love rat, there are a few love stories that don't look good. Once he knows them, he will associate you with the old one. Maybe he said it was a thing of the past, but in his heart, he felt that you were "a leopard cannot change its spots", which will add more tests to your future.

5. find fault with men, complain that men have not made progress, and compare him with other men.

When two people get along for a long time, the shortcomings of both sides will inevitably be gradually exposed. At this time, girls are prone to make such mistakes: finding fault with men's shortcomings, complaining that men have not made progress, and comparing him with other men, which is exactly what men can't stand most ~

Men's self-esteem is as strong as women's love for beauty. At this time, if his woman always says that he is not good here or there, she will bear it in the early stage, but she already bears a grudge against you ~

Under normal circumstances, he always feels that he has not changed as before. If you complain that he is not self-motivated, he may think that he has worked hard, but he thinks that you are not satisfied.

Then when a woman talks about excitement, she will take out the husband of a friend or colleague to compare with him. You think it's cool, but at this time, men's self-esteem has reached a critical point. Maybe the next sentence is "If he is so good, go find him" ~

The result is often that he thinks you hurt him and then goes to another woman to heal ~

6. Give it to a man as a competitor ~

In order to enhance the scarcity and attractiveness of boys, many girls will deliberately fabricate the illusion that they are very popular and create competitors for the people she really cares about, so as to make him feel a sense of crisis and care more about her ~

Even this method is widely taught in many Liao Han tutorials, which is actually a "chronic poison". At first, boys will have a strong sense of competition, and later they will question the loyalty of girls.

To put it bluntly, he will think that "flies don't bite seamless eggs", and the result is really not worth the loss for girls. If you want to get more attention from him, you can tell him directly that what coquetry can do should not be "conspiracy theory", and boys' thinking is not that complicated.

7. Take the initiative to pursue men

It is said that "women chasing men's barriers" means that girls are easy to actively pursue boys. This sentence sounds right, but the problem is that there is still a big difference between the result you actively pursue and the result he actively pursues you.

Boys like girls who are reserved in their bones. If you are too active, you will make them feel that you are easy to mess with, and your position in his heart will not be so equal.

At the same time, for boys, automatic delivery is no challenge. He will soon get tired of you, or just have fun.

It's so easy to get, I really won't cherish it. You can tease him. The correct way should be to tease him, invisibility, and then let him take the initiative to chase you.

8. Sleeping with men too early

Sexually, men are really "cheap". On the one hand, they will keep hinting at you and want to have something unspeakable with you as soon as possible. On the other hand, from the heart, they actually prefer you to refuse him.

Maybe they don't even know it. They are subconsciously giving you a test. The later you sleep with him, the more he will cherish it and feel that he has found the treasure.

The person who really loves you will never be angry with you because you refuse him to go to bed. Although he will still look very sad after you refuse him, in his heart, he is abnormal and happy.

9. Talk to men about money

Don't talk to men about money, don't talk to men about money, don't talk to men about money. Say the important things three times.

If a man is mean to you, you can consider leaving him, but don't argue with him, because it's meaningless.

Many girls like to ask boys "buy me buy buy if you love me", although for girls, it has nothing to do with what to buy or how much to spend, but with love and attitude.

But men don't think so at all. He may think this is a kind of "robber logic". Over time, he will doubt whether you love money or him and classify you as a material woman. At that time, it will be difficult for him to be dead set on you again.

10. Doubt and suspicion

It is said that women have a sixth sense and are accurate, but don't abuse it! Excessive doubt and suspicion will only make him feel that you don't understand him and don't trust him.

Just like Luo Zijun in The First Half of My Life, let her husband have a look at a slightly younger and more beautiful woman, really fall in price.

Moreover, if a man really has an affair, he will hide it so that you can't see any clues at all in the early stage. Feelings need to be maintained. Yes, it is also right for women to be cautious emotionally, but we should grasp the degree. It's best to control a man within your range and make him feel no discomfort at the same time.