There are still many years before children talk about marriage. The girl's mother thought about the standards of countless sons-in-law. When she meets a good boy, she will even play a joke on her early marriage. Recently, a little warm man who is very popular on the Internet has attracted many netizens to compete with his parents to be in-laws.
Cultivation of "Other People's Son-in-law"
Have you brushed this chubby little boy? Recently, my best friend always showed me videos of the little warm man, telling me that in the future, jiaozi can find boyfriends according to this standard. Although the child is young, he already has the quality of an excellent "son-in-law".
The boy's mother often sends videos of him cooking, doing housework and taking care of his sister online. This kind of record is also called "other people's son-in-law". The chubby boy's name is Xiaoyu. The main reason why he is so popular is that he is a good cook and can cook a lot of dishes. He can cook home cooking, can cook western food, and occasionally get some snacks to adjust the taste of his family.
This "other people's son-in-law" is very attentive in the process of cooking. Through the evaluation of his parents, we can know that the dishes cooked by small fish can be said to be full of color, flavor and flavor.
In addition, what shocked netizens was that Xiaoyu actually cared about the price of vegetables and meat. Even when the price of ribs goes up, he knows clearly. When my father bought ribs, he also obliquely "criticized" my father. Many adults in front of the screen cannot be as careful as Xiaoyu.
"Little Warm Man" is gentle and considerate when taking care of his sister.
Another reason why Xiaoyu is popular is that he is very caring and responsible. He not only takes care of his parents in life, but also takes care of his little sister with patience and gentleness.
Besides playing, making snacks and taking care of my sister are also unambiguous. The way Xiaoyu combed her sister's hair made netizens see the light on the boy. Everyone suspects that he will take care of his wife and daughter so patiently when he grows up. This boy, who has been vying to be a son-in-law, is so excellent now that he can't do without the guidance and education of his parents.
After watching his video, you will know that Xiaoyu's parents don't put all the tasks at home on their children. In most cases, Yu Dou Jr. did it voluntarily, and the family got along well.
Xiaoyu's family also reminds me of my mother who used to teach children. The mother's goal in raising children is to get a study and a kitchen, and to learn how to wash clothes, cook, pick vegetables and wash dishes, which is not as easy as other children. Although the children did this, they never understood their mother's intention. When my mother spoke her mind, she was welcomed by everyone.
It turns out that this woman who is going to be a mother-in-law in the future wants her son to master more skills, rather than leaving all the complicated things to her wife after marriage.
Even if these skills are not used to love wives, they will cultivate children's sense of responsibility, exercise their practical ability and take care of themselves. Let children know from an early age that housework is a part of life, and only those who can do small things can do big things well.
How are responsible children cultivated?
The above two boys are both popular people. It can be seen from their growing experience that there are parents who know how to educate behind the little warm man.
In life, there are not only excellent boys, but also excellent girls like them. In addition to natural reasons, children's personality lies more in the cultivation of their parents. How to cultivate a responsible child can be learned by referring to the parents of these two "little warm men".
Independence is a child's wealth
Let children learn the little things in life, not for parents to save trouble, nor for children to take care of others. When children have the ability to live independently, even if no one takes care of them, they will not be too careless.
Give children a chance to show themselves.
While admiring that fish can cook, parents found the reason why children can't cook. Most children are not allowed in the kitchen. How can children learn new skills without trying and exercising?
In fact, in life, when a child actively shows the behavior of doing housework and cooking, parents can let him try while ensuring safety. Children can do many things, but they have no chance to show themselves.
Increase parent-child interaction
Of course, there is no need to ask every child to do everything like a small fish. When parents take care of their children, they occasionally ask their children for a "small favor". Interact with him more, instead of doing everything silently and not communicating with children.
A few minutes after dinner, the family sat together to talk about what happened at school and asked the children what they wanted to eat tomorrow. Only by exposing children to these little things in life will they be more responsible.
Today's topic: Will you let your children do simple housework?