You know, excellent people are always long-term.

The economic crisis does have an impact, but I believe that it is short-lived for excellent people. After the crisis, many people went against the wind.

For ordinary people, it is unkind and optimistic, and there is a chance of reconstruction when there is collapse.

Opportunities are also hidden in the crisis. The way of life is to choose from all kinds of choices. Even at that time, it may not be the right way for you, but it is the way you must go. Don't think so much, choose your own direction and work hard.

As a social worker who has been affected by the epidemic for a long time, if there really is an economic crisis, I will face it like this:

I always tell people that I had a good life in the first half of my life and basically didn't encounter anything that could completely collapse. There may be reasons why I don't pursue high, so I have been walking in my comfort zone.

Everyone has encountered it, and the income is definitely not high.

Online people often criticize that people should not live in the comfort zone, but I think the comfort zone is right and long-term growth is also right. What is wrong is that you envy others' high income in the comfort zone, and you envy others' comfortable life when they grow up.

This is the contradiction.

If you feel the same way, I suggest you judge what stage you are at first.

Let's talk about the comfort zone first.

? Comfort zone, also known as psychological comfort zone, in this area, everyone will feel comfortable, relaxed, stable, controllable and safe.

In practical application, it is probably completely self-sufficient. Of course, there is a standard here, which is not high.

According to my understanding, your current work and life can basically meet the needs of daily life, but you are not old enough to splurge. You are still afraid to buy a windbreaker above 1000 yuan in the mall. You have to think about a one-year membership card in the gym for a long time. However, if you don't enjoy it, you will live happily.

But few people don't like to enjoy it.

Then the problem comes. Now you have no ability to live the life you want.

So the pain arises spontaneously.

To make matters worse, you are always in a painful stage and have never thought about how to break through yourself.

Because real mental pain is more painful than physical pain.

This stage is the growth stage.

Growth is accompanied by pain, which is a fact that you need to admit. Before you can't accept it, you have to understand it before you can treat it correctly.

It is better to have the courage to change yourself than to have contradictions and pains. It's painful anyway, why can't it develop in a good direction?

Then, you need to make a long-term career plan.

Let me talk about myself first.

In the past five years, as I said before, my life has been a period of chaos. I want to write when I see others writing from the media, but I can't find a position or a reason to stick to it. Moreover, there is no systematic operation mechanism, and all the articles written are self-satisfied. Efforts to find the direction are all in vain. You just touched yourself, but failed to help you go further, which is completely equivalent to wasting time.

Start the class and sign up for the training class (statement, this is not a promotion course, hahaha). Following the teacher can save many detours. Since then, I have really completed the leaping road of writing and stepped onto the right track step by step.

By talking about these experiences, I just want to tell you that efforts are important, but efforts without planning are futile.

A person can walk a long way, but it is not necessarily a long way. A person's thinking is limited, but following others may also open the door to your new world.

After linking to a better teacher, he died.

I started to contribute one by one, went to many tubas one after another, and became familiar with the tonality of tubas. After that year, my income from writing has far exceeded my real job.

After determining that writing is my future path, it is not enough to make contributions. I also need to understand the operation mechanism of scale, and I need to go deep into the interior to understand how to go higher.

What shall we do? Jump ship decisively. Because of the accumulation in the early stage, job-hopping is easy, and I have successfully become an editor with millions of fans.

But this is far from my goal.

Anyone who has been an editor and cares about personal development can understand what I am going to say next.

It is what you write that will affect your personal values, because the content of the inauguration action itself has limitations. You've been writing for a long time, only changing the same theme. For those who want to make a living by writing for a long time, it seems to be progress, but it is actually retrogression.

After understanding this, I began to force myself to try unfamiliar content, step by step from shallow to deep.

In other words, force yourself to grow.

You have to remember that things that can be easily done are also easily replaced.

Only by constantly growing can we leave others behind.

I don't know what the future will be like if I go on like this, but I know there must be no future if I don't go!

Summary tip:

In fact, people are often used to it in an environment, and their thinking is solidified, so it is difficult to find out their current situation. What should we do?

When you find that people around you are always coming and going, and what you say is often repeated, then you should be careful. You are being solidified by the environment.

There is a way of thinking, also called environmental thinking, whose essence is to understand the limitations of dimensions, so they can't see the world outside of thinking.

But in fact, it is not difficult to break the solidification of thinking and become a "growth thinking" person. You just need to take the initiative to jump out of your comfort zone and expand your unfamiliar areas. All the great changes were just an idea at first.

If you have an idea, plan it, make a plan, realize it step by step, and force yourself to grow.

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As mentioned above, planning is necessary, so this part is planning.

After the official account of WeChat, Black Gold, was cold-started, my partner Jin Shanshan and I discussed the positioning, and combined with our respective advantages, we shared different contents with you.

The general direction is to grow dry goods, which can develop many aspects of growth in small branches, such as emotion, knowledge, logic, thinking and so on.

Because, we find that in this era, everyone urgently needs to grow up.

We also hope that while exploring and sharing a little bit, we can accelerate the iteration of our own thinking and go further.

We make detailed plans, from what we have to accomplish every day, such as sharing dry goods in Zhihu, to what our goals are for one year, such as attracting young people with the same frequency to grow up together.

With the general direction as the guide and the subtotal as the implementation, everything will become clear. Although the road ahead is still long, I believe that as long as we persist in doing so, there will always be gains.

There are many benefits of planning, which can solve confusion and kick away idleness. Now I feel that every day is full, even to the point where I feel that time is not enough.

Of course, planning also requires skill.

People's energy is limited. The premise of your plan is to suit your own situation, and you can't think about the problem without considering the reality.

You can learn to make a mind map and divide the plan into three parts:

1, fragmentation time

2. Time of concentration tray

3. Static time

Then with some useful time management apps, recommend tomato todo, which is very easy to use. Every 25 minutes is a concentrated period of time, and then you can rest for 5 minutes. If you give up voluntarily, tomatoes will remind you, which can effectively improve the situation of inattention.

Each of us has to face all kinds of things, big and small, every day. We should make decisions, make judgments and solve problems. It is easy to make our day chaotic, and it often happens. Obviously busy, why don't you feel anything at the end of the day?

To sum up, the events are not clear.

Therefore, it is suggested that when self-control is not so strong, making plans and matching tools can really help you develop good habits step by step.

There is a saying that a person walks very slowly and a group of people walk very far.

? I don't think I am a particularly self-disciplined person, and I often find excuses to give up, because writing and sharing are also a test of patience, so it is necessary for individuals to act together to increase the possibility of success.

When I was a guest teacher in the training camp, I shared it with the students more than once. On the way to writing, I first want to form a gang and find people with the same frequency to cheer, cheer and support each other.

Because, on the road to starting a business, there are many difficulties. If someone stands side by side with you, you will feel that there is light in the darkness.

Because I have seen too many people who give up halfway and what they look like after giving up, it is very important for you to choose a quality partner.

Choose the right partner, make rapid progress, choose the wrong partner, and dissolve quickly.

An important factor in choosing a partner, besides our own strength, is long-term activism.

Jin Shanshan and I have shared writing for a long time, and we both sincerely believe that writing is the right thing.

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Then after reaching an agreement, the next road may be much smoother.

I read an example about Buffett on the Internet, which read:

Amazon CEO Bezos once told Airbnb CEO Brian Ceschi about their idol Buffett.

Cesc asked Bezos, "What do you think is the best advice Buffett gave you?"

Bezos said: "I once asked Buffett that your investment philosophy is very simple. Why not just copy your practice? "

Buffett said: "Because no one wants to get rich slowly."

I'm shocked to hear that, and people especially want to make achievements.

The more eager you are for success, the more inclined you will be.

You know, even Warren Buffett earned 99.8% of his assets after the age of 50.

Long-term activists will put the interest line further. Even if the line in front of them is broken, it doesn't matter as long as they can connect the farther lines together. Small-scale mistakes are nothing, and large-scale losses are nothing.

Long-term activist, good at throwing long lines to catch big fish.

Long-term activists also need a core ability, that is, to have firm beliefs. With clear cognition and belief, they can make long-term goals on this basis and then move towards success step by step.

So, don't rush for success at first. When you accumulate to a certain extent, good results will naturally follow you.

In fact, I mentioned that the purpose of setting up a black gold shopkeeper is also to force myself to input and output, so that I can continue to grow and force myself to learn more while bringing growth to everyone.

Because, this epidemic has made many people understand that only individuals are hard enough will they not be easily abandoned by this society.

During the two months at home, many people lost their income. How to generate more "after-sleep income" has also become a problem that many people think about.

In fact, there is no shortcut, just find your own strengths, stick to a good direction and work hard.

You should keep learning and strengthen your belief in lifelong learning.

Self-improvement is a sharp weapon to win, and it is difficult to be defeated.

I have written this article for a long time, and it is all true feelings. Dry goods say yes and no, because I am also combing myself and growing myself.

If you think it's rewarding, I really hope you can give me a compliment. By the way, I will pay attention to this official WeChat account, the black gold shopkeeper, show you the world and grow with you.

Because the figures have just started, there is not much to share at present, but I believe that there will be more and more methodological summaries of dry goods, principles and thinking in the future.

You are also welcome to give me some suggestions and share what you want to know ~

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I know that at the end of the day, you may just come to this conclusion, and it's another article about fighting chicken blood, but I want to tell you that after reading such an article about fighting chicken blood, you can't act. Why read it?

After careful study, the path of successful people is mostly the same. Then, when you want to give up, give yourself a bowl of chicken soup.

Most successful people have a long experience. You think chicken soup is because if you want to cut out the kernel and tell it to you, it may take a lifetime.

But successful people are also busy. They are busy thinking about how to become stronger. No one here has time to chat with you.