It became a "sister year". Before, "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" was still hot, and after that, except for 30%, the residual heat was still there.
The new drama He Doesn't Love You That Much, starring Victoria Song, Celina Jade, Chun-Li, karina, Arqie and David Wang, puts the same question in a more extreme environment. There is no story of mistress cheating on a dog, and there is no dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The hostess not only did not have a hard childhood, but also was financially independent. However, life is so ideal, why is love still difficult?
Sun Yihe, a 32-year-old Song Qianren, is the chief producer of a TV program. Always energetic at work, she is called "the perpetual motion machine of the world", and there is no one she can't handle. The boss trusts her and values him. In order to invite Joy Chen, a media person, to do a show, she died from time to time.
First of all, I lied to Joy Chen's assistant that I had an appointment; The second time, give gifts to Joy Chen's assistant to get close to Joy Chen; The third time, the traffic jam finally got the opportunity for two people to be alone; Finally, Joy Chen asked her to help stall for time to keep her customers, so as to get a chance to talk about cooperation. She has a very good male best friend Tian Yu (played by Arqie) and three female best friends who have been friends for life. Her parents are very open and dote on her.
However, her feelings are constantly confused. At the beginning of the first episode, I celebrated the nth breakup with the same person. However, after her ex-boyfriend came back to find her, she relented and allowed to get back together. Until I met Joy Chen, after they competed at work, they changed wonderfully with each other.
Ren Ran (played by Chun-Li), one of Sun Yihe's best friends, is a strong president, who runs around at work, but emotionally puts himself in a dilemma. She has been with the overbearing president Lu Hao (played by David Wang) for many years, and I have grown from an ordinary employee to a strong woman in the workplace.
The setting of this pair is similar to the relationship between He Han and Tang Jing in the first half of my life, another work by the screenwriter of this drama. But the setting of feelings is completely different. Lu Hao's career was founded from scratch with his wife. Therefore, although the relationship between Lu Hao and his wife has already broken down, they have been in love with each other for many years, but they just don't divorce. Even when his wife was in trouble, he left without saying goodbye, which deeply hurt Ren Ran.
Lu Hao finally settled his marriage and career with his wife and came back to find Ren Ran. After several redemptions, I still agreed to propose. However, this is not the end, there are still variables behind. Tintin played by karina is a rich second generation spoiled by his father. She is also a trainee agent. She has a lofty goal, that is, to build a male idol group.
Karen, played by Celina Jade, is a fitness partner and coach, and a single mother with children alone.
In the face of love, no one relaxes; Love after 30 needs to know who I am. In "m-girls", Sun Yihe and still fall in love. Karen once had it, but Tintin didn't. However, it is precisely the two people who "stop now" who can see clearly.
Of the four people, Tintin is the only one who has never been in love. But her understanding of love is true and has her own insistence. Although her father takes her to play tricks on blind dates every day, she is in no hurry and has her own rhythm.
Later, in order to coax two fathers, Yang Sirui and I faked it, but found a congenial person. Karen's life experience is very rich. She once married and had children with the rock singer Wang Kaier, but Wang Kaier was uncertain, and young girls surrounded her everywhere.
So she chose a divorce. I took my children, continued my career, and lived a happy life with my girlfriends. There were also many young suitors around me, such as Tian. They are also attractive women. Why haven't they found the ideal love?
Robert Robert Jeffrey Sternberg, a professor of psychology at Yale University in the United States, believes that love between people consists of three elements: passion, closeness and commitment. Passion, the crazy feeling of just falling in love. Intimate, dependent on each other, you have me and I have you. There is both physical proximity and physical fit. Commitment refers to the determination, expectation and guarantee to maintain the relationship. Looking back on their love, there are more or less some shortcomings.
Sun Yihe and Sam are constantly unequal. Sun Yihe is always waiting for Sam, and he is always in a state where he can come at the drop of a hat. Sam broke up when he was unhappy, and sought to get back together when he regretted it; Not public, not married, so the two are wasting. Sam did not respond to the passion, closeness and commitment that Sun Yihe hoped for. There is a plot in which Sun Yihe said that drinking coffee was too bitter.
At this moment, Sam took out a beautiful box and gave it to her. Sun Yihe was happy to be a marriage proposal ring. It turned out to be chocolate, and the atmosphere suddenly became difficult. This detail clarifies two problems: First, Sam's brain circuit is very straight. When he heard Sun Yihe say that coffee is bitter, his first reaction was to sweeten it, which is a normal reaction. Second, Sun Yihe has been waiting, so he was exposed. And Sam's awkward response is obviously not just a misunderstanding of Sun Yihe. Among them, I am afraid there is also an escape about giving a promise. The most serious problem between Ren Ran and Lu Hao is the lack of commitment.
In the past, when he still needed this promise most, he didn't keep it. Later, she gave it to Ren Ran, who was so strong. Looking back on my emotional experience, can I remain warm and close to Lu Hao? As for Karen and Kyle Wang, they not only lack commitment, but also lack intimacy.
In the trailer, Karen asked Wang Kaier if she still wanted to go to Beijing to engage in rock and roll after having children. Wang Marco said of course. As a result, the two divorced and rarely went back to see the children for a long time after marriage. This shows that there is no difference in the value orientation of their marriage life, and Wang Kyle has no corresponding commitment to marriage. The tone of the whole play "He doesn't really love you that much" is more relaxed and vivid. Although the problem discussed was ideal, it was not handled well.
Another commendable center is that although the girls in the play are constantly experiencing emotional changes, few female characters really make them like themselves more and more in those experiences, rather than blindly compromising for love.