No matter how busy dad is at ordinary times, what things must be taught to his children in person that mom can't replace at all? Teach children to be brave. When a child is a baby, he can feel different love from his parents. Dad accompanies his children to exercise and play games. Strong arms give them a strong sense of security and sureness, which makes their psychological state more perfect. Psychological researchers at Harvard University once made a survey: statistical analysis of tens of thousands of students' experiences with their fathers. The final conclusion is that the recognition and shock from dad's arms is much higher than that from mom. When dad hugs, most children will be surprised by its power. A child who feels a lot of love from his father, whether as a child or later, will be more substantial and brave in the face of difficulties or tests.

Teach children to be fathers. Before going out, don't forget to say to your wife, "I'm not at home, you should take good care of the children." When the child heard his father's words, he felt that he was taken care of by his mother. So, it seems that everything is right. But in fact, in the child's subconscious, he gradually lost his role. In fact, dad's instructions are really unnecessary. In fact, no matter whether boys are here or not, every mother will do her duty to take care of her children. If the father changes the way, tell the child: "Dad is away for a few days, and you are the only little man in the family after I leave. You should take good care of your mother, you know? " Then guess what the child will do next? I want to bring tea and water to my mother and "take care" of her in my own way.

Teaching children how to love everyone's concept of marriage and love is greatly hurt by this family. That is to say, under the growing edification, hearing and seeing, the way for parents to get along in marriage is the attitude of children towards their spouses in the future. For example, a boy who witnessed his mother's "domestic violence" will subconsciously wave his fist at his wife if he has a problem with his wife when he grows up and doesn't know how to solve it. For another example, girls have seen their fathers pamper, respect and love their mothers since childhood. Because of her father's negative demonstration and role model, girls will identify with their social roles and feel that they deserve to be loved. If you don't learn to respect and cherish yourself in the future, you will definitely avoid it.