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Boyfriend and girlfriend just met. There is no topic. What should I do if I don't know what to talk about?
If a girl just knows you, she will ignore your love. It's basically influenced by something other than your language. We often say, "victory and defeat are in the sheath." Two swordsmen compete. One practiced fencing for ten years, holding a steel knife, and the other practiced only for a month, holding a rusty broken knife. Who do you think will win? Even if we didn't meet, the ending was already doomed. Similarly, if you go after a girl, if you are not prepared, it will almost be over before you start.

Social display is a business card for people in the network age. Nowadays, social interaction is mostly online chat, and it is mainly based on words. No one wants to chat with a landscape map or an anime character, so even if you chat online, girls need to know your image and your life.

In order to get to know strangers quickly, people's brains will draw portraits of each other in their hearts through a small amount of information. For example, when she sees you have a photo of fitness, she will think: This man likes sports. He must be healthier, more energetic and in good shape, not a homesick person.

When she sees you eating exquisite afternoon tea, she will think: this person should be in a good state, very emotional, able to live with relish and relaxed. I won't run for my life all day, and it will be more interesting and easier to get along with him.

When she sees that you are wearing a well-matched dress, it will not only add points to your personal image, but also create such an association: this man is good at wearing, and walking with him will definitely lead to a good return rate, and introducing friends is also very face-saving. This kind of tasteful man is really rare.

If you have these three photos at the same time, girls will be more interested in chatting with you.

This is the importance of life construction. We don't advocate making fake photos, but you can learn by wearing them, you can go to online celebrity shops, and your hobbies, such as fitness, are also worth cultivating. If you want to be popular with women, you must break through the comfort zone and become a better man.

On the other hand, if your photos are all self-portraits, the environment is sloppy, your clothes are rustic, and your circle of friends are forwarding, girls will regard you as a loser and don't want to talk to you. Take a closer look at your photo wall and see if you have found the reason why girls don't reply to you.