1. Don't flatter others.

Please stop pleasing others except yourself.

People who love you don't need you to please people who don't love you. There is no need to please them.

Response measures:

Strive to improve yourself, hard power and soft power. If you want to please a person in all aspects, just close your eyes and count silently. Slowly, you will face others' dislikes frankly. Just stay away from people who don't like you. There is no need to waste time.

Stop comparing with others

Stop comparing with others and start learning to compare with yourself, with your former self and with your yesterday self.

Pay attention to the daily changes and progress, and pay attention to what you have done and changed in the past year.

Response measures:

Try to be beautiful, work hard and make money. When you want to be better, please compare yourself. You should work hard to keep fit, work hard, find some time to read and try to be more beautiful. You have a lot of things to do, you have to learn makeup, you have to read books, you have to keep fit, you have to learn more new skills, and you have no time to compare with others and be unhappy.

3. Stop living without discipline:

Not self-discipline, people in the muddleheaded, muddleheaded days, meaningless consumption of life. Finally, the body and willpower are self-indulgent, and a person is not far from destruction.

Solution:

Start trying to go to bed early and get up early, exercise regularly, clean the room neatly and comfortably, and change the bedding regularly.

Give small items their own places, put them back in place after use, and don't put them anywhere.

4. Don't deny yourself easily

All negations are malicious. No matter what hardships you encounter, please do not deny yourself easily.

Solution:

If you are very insecure, start writing a success diary every day. Keep a record of what you did well and what you recognized every day.

Then you will find that you are so excellent, and the establishment of confidence is also a slow process. Give yourself some time and give yourself a chance.

5. Don't give up the opportunity to rise.

It's not that you have to work hard if you want to be a successful woman, but that everyone has to work hard and study hard if they want to live well.

Solution:

If you talk about drama and play games every day, try to force yourself to read for half an hour every day, and gradually you will like reading as much as talking about drama and playing games. Calligraphy, dancing, painting, foreign languages, etc. Choose the one you want to learn most and start learning. If you live to be 90, it's not too late to be in your twenties, thirties, forties and fifties.

Inferiority, please type personality is to pay too much attention to the advantages of others, but also compare the advantages of others with their own shortcomings. Try to learn to compare yourself with yesterday and the past, try to start paying attention to what you want and want to be what you want.