One can't live in the shadows forever. In the past, it may be forced by life, but everyone has to face all kinds of problems, such as a seemingly divorced marriage, such as losing the balance of family status, such as struggling for life day after day.
When you are 60 years old, you should change your lifestyle, because at this time, you have the confidence to say "no" to everything, and you should bid farewell to all unreasonable experiences in the past. The sky is vast and the sea is vast. Life before the age of 60 may not be your own, but life after the age of 60 must belong to you, otherwise it is better to die by yourself.
Life is 60 years old, and there is not much time left. If it is "in case", then everything is gone. If you are "lucky", your life is not far away. Even if you have more money, you will be like dirt.
Therefore, life after 60 is very important. It condenses the essence of a person's life. If you talk about enjoyment unconditionally, it will only be painful to death. Only by talking about enjoyment conditionally can we enjoy life well. All this you are facing is the result of your hard work before you are 60 years old. If it's yours, don't think too much. This life is so cruel. No pains, no gains.
When you are 60, you should have your own life. First, you should be with the person you like. If it really doesn't work, stay with your own money and live a life without oppression, exploitation and torture. Secondly, two of a kind is respectful. Only in this way can you understand, and you will have no regrets in your life.
After 60, don't focus on money, but don't underestimate it. Money you don't usually use has to be given to someone you can trust. It depends on what you need at the critical moment. On the contrary, you must pay more attention to your health. Treating diseases, preventing diseases and exercising well are your future-oriented capital.
In our country, 60 years old is an old man. It's time for people who are approaching this age to plan the rest of their lives.
How to plan, I think we should consider the following aspects:
First, really calm down.
Li Chunbo sang in "Letter from Home": "I have worked all my life, and it is time to rest." I used to go out early and come back late, either working in the unit or doing housework. I was so busy at home that I was exhausted. Being nearly sixty means retiring. At this time, the mentality will change and the role will change. The alarm clock that used to work like a wind-up will be released, so it won't be so tight and endless. Some people are busy in their fifties and sixties, even in their seventies and eighties. When you get old, your health and energy are not as good as before. This is an objective story. So I'm almost sixty, so I really need to calm down, have a rest, put it down and don't try to be brave.
Secondly, we should have a healthy lifestyle. When you are old, health comes first. Nothing is more important than health. People who like to travel can take advantage of the opportunity of walking to go out for a walk with their family or friends, go to road trip, or join a group to enjoy the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, or even go abroad to experience exotic customs and enjoy the beautiful scenery. If you can't go far, you will be happy to travel locally. People who like fishing go to the river by the pond with fishing rods and fishing friends, and they have a good time fishing. If you like to play chess, find an opponent to kill a few times, not "Monday morning quarterback". Of course, people who love playing cards, singing and dancing can also find their own fun. In short, let happiness surround you. Take care of yourself and pay special attention to exercise. Jogging, walking, playing Tai Ji Chuan or doing aerobics, etc. , will do. Have a regular physical examination and seek medical treatment if you are sick.
Third, treat gains and losses correctly and be indifferent to fame and fortune. Some people worked as leaders and officials when they were in office. Some people are social celebrities and company bosses. Even ordinary people have made great achievements. At this time, if you want to quit your post, you must deal with your personal gains and losses, don't haggle over every ounce, put down your posture and be an ordinary person. In this COVID-19 epidemic, a retired deputy director of Wuhan Justice Department failed to handle personal gains and losses effectively, and was criticized and handled by the organization, which is an example. Therefore, we should have a normal heart, integrate into the lives of ordinary people and be a wise man.
How to plan a person's life is very important, and it is even more important to plan the rest of his life when he is nearly sixty years old. I believe that as long as we plan and live in a healthy, happy and long-lived way, life after 60 will be brilliant and full of sunshine.
A person will be 60 years old soon, and obviously he has reached the second half of his life. At this time, it is very necessary to plan the rest of your life.
1, calculate the addition and subtraction for the rest of your life.
People's lives are busy and exhausted. When you are approaching 60 years old, you should consider what you need to let go and what you need to stick to. If you can learn to let go, you will live more easily. So let go, such as some inappropriate fantasies, grievances in life, competitive mentality and so on. Let go of these things, people will become smarter, have a bigger pattern in their chests, and see through everything better.
2, idle and look at the clouds in the sky.
People who are almost 60 have experienced the right and wrong of life and have long been indifferent to some fame and fortune. Everything in the world is like a cloud in the sky, let it go. I am already embarrassed about the things around me, and I have no intention of retaining or staying.
3, quietly waiting for the arrival of autumn
Almost 60 years old, it's autumn harvest time again. I have lived and worked all my life, and my children and grandchildren are full. I have everything I need, and I don't need to be demanding. As the saying goes, "As you sow, you reap." Don't be hasty in everything. You just need to wait quietly for the autumn harvest, no matter what the harvest is, face it calmly. Just work hard and let all the results go with the flow.
4. Pay attention to your health
People are almost 60 years old, just like an old machine, which needs maintenance and the pace of life needs to be slowed down. At this time, we should maintain a healthy body and improve the quality of life. Other than that, nothing else matters. This age, whether happy or happy, is based on good health. Without a healthy body, everything is a cloud.
In short, it is very important for people who are nearly 60 years old to achieve the above four points. If you do, you will enter a high-quality old age.