I think it depends on age. If you are a young man in your twenties, don't think too much, for example, will she promise me? Forget it. You are still young. If you have a crush on someone, you must bravely express your love and pursue it. Be bold and don't be afraid of rejection, because you won't regret it when you think about it later. Don't do anything because of failure, don't think about the result, do it boldly if you want, and don't wait until later to regret and complain: I wish I had it. I did it, even if I failed, at least I won't regret it later. I did it, but I failed. That's not my problem. So, if you have more time to express your love and don't think about getting married for the time being, then don't think about those useless things and what the result will be. Speak your love boldly. Maybe she is the other half of your life.

If it's bigger, say, twenty-seven or eight, we should consider the consequences. At this age, don't say you love someone easily, because at this time, your psychology and mind are mature, so you should think twice before you do anything. Because of you, you don't have much time to play. It's time to consider getting married, and it's time to take responsibility for your future life. If you have a crush on someone, you must first get a general idea of whether she is interested in you. A man of your age should be able to observe it. Don't be afraid if you find something that interests you. Say it out loud. If you find that the person you like is not interested at all, then you should consider whether to give up. Because after all, I am in my twenties, and I know who I want to spend the rest of my life with. You really can't play with feelings these days. At this age, people who come together will probably live a lifetime and have no time to play.