Reflection on loneliness as a poison and an antidote (1): The author of this book is my teacher.
I read this book from the perspective of a stranger. Although I love reading, I seldom watch celebrities rotate their posts. I always feel that some people really can't tell their past objectively now. So I will not be less critical of this book. Or, besides wanting to sign, I opened the book with a nagging heart. I read it in less than two days, and then I was immersed in the protagonist in this book for nearly a week, or because of his story, I fell into thinking about my past. This book is so objective, I even want to know how someone can hide their past, even the "vicious" comments of people around them, as well as their own mistakes and ideas ... Everything in the book has gradually precipitated into chicken soup suitable for different environments in my mind. We won't stay on the same problem forever, and we will have new troubles because of the change of environment and age. Not everyone has experienced the things described in the book, but everyone has. He is telling people who read this book with his own experience that your life is either bright or dark. You may have experienced endless waiting without response. You may also look forward to the future of eating spaghetti once a day. Maybe you have thought about whether the world will give up giving you good luck. However, all unhappy and even desperate lives can really be changed because of your persistence and dedication. Disappointment is real, but it's really because I'm not good enough, so what has been bothering me for seven years makes me understand at this moment. Instead of spending all my time resenting or punishing others' mistakes, I should think about myself, whether I am not good enough to make others think that I am a capable and useful person. Or, why live in the eyes of others. I sincerely recommend this book. Although we live in different environments and experience different people and things, the magic of this book is that each of us can find our own spiritual world from it. The author of this book is my teacher. I hope those who are lucky enough to read this book can also find your soul chicken soup from it.
Reflection on loneliness is both a poison and an antidote (2): What you pay will never be in vain.
I am preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, and spent a day reading Sisi's book, which can give me strength and courage. Family, friendship, love, dreams and life are all precious feelings that I feel from thinking. When I saw Sisi viral myocarditis in the hospital during college, my mother's company and optimistic attitude also reminded me of my mother, and I was also strong and optimistic. And Kun and Xiaoyu. I am very happy for the king, because he can meet such enthusiastic friends. From being hospitalized and learning from Jack, from reciting CET-4 words to winning a grand prize in national english contest for college students, from the beginning to helping teachers fall in love with lectures, to working hard for their ideals, they finally broke into a new world in New Oriental. From thinking, what I see is not to be discouraged and not to give up life. No matter how many thorns there are in the process of pursuing our dreams, no matter how indifferent and ridiculed by others, we must learn to make ourselves stronger, to meet those people or things that have brought us confusion and pain, and to wear a crown made of thorns for ourselves. The most important thing we need to do is to give. We should not always think about it without doing it, nor should we always make excuses for not making progress, such as lack of time. We should believe that it is better to do it late than never. As the book says, "Why should we fantasize about the future? Life always gives us many surprises. What we have to do is go ahead and find them. Think more, complain more, hesitate more, and you will meet later. Therefore, you can't give up because of small setbacks. We should bravely pursue what we want and force ourselves. Life will never be the same again. Thank you for your courage and strength. I love you and wish you better and better.
Thinking that loneliness is both a poison and an antidote (3): the growth history of famous teachers
As a teacher in a training institution, I really benefited from reading this book by Zhou Sicheng.
The author's teacher's growth path is smooth and bright. Before graduating from college, he became the top teacher of New Oriental and the senior director of Changsha New Oriental because of his excellent lecture level. Many people realized their dreams of driving a sports car, living in a mansion, being on TV and writing an autobiography when they were very young. Many people didn't expect that being a teacher could earn so much money. Of course, this is very rare.
In the book, the author mentioned a point many times-those skills that are hidden without knowing why will inevitably give you wings at some point. Those so-called talents are forged through years of hard work and loneliness, and they will definitely reward you twice.
His childhood experience really confirmed this view. The author studied violin and dance since childhood, which was very hard. He was even criticized by his classmates because he learned to sing and his vocal cords were injured. He couldn't say a word for two years.
It is precisely because of these skills and excellent stage performance ability that he can constantly stand out in the new environment. No matter in military training and cultural performances in universities, or in teacher training and competitions in New Oriental, he quickly became a star that attracted people's attention through wonderful performances. And more importantly, these experiences of stage performance are very helpful for him to become an excellent teacher. The author in the book seems to be a teaching genius. When he was a sophomore, he spoke very well without much study and practice. Later, he grew up much faster than others. At a young age, he won the national Protestant Normal University Competition in New Oriental, surpassing many people older than him, with more experience and higher education. I don't think this is out of thin air. All kinds of art training and stage performances before were all training. Nowadays, many people may be nervous to say a few words in front of everyone, but the author will not only be nervous, but also be very expressive, so he may behave more like an actor than a teacher in class. This kind of class will definitely be more exciting and energetic than the average teacher's class. No wonder his class is so popular.
At the end of the book, I mentioned a point that I think is the most rewarding: many people feel bored and have no achievements because they cut their lives into pieces.
Most people's life rhythm may be like this. They get up for breakfast in the morning, catch the bus to meet a customer, then have lunch, take a 20-minute lunch break, do another project in the afternoon, then think about having dinner, study for an hour after dinner, and then watch the latest idol drama of Hunan Satellite TV. Oh, yes, there are eight minutes of abdominal exercises. After four minutes of practice, I think about things like WeChat friends circle ... It looks very fulfilling, in fact, it is task switching and pinching time.
The author said that when he was a child, he practiced the violin for 10 hours. When reciting words, he begins to recite them as soon as he opens his eyes in the morning, until everyone around him has left, and until he goes to sleep. He went to bed at night not because of fatigue, but because of physical needs, and continued to recite the next day.
The book concludes that in a period of time, there will only be one or at most two key points, and others will have to make way. Can't say everything is important, "weight" is gradually accumulated. Everything is superficial, and the weight and depth can't be reached; "Want" is several key points. Only by focusing on advantages and breaking them can we really attract them.
Coincidentally, the day I finished reading this book, I happened to see an article on the official account of WeChat called "As the CEO of a big company, he only allows himself to make one decision every day". The theme of the article coincides with what Teacher Zhou said in this book. The article mainly shares the life wisdom of American entrepreneur Micah Baldwin: focus on making an influential decision every day.
We have to make many decisions every day, such as what to eat, what to wear, what to buy, what to see and what to do, all kinds and hundreds. Making a decision will make your brain nervous because you have to weigh the pros and cons of each option. This will cause your anxiety, distract your attention and even squeeze * * *. However, the most interesting thing is that none of these decisions mentioned above can really affect your life.
Therefore, instead of worrying about unimportant decisions, it is better to focus on a decision that can really affect long-term goals.
It makes sense for mark zuckerberg (founder and CEO of Facebook), barack obama (President of the United States) and Jack Dorsey (CEO of Twitter) to wear the same clothes every day (for those who need to make really important decisions every day, they can make one less decision).
In short, we should reduce fragmentation in our work and life, concentrate our time and energy on the most important thing as much as possible, and simplify and forget other things.
In addition to the above two points, the book also talks about many experiences of becoming an excellent teacher, such as falling in love with memorizing words in a competition with Xueba and finding a unique method by myself; In the criticism and slander of others, in the strict requirements of New Oriental for teachers, how to make persistent efforts to overcome all kinds of difficulties; Working overtime and staying up late, grinding lessons repeatedly, and writing drafts word by word to improve the teaching effect.
It must be said that the author is young and successful, which is a blessing of fate, but that is because he has more dedication and wisdom than his peers.
As a teacher who learns to think, shouldn't I advertise to my competitors like this, but learn from each other? I believe our team will do better! ! ! )
Reflection on loneliness is both a poison and an antidote (4): It's good to think about you.
Yesterday, I just finished my last class in college. After class, I walked out of the teaching building and went back. I want to recall my youth in the past few years. It was a rough trip. However, sitting in a familiar classroom again is not the literary style I imagined before, because there is nothing worth remembering. The first three years of college were basically spent lying in the dormitory watching drama, sitting in the classroom watching drama and going home to watch drama, until a few months ago, I decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination and began to recite words online. Even with you, my fighting spirit has been nourishing my patience with chicken soup. However, it is not enough to activate the learning brain cells that I have not worked since the last paper of the college entrance examination was handed in. But on the lonely road to postgraduate entrance examination, I know there are still many people who are so lonely when they grow up. It's good to have you! # Loneliness is a poison and an antidote # And Sisi, you are my hangover remedy, and you have accompanied me to end my three-year drunken (drama) life. Thank you sincerely!
Reflection on loneliness as a poison and an antidote (5): a king with temperature, a boiling book.
I met the King in Weibo and began to pay attention to him every day. At first, I thought King was a sharp internet celebrity (don't hit me), but later I found out that King was a sharp and lovely little boy! Most importantly, he is a king with temperature and a warm-hearted Sisi teacher. I went to the counterattack class and pronunciation class in the summer vacation, which gave me a great shock. I realized that I should be a better self, learn English well and lose weight. These are all ways to get closer to my best self. Teaching knowledge in various ways in the classroom. Only after taking the king's class can you know what it means to stop. The king seems to have a magic power. He told us how hard he worked for success. His story has flesh and blood, laughter and tears, and temperature! Hard work and determination, can withstand loneliness, how far is it from the person I want to be?
I really appreciate knowing King Weibo that day. Otherwise, I wouldn't be reciting words, listening and eating in moderation every day. Thank you for seeing the warm-hearted story of the king. Thank you, thank you. Loneliness is a poison and an antidote. 15 My pillow book!
After reading, loneliness is a poison and an antidote (6): You are the poison I am taking now-your brief glance in your class attracted me 10 years.
I bought Sisi's book Loneliness is a Poison and an Antidote when I saw it in Weibo, just like all his books before I bought them, whether I need them or not (of course, I don't mean that the doctor doesn't need to read the vocabulary of the postgraduate entrance examination. After all, when I read them, my colleagues always ask me, no matter which website I buy, will there be discounts and signatures? Since Sisi recommended it, I'll take it. Look! I was poisoned by Sisi, and I was very ill.
But I know Sisi's book is worth the money, and it must be worth buying.
Unlike the great Englishman Wang Sisi, Loneliness tells the story of Sisi's mental journey from university to work. Although the former also mentioned some of the same things in Loneliness, the latter has deeper feelings, richer details and more tangled psychology. To put it more simply, The King of English is a silly and sweet article, and Loneliness is an abuse of body, mind and love.
My writing is limited and I can't tell you what I have learned. I hope you can read it carefully and gradually realize that with a voice full of acne and a hoarse voice, Sisi, an ordinary, dim and disgraceful classmate, endures lonely nights alone. Loneliness is because there is no place to belong and no like-minded companions. Those who can help you fold the quilt and wash the words can't recite them with you, but those who can help you make a campaign speech should go out with your new girlfriend when you are tolerant of him. Sisi was isolated again. Loneliness is poison, my heart is bleeding, but I still keep smiling.
Enduring loneliness is not a waste of time. In loneliness, Sisi's classmates drew bows, touched the piano, spun and jumped, and repeatedly marked on the ground. It is also the accumulation and precipitation in this loneliness that has created the starlight of Sisi teacher on the stage.
President Yang and SK's double-reed comments have twisted Sisi to holes, trying to explain the composition "Should college students live together?". . Sisi automatically and consciously summed him up as the depth of love and the urgency of responsibility. I went to ask sk afterwards, is it because you love me so much? Skil Khan: You can think so shamelessly.
Forgive me for having a big brain hole. I have always classified SK as a mask face with integrity and strength. Xie Jishi tried his best to absorb nutrients and grow rapidly while telling the truth. SK is serious and unsmiling. I remember asking him about reading after class. He said categorically that medicine saved the lives of people who should have died, which violated the natural law of survival of the fittest. That is to say, medicine violated the law, I was shocked and speechless, and then SK walked away irrefutably and proudly. SK, who is so cold, selflessly teaches Sisi his little experience and takes care of Sisi in his work and life. From Sisi's persistent eating, drinking and sleeping SKII, we can get his love for Sisi.
Sisi has always performed well in New Oriental, and has successively won the titles of "National Popular Teacher Champion of New Oriental" and "National Excellent Teacher of New Oriental". The scenery here is unique. She looks like a lonely loser. Don't forget that loneliness is poison. The heights are too cold, and the contradiction between Teacher Yesisi and SK, who has just been promoted to the principal, finally broke out.
Sisi was detained by the supervisor because she was late, and went to the principal of SK to argue. Sisi was going to ask SK for help, but she was stunned by SK. Instigated by the supervisor, Sisi became angry and threatened to resign. Strange and fierce SK actually wrote his resignation letter on the spot, which made Sisi burst into tears. This is a typical cold slag.
Thinking is simple, lovely and transparent. He won't think SK is the principal, and our relationship is only the subordinate of the boss. He'll still be rolling around looking for you. Don't carry it. Of course, you don't have to overreact. Sisi also likes teacher Beibei and will hug and cry together. Sisi can also shyly borrow money from muscle man FC, because he has taken a fancy to a blue shirt with open sleeves in Hong Kong. ...
Loneliness is a poison and an antidote. Choose to study abroad and leave, waiting for the next bloom. I like Sisi 10 years. Since I heard your name in Jerry's new 3 in 2005, I have been deeply attracted by you and met you in your graduate class. That's why I'm still reading the vocabulary book for the postgraduate entrance examination, because it contains your memory. 10 After reading your blog and Weibo, I learned that you went to the library to study for yourself. I didn't know the details at that time. After watching Loneliness, I realized that I was unhappy with SK. I can imagine SK's angry, cruel and unsmiling expression, but I understand Sisi's shock and Sisi's grievance. Loneliness is a poison, you have to rely on your own tenacity, and it is also an antidote. The new life after nirvana will shine brilliantly.
I have signed up for Sisi's CET-4 and CET-6 online course on writing sentence patterns. Please don't end, start with the writing trial.
Thinking that loneliness is poison and antidote (7): Conservation Law
Recently, I read this book and a competition program called "Who's Next", which is quite touching. The pressure we feel and the cruelty of reality can stimulate our more potential. As long as we are not depressed and keep working hard, even if there is only a little progress, we will eventually shine our own light. I really admire Sisi's tenacity, toughness, humor and aura.
Looking back on my first 20 years, the mistake of first love made me know clearly what kind of feelings I want; I got sick because of the immaturity of my first job. I realized that there were so many wrong understandings in my mind, so I studied hard to read and tried to change. Although the process is long and there will be stagnation, I have been looking forward, and the day of breaking the cocoon into a butterfly is still far away. I thought the heartache when the most sincere friendship broke down won me more time to enrich myself. Loneliness is inevitable, but it is this loneliness that will make me different! Think about it, it really verifies Sisi's "Law of Conservation"!
I hope one day I can grow into a unique intellectual woman in the new era who is not bound by dogma! I really want to go to Sisi's class in person and feel that invisible power.
Having written so much, I want to study hard! Huai ting!
After reading, loneliness is both a poison and an antidote (8): You have nothing to be afraid of, because you have nothing to lose.
This book is like a poison that makes people want to stop. Just looking at the name makes people feel that this is a sad book, but when you pick up this book, you will find that sadness is nothing. Loneliness was the main theme of the king's book before he became himself, but it didn't keep him negative. It became a kind of strength, an irresistible spirit, which kept him going until he changed. We have so many similarities with the king in the book, the same loneliness and the same confusion in reality. However, in the end, the king became king. What about us? Friends who are confused and want to change the status quo, maybe you can find the answer from this book ... Finally, from a sentence that influenced the king and touched me at the same time: "You have nothing to be afraid of, because you have nothing to lose."
Comment on loneliness is a poison and an antidote (9): Every adversity is an encounter with beauty.
Opening the title page is a monologue of a person during his journey. As it happens, I also sat on the train to Changsha and read this book.
What will this book say? Is it full of chicken soup?
-I think so.
Unfortunately, I was wrong. I bought this book at first because of Sisi's legendary experience, so I wanted to see what his first autobiographical book would look like. Also because of the title, it's really a bit slutty.
After I started reading it, I felt that the teacher who was usually separated by the remote mobile phone screen didn't look as good as I thought. I can't help but start to get serious, which is a bit picky.
Looking at it, the ordinary college student in the book, a chubby, self-abased, and girlish boy. It seems that he came slowly and told me his story in an ordinary and kind way. I saw his fear and anxiety, and I seemed to see my own shadow in it.
He is a boy who loves acne.
Yes, getting acne is really a matter of inferiority. People who don't have acne will never understand why they feel so good and suddenly wake up in the petals of ten thousand pear trees blown open overnight. I have acne, too. I feel inferior to look at my face in the mirror. I will bow my head unconsciously when people come and go, and I will smile between my classmates' words, "You are terrible", "Your face seems rotten, and I dare not look at you" and "If you don't have acne, you are still a beautiful woman". Haha, I sell well. I kept it in my heart for a long time, pretending to be optimistic. See him but tell me with actions, it doesn't matter, it's just a pimple, what should I do? Be brave to be yourself, there will always be people who don't care about your external shortcomings, and there will always be people who will give you friendship and warmth. I was moved to see that he finally gained friendship. Suddenly I feel a broken heart is broken, and it will be broken. Anyway, a stronger heart will grow.
He is still an optimistic man.
When I read that he fainted in the hospital, my heart suddenly tightened. Seeing him in the hospital bed, I can always accept new things without falling down. I deeply admire him. How many times have I deceived and paralyzed myself for one reason or another? The reason "I am sick and don't want to learn" seems to be particularly tolerant of myself. Sometimes, I really have many ideas and steps. But in the end, it went away. When I saw him, there was a long ripple in my heart. It said to itself calmly and indifferently, "Look, there really is such a person. Why not? Is this the reason for your love? " Or did you really notice what you were doing when you shouted that you had a bad family background and wanted everything?
You are farther away from it, have you found it?
You will be immersed in fantasy, and you will get that kind of spiritual experience in fantasy, which will consume all your blood and * * *, and by the time you should do it, your blood will be cold. As early as in the fantasy, you were satisfied, got everything, and all expectations were exchanged in that world. Can you still move? You scream when reality cuts you with thorns! I woke up, but I couldn't wait to sink into the fantasy world.
This "you" is reflected in the eyes of others and the eyes of "true self".
He is also a forgetful person.
He did a lot of warm-hearted things for others, but he was betrayed in the end. That kind of resentment, I also realized. I am a student, and my classmates will not be as lethal as the workplace. Maybe I just felt one percent of him. But he seems to have a heart made of crystal Exquisite, crystal clear and flawless. He will double the damage he has suffered and turn it into his own strength, telling those who hurt him that he will not be knocked down by him, and then continue to help those he thinks need help. This kind of tough and domineering action is something I have never done before.
"Since life is cruel to us, we should be more kind to ourselves" and redouble our efforts to become better people and truly realize our dreams. Give up yourself, give yourself to fate, and let fate turn you into something it doesn't know, which is the greatest torture.
Please forgive me for my poor writing. What I want to say is from the heart. I think it is a good book to read an autobiographical book, see yourself from it, and better understand your heart and the prescription of "antidote". Here, I thank Teacher Sisi. I thank him for letting me realize many of my problems. A person's words reflect a person's thoughts. In the book, the Sisi teacher I know is more vivid and profound, which gives me the courage to change and strengthens my confidence to break through the shackles, because I am not a freak, and the loneliness of countless people is the antidote. I am as lovely as they are.
After reading, loneliness is both a poison and an antidote (10): I don't want to let go if I hold your hand.
Write a book review for Sisi for the first time. Take this book with you when you are tired of climbing mountains, and take it with you when you are tired of going back to school by car. I watched it again in the saliva class today, but I was reluctant to write a book review after reading it three times. Quote the original blue book "four words laugh it off". Open it and walk in, and you will surely see an unprecedented gorgeous world. Of course you would say chicken soup for the soul. What is the use of reading other people's biographies? Yes, it's useless. Self-reliance is real. There is also Zhou Sicheng's book Loneliness is a Poison and an Antidote. This book makes me indulge in my own world, and I will think a lot. Although I have been rooted in bookstores and libraries since I was a child, I can't bear to read it all at once. Believe me, after you have tasted this book, you will benefit a lot, and you will also want to change yourself, work hard in a better direction and change. Don't hesitate, the content of the book is absolutely unexpected to you, what's more, there is a sweet word that appears in my mind from beginning to end, and I don't want to let go when I hold your hand.