This time, the reason is this: listening to her speech is definitely a pleasure. If clear articulation, soft tone, precise wording and quick response are just the professional qualities that a host of a great stage should have, then sincere tone, dignified thinking, rigorous logic and elegant charm are the outstanding patents of this "lucky" woman who recently won the "Golden Microphone Award". What kind of story is hidden behind her elegant smile?
Life Dong Qing: Sleep well, eat well, read well and make good friends.
Among many CCTV hosts, she is an outlier-she is honest enough compared with others' "modesty". Of course, every sentence is also in a "grid" that can definitely stand scrutiny. "I am a very pragmatic person and I don't feel smart. It's just that there are some conditions that make me find the most suitable position: for example, I'm ok, although I'm not a stunning beauty, I'm ok; Not brilliant, but glib; I can't call it brave and resourceful, but I still have ideals and pursuits. I am enterprising ... They just found the position that suits me best. This must be my luck, because everyone is casting a net, but not everyone can catch it, but I can catch fish on my trip to sea ... I got more than I expected. " She took a deep breath. "In fact, I am a very insecure person. I am always prepared for danger in times of peace. I always feel that maybe everything I have today may not be there tomorrow-so I want to be perfect. "
The afternoon sun is threatening, a little rough and haggard and there is nothing to hide. However, less than 50cm away, she is still impeccable. Of course, this is partly due to professional makeup artists and big-name clothes, but her gentle gestures and decent smile obviously come from her profound family studies and self-sacrifice characteristics.
The dark green evening dress poured down like water and came up like moonlight-her 170cm figure was really well maintained. However, she was a little sad. Of course, this sadness is as light as a ray of moonlight on her skirt: "Is this pair good or that pair good?" Really, Baba has brought so many pairs of exquisite high heels, which pair matches this evening dress perfectly? With a woman's intuition and years of experience, she quickly took out a pair of hollowed-out black tulle from the big shoe bag lying on the ground, as thin as a beauty's neck. The moment she took a deep breath and put her feet on it, everyone present laughed-it was really close to perfection.
On the steep stairs, she walked away briskly, while looking back: "Probably because of work, I wore too many high heels, so it was easy to walk-I once read a psychology magazine that women love to buy shoes, especially high heels, probably because of some psychological problems." Even though the laughter was enthusiastic, her posture was quite restrained.
She has been in Beijing for almost five years and is famous for her exquisiteness in Shanghai. She has never been to a gym, beauty salon, afternoon tea or spa. People often envy her good skin and hair-you know, she wears heavy makeup almost every day, and her hair is curled with electric batons, and she spends more than 20 days on the plane every month-so she asks for beauty tips one after another and mutters to herself, "God gives it, God gives it." After thinking about it, I quickly added, "Oh, if you don't have secrets-I always try to buy the most expensive cosmetics. They usually go to Hong Kong to buy them. Basically, I will buy whatever the clerk recommends, then go home and read the instructions clearly, and follow the steps of one, two, three, four and five. "
Hosted for many years, her exclamation is as perfect as the voice of the heroine in the translated film. Of course, she is not a genius, and this "perfection" is often at the expense of exhaustion and boredom. For example, she often suffers from insomnia because she is used to constantly "reflecting on herself, examining herself and adjusting herself": Is it appropriate to do so today? Is it impolite? Or mixed with my most annoying vanity ... I have a lot of things and sleep late, so I have to count sheep. Forget it, it's no use, so she deliberately made herself tired during the day-didn't she ever think that she could light an aromatherapy lamp for herself before going to bed and let her nervous nerves get a short rest in the fragrance of lavender, sandalwood and chamomile?
She almost froze on the spot: "Yes, why didn't I think of that?" Afraid of the cold, she hugged her elbow and gently surrounded herself. "I really don't deserve myself. There is a joke on the internet that I have traveled all over the city in order to find a perfect outfit, but I don't know what I am looking for is' tooling', which is for parties. " However, it can be seen that she doesn't care about her "not refined" at all. The 30-year-old transparent woman has made everything clear. "I think exquisiteness is not always as cautious as people usually think, but arbitrary and free. It must include continuous progress, such as the need to constantly update our understanding of fashion and materials, not to mention ourselves. "
"Oh, and for the bedroom, study, bathroom decoration, I strive for perfection-forget it, the kitchen can't get in several times a year-I like the taste of European classicism. I installed lights in every possible place in my home because I like to go home and the room is full of lights. " Her voice dropped even lower. "I don't like dusk the most. I feel inexplicably depressed at dusk. I must turn on all the lights in every room-because it will be less lonely. "
Career Dong Qing: Actually, I have been doing it for more than ten years, but I still told myself to do it well before I went on stage.
"I know everything you get has a price." Soon, she resumed her usual meticulous standard smile. "I clearly see what the price is." In addition to the annual Spring Festival gala and various large-scale CCTV activities, the large-scale variety show Happy China under her name premieres at 7: 30 every Sunday night, so her fixed schedule is to visit 6-7 cities a month, with an average of 3 days. "I don't remember what a weekend is. It's great to know what day it is today. "
Legend has it that she is eloquent, and her famous sayings and allusions are "from words". Sure enough, "I remember everything? Gao wrote in a letter to a friend a month before his death: "We gave our youth, health and freedom to art." I think we have some similarities. I have to pay, in addition to giving myself less love, that is, when I hear others say hello, I can definitely hear you are not good. You can accept anyone you don't like or appreciate, but there are some untrue personal attacks on the Internet-"I can see that she is trying to keep smiling. "That's interesting; I can also be the target of attack! I don't know whether I should be happy or sad. The good news is, ah, someone is finally paying attention to you; Sadly, you must pay the price for success-there must be a price. "
She is a girl with 65,438+0,000% good family. Kochi's parents gave her a very traditional and strict family education in China. So she takes all the hard thinking and efforts for granted, but she can never accept being misunderstood or even vilified: "I won because I am not much taller than others, but I really worked hard." In the 2006 Young Singer Grand Prix, she first cooperated with Yu and Yu for more than 40 days. Later, she heard Xu Peidong tell many people that Dong Qing was a very hard worker. She will walk into the office early every afternoon, chat with the contestants unkempt, get as much information as possible, and design many questions, even if only one or two are used in the live broadcast.
A philosopher once said that if you don't spend 20 times more than usual, you are likely to fall badly at the peak of the storm. Dong Qing was a little proud of this: "If I had been as famous as I am today ten years ago, it might be my boast. But fortunately, I have spent more than ten years standing in this position, and of course I can see clearly how I got here, how I became what I am now step by step, and where is my future. " This "confused" woman shamefully revealed that she was "forgetful all day and couldn't remember any phone number", and she whispered, "After one year, I will. 3 ~ 5 years, there will not be much change; From September 2006 to September 2008, I will study for a master's degree in art. After graduation, consider not only doing some variety shows, but also trying some in-depth talk shows ... "
Love Dong Qing: It's easy to have a good feeling, but it's a test for me to be in love for a long time and form a positive result.
"Highly educated, well paid and tall"-as one of the "three high" women in the city standard, as you might expect, every time Dong Qing comes home, the question that parents are most afraid to ask must be: "Why haven't you been in love?"
The highest rating she has always given herself is "awake". Just as I have always been "awake" to realize that any trait is actually a "double-edged sword"-for work and life, "awake" is undoubtedly an invincible shiny silver gun, but when it is my turn to cut messy love, "awake" often becomes a stumbling block: "In terms of work, your efforts will definitely pay off, and it will definitely pay off in the slow accumulation, but emotional problems do not mean that I am a long-term one. So, "ten years ago, love was the most important thing to me, but now, work is." "
Of course, although "I haven't thought about getting married yet", it is definitely false to say that I don't "long for love"-when it comes to "love", she is as eloquent as any girl:
"I can't get to know my lover by attending some occasions. There are also good people to introduce you, but ... alas, it is natural.
"I am a very powerful person. If I love someone, I will devote myself wholeheartedly and hope that the other person will return wholeheartedly. If I choose a family in the future, I will give up some jobs selectively, but not all.
"Once a few boyfriends-ah, I admit that there are actually only two-are completely different people, so I am not limited to a certain type. What I can't stand most is men's stupidity. What I admire most is that men have brains and men must have wisdom. Secondly, his dedication and sense of responsibility, because only smart people can judge the situation and have the ability to maintain a good relationship between two people.
"The negative impact of my parents' strict education is my insecurity, which makes me feel nervous all the time, demanding myself in many aspects and often feeling tired. Of course, this has no influence on my ordinary friends and colleagues, but my personality demands more and more as I get closer, which is definitely a disadvantage for close people.
"If conditions permit, I will have one or two children in the future. I will encourage them, but I will be stricter in their education, because strictness is good. I believe they will like their father more than I do, haha ... "
Her "least favorite" dusk suddenly came. Put on the perfect dress and shiny high heels, and then put on a casual shirt, she suddenly looks much younger and petite. It was a weekend, and thousands of people outside the studio were brightly lit. She sat in the back seat of a wide and dark car, looking a little thin. Yes, her destination is still the airport, flying alone. She smiled and waved and said goodbye to us warmly and happily-I hope she really got used to it.
Three words to describe yourself.
Persist (for work and love). I don't think loving work is a woman's weakness, but being narrow-minded and caring.
Sincerity (you can feel it from my conversation-do you want to say another shortcoming? );
My heart is full of passion (I am Scorpio, cold outside and hot inside, and I may have a sense of distance, but I am actually full of feelings).
Dong Qingxin language:
From small to large, there is little encouragement and praise, and more scolding and scolding. As I said, everything is a double-edged sword. No one in this world is really good to you except parents. And I feel more and more guilty, because my care for them is very limited. Our family lives on the sixth floor, and often when I walk far away, I see my mother lying on the windowsill with her head out … I can't bear to look back.
How wise and filial.