But there are not many women who really live exquisitely.

Proper appearance is one of the first conditions to become a refined woman.

The famous host Yang Lan once talked about his experience in Britain:

Once an interview failed, she went to a coffee shop with long hair, pajamas and a coat. There were many people inside, and the waiter arranged for her to sit in front of a well-dressed old lady.

The old lady didn't look at her, so she wrote a note to her: the bathroom turns at your left rear.

When Yang Lan returned to her seat, the old lady had already left and left her another note:

As a woman, you must be exquisite, which is a woman's dignity.

Elegant temperament from the inside out is one of the first conditions to become a refined woman.

Not only know how to enjoy life, but also know how to please yourself. Such a woman is the soul of the world. That kind of incomparable charm makes it hard to like without getting close.

I have a best friend. She is such a delicate woman.

After working for three years, she earns 8000 yuan a month. Although her income and life are not very good compared with those students who have reached the top, her best friend still has her own little luck.

After paying the rent and the credit card, she will still use her little salary to buy herself a lipstick with a beautiful color and change it into a small bag that she likes for a long time.

Such a small gift for myself will not bring happiness to Cinderella like the glass shoes on her feet, but the pressure of life and work can be softened.

What women need is not beauty but pleasure. Is to dress yourself as clean and elegant as possible, a little fashionable, harmonious and pleasant in color. People can think of beauty when they see it, which is pleasing to the eye.

As "The Fragrance of Women" said, a clean woman can give people a sense of fragrance even if she doesn't wear perfume.

Exquisiteness is also an inner calm and elegant attitude towards life.

Maybe someone will say sourly: Who doesn't want to live a refined and elegant life with money? Who doesn't want to use money to pursue the quality of life? Life is tired enough, but what's the fun?

I remember that the writer Chen wrote a book called "Shanghai's Golden Branches and Jade Leaves", and mentioned the famous lady of the Republic of China, Miss Guo Jiasi of the old Shanghai Yong 'an Department Store.

Teacher Guo has eaten all kinds of delicious food since she was a child. She is fluent in English. She grew up in London and then returned to yenching university to study. She was the best of her time. However, there is nothing to say about this noble birth. If you put anyone in a luxurious life, you are likely to behave gracefully and speak with an accent.

What moved me was the following story.

After the founding of People's Republic of China (PRC), department stores were nationalized. She used to go out by car, accompanied by bodyguards. She changed into coarse clothes and became a professional woman. Under difficult conditions, she can bake crispy toast with briquettes and wire, and make a cake with St. Peter's flavor with aluminum pot and flour.

Later, her husband was knocked down and died unjustly in prison, and there was no property at home. She was also forced to go to the countryside to reform through labor, raise pigs and do dirty work. But she never gives in and always holds her head high. She insisted on cleaning toilets in cheongsam and selling salted duck eggs in the market in shiny leather shoes.

In Wanying Guo's later years, when foreign journalists asked about the years of reform through labor, Wanying Guo said calmly, "These labors helped me keep healthy."

No matter how bleak the world is, she can still maintain a noble and optimistic character in difficulties. This woman has finished her delicate life.

"Be patient, be kind, and you have a good family. Flowers bloom and fall, and the golden branches and jade leaves are unbeaten. " -Wanying Guo's elegiac couplet

This is exquisite, can enjoy the best, can bear the worst, life has given her a ferocious sour lemon, and she squeezed it into delicious lemon juice.

Exquisiteness is a leisurely and elegant attitude towards life. Even if life abandons you, even if you are in a mess, you will stick to it and live a poetic life. You don't have to use money to support it, but you must feel it with your heart.

Influenced by education since childhood, we will define people who pay too much attention to the outside as superficial and focus all the profoundness on the so-called inner beauty.

Some seniors will even tell you that when you are young, you just need to immerse yourself in professional skills and practice 18 kinds of martial arts. The rest will be easy when you have economic strength.

Therefore, too many girls put all their energy into the office, leaving their youth in the library, dragging their tired bodies and rough appearance to pursue the truth, thinking that this is the essence of inner self-restraint.

When I grow up and know more and more girls older than me, I will find that having a decent appearance is also a part of inner self-cultivation, and their souls are as elegant as their appearance.

Those women who live an exquisite life and are willing to take time to take care of themselves and dress themselves have a beautiful life. Because the pursuit of beauty will permeate all aspects and make her better.

Make time to take care of yourself every day. No matter how busy the trip is, at least make sure to wear lipstick.

When you wear lipstick, you get not only beauty, but also confidence and independence.

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