Don't tell me you still love her. If you love her, why doesn't she remember your kindness and cuckold you instead?
In fact, many girls are still very traditional and have a heavy sense of responsibility for their families, so as long as life is not too depressing and boring and people are too desperate to see any hope, most girls will not take the initiative to cheat!
It's really a big mistake for her to do so, but it can make your wife cheat, which shows that you are not necessarily completely irresponsible.
Have you paid more attention to your work in your life and haven't taken the initiative to care for your wife for a long time? Is there something wrong with your lifestyle, and you often have abnormal sexual relations with other girls?
If there are these problems, then your wife may cheat because she has despaired of your marriage, or she may want to get back at you and make you feel betrayed!
Of course, it is also possible that, like many derailed love rat, she did not resist the temptation of macho men, did not keep her heart, and violated the moral bottom line!
But no matter how likely it is, your marriage has turned red and it is difficult to maintain it! Divorce is the best choice!
What will life be like if we don't get divorced? Let's guess!
It is very likely that your wife still has feelings for you, but she may not be indifferent to the fitness instructor. You can choose to forgive her, but she may not be able to make a more correct move. Will you be angry if she loses contact with the coach? Angry? If one day you get angry, lose your mind and do something extreme, such as killing dogs and men! You must also pay the price of your life for your impulse! Do you think it's worth it for such a person and such a broken thing?
Even if you are warm-hearted and won't do anything drastic, won't your heart fluctuate? Can you still trust her as before? Your suspicion and her vacillation are likely to make the marriage worse!
Either cut the gordian knot, divorce, divorce before all emotions ferment, nip all grief and indignation in the bud, and then live your own life.
Since some people can't stay, let go, be kind to life, and life can be kind to you. Maybe one day, you will find a pair of firmer hands waiting for you on your way forward!
If you really can't live without your wife, there is no way but to continue to maintain your marriage. There are only two ways to maintain your marriage.
One is sensibility and rationality. Promise her that you will take care of your family and pay more attention to her and her children in the future. I hope she can seriously consider staying with a fitness instructor who has no sense of responsibility and will hook up with women all day. Or should we reflect on ourselves, stop thinking, correct incorrect behavior and return to normal family life?
The other is to turn a blind eye to her behavior and completely ignore what she has done! There are such people. In my hometown, there is such an example. My wife has an improper relationship with a widower in the village, and my husband knows it. But because the child is over 50 years old and has not divorced, he pretends to know nothing and lives day by day!
Second time around? After all, a cracked marriage can't be as perfect as before. If you are reluctant to be together, there will be many hidden worries in marriage. These hidden worries accumulate over time. Once it breaks out, it will inevitably hurt people and hurt themselves. I think it is extremely unworthy, so I strongly suggest that you divorce. If you can tolerate such betrayal, what fun is there in life?