As the saying goes, life is greater than business. This sentence also applies to work. In the book Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, it is mentioned that family is the focus of our life. When you are old, lying in the coffin should think that you haven't spent more time with your family, not that you have any unfinished work.

So be sure to understand the relationship between work and life, and don't give up everything. But now that life and work are under great pressure, how can we relax them?

First, about efficiency.

Time is limited, you can't have your cake and eat it, so do important things energetically during working hours. Don't delay. For example, it only takes 8 hours to go to work, so if you leave your work unit after 8 hours, don't think about work any more. In this way, the rest of the time will be my own when I finish my work.

After work, I will turn off all electronic communication products and turn them on only when necessary, so that my life will be quieter. Nothing can disturb my time with my family.

If the boss lets himself work overtime after work, he should learn some basic time management skills, finish it quickly and with high quality, and arrange his time well.

We see that many successful people are not workaholics. Workaholic is actually not efficient enough, especially those who like to work overtime in the workplace. Actually, they just seem to be working hard. Give yourself a hard look and think that you are worthy of your family. In fact, they didn't see the silent concern and anxious eyes of their families behind them.

Second, about willingness.

Many people can't see through the relationship between the two, which has caused many tragedies. There was a lot of news about karoshi before.

Many big companies have too much competition pressure, and their work intensity and working hours are not close to human nature. Young people don't know how to rest. As a result, when I was in my 40 s, all my diseases fell on me, and all the money I earned in the first half of my life went to see a doctor for myself.

I also heard that a friend's neighbor went to Tibet to do business there. A few years later, he did come back with money, but he got altitude sickness.

His wife, Lacrimosa, paid the pain of separation from her husband a few years ago, thinking that she would get it if she gave up. In recent years, I have to watch my husband toss and turn on his deathbed, wondering what their life is for.

Therefore, giving up is the pleasure of spiritual opium brought by giving up work and the ethereal feeling that there seems to be a lot of material gains. What is the most real thing? It's family, it's emotion, it's our life. Don't be greedy.

Master working methods at work and work crazily to improve your efficiency; When it's time to live, don't think about work and fully enjoy life. Don't be confused, this is a smart and successful person who can balance the proportion of work and life. Even if you don't earn much.