1, don't care too much about his life and don't think about it. Never mind whether he wants to share it with you or not. He doesn't want to talk about you or chase you.
The coming love is meaningless.
2. Learn to be independent
Don't rely on others, whether in feelings or in life, don't have unrealistic expectations of others, don't tie your future with each other, have the determination to love and have the courage to leave.
You should love yourself more.
You should work hard, live hard, exercise hard, study hard, love yourself and take care of yourself. One thing here is enough for you. Don't stick to him all day.
Never mind why he didn't reply to the message.
Adults will have their own busy time, their own work and space, and it is better to do their own work while staring at them. And have some fun.
5. Don't over-analyze
Thinking about a little thing repeatedly will make you instinctively think: I am weak, I can't make it now.
6, learn to accept
Although I love you, it doesn't affect my charm and my ability to be loved forever.
7. The most advanced ability a girl has.
This is self-consistent. It doesn't matter whether you love me or not. It doesn't matter how much you love me and how many people you love at the same time. It doesn't matter whether you can let go of your ex's first love. I only care if you have what I want, and if you are willing to give what I want when you are with me.
8. Never reveal your sense of need.
You have to understand that all good things have chips behind them, not based on our wishes, and others will give them to us if they don't want them, so never expose your sense of need. It is easy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and you will unconsciously put down your posture and gradually become unconfident. Once the other person smells your low profile, the subconscious will think that you are not worthy of him.
9. Don't let sunk costs affect decision-making.
When you are really unhappy in your future life, no matter whether it is intimate relationship, work or anything, no matter how hard you try, you can't solve it. You should change it as soon as possible and start over. Don't let the sunk cost affect our decision.
10, and constantly expand their horizons.
Go out and see the world. When you see the vast world and meet different people, you will know yourself better.
You will find interests that you have never noticed, and thus know your strengths and weaknesses. You will also find that what you thought was important in the past is actually not so great.