I think it varies from person to person. If the relationship between husband and wife is good, marriage is a warm harbor. If the feelings are not good, marriage is a shackle and suffocating.
Many middle-aged people have settled down in life. To outsiders, they have no worries about food and clothing, and their children have grown up and can stand on their own feet.
They chose this time to make mistakes in their marriage, which not only destroyed everything they had worked so hard to build before, but also made them face a series of problems in the future.
It is easy for us to understand that men have other ideas in marriage. Sometimes they just don't have to think, and they are led by hormones.
Now the situation is getting more and more complicated, and many married women are beginning to be half-hearted. They even started to develop another relationship without divorce. If the paper can't hold fire, it will come out to clarify that the relationship between husband and wife has already broken down and the marriage is tangible.
Married middle-aged women are "emotional", what is the picture? The stories of these women have inspired us a lot.
Xiao Qiang is 45 years old. She never thought that things would come to this.
Because of her enthusiasm for money, the man is particularly willing to spend money for her.
Xiao Qiang is a man with aspirations. When he was young, he risked his life for love and married his current husband despite his parents' opposition.
Xiao Qiang used to be a beauty embryo, but his education was not high. He went out to work after graduating from junior high school.
There are undergraduates, graduate students and rich second generation, but all of them are three years older than Xiao Qiang, and none of them have eye contact.
Xiao Qiang just took a fancy to her husband now, on the one hand, because his appearance conforms to Xiao Qiang's aesthetics, on the other hand, two people have similar academic qualifications, and together they have more * * * topics.
She thinks that love has everything, even if she has no money, she is happy.
In the first few years of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife was not bad. Although there is no money, her husband is considerate of Xiaoqiang everywhere, and she still feels happy.
Later, my husband opened his own shop. Due to lack of business thinking, he lost his savings for several years and had to go back to work.
At this time, Xiao Qiang found that her husband had gradually changed, and he stopped making progress. He lives day by day, drinking and playing cards after work.
Someone else's family changed a big house and bought a new car; Their mortgage on a house has not been paid off, and they are riding a small electric car.
If everyone has no money and life is getting better, the key is that the lives of friends around him are getting better, and Xiao Qiang is gradually complaining.
At this moment, the man appeared. He is a typical rich and willful person.
When we met, I gave her a big red envelope. She didn't accept it at first, but then she thought about it. Later, he bought Xiao Qiang all kinds of luxury goods, and she accepted them. I took these things home, but my husband didn't understand or ask, and nothing happened.
When Xiao Qiang was with this man, he really realized what the life of the rich was like. He always chooses the best when he goes out in a limousine and enters and exits star-rated hotels, and does not bargain.
Xiao Qiang's affection for this man is not so much money as money. At the age of 45, she finally bowed to reality.
Unlike Xiao Qiang, Zhang Mei is not short of money. What she wants is personal company.
Zhang Mei retired at the age of 40. Her children go to private schools, and her husband is busy with the work of the company all the year round.
As a housewife, she has nothing to do, and most of her time is spent on reading and self-cultivation.
She went to the gym to take a yoga class and learned yoga skills from scratch with many people.
Everyone knows how difficult it is to change, but fortunately they have a good male coach.
The coach is handsome and professional, so these middle-aged aunts never miss class.
Zhang Mei once went on holiday with her husband for a month and missed four classes when she came back.
After understanding the situation, the coach proposed to give one-on-one guidance when he was not at work to make up for what he had learned in these four classes.
Because of these classes, they broke the distance between them.
A middle-aged woman who is lonely all the year round, a hot-blooded guy, has produced some sparks.
Zhang Mei knows that she can't leave her husband, let alone be with this coach. She also knows that there will never be a shortage of other women around the coach.
She just regarded him as a yoga tool to relieve loneliness.
100 married people have 100 reasons to be emotional, and everyone has their own situation and difficulties.
People have to look for what they lack in a relationship. Women who are short of money love money. A woman who lacks companionship needs company; Husband and wife seek a sincere love without love!
I hope all married people can stay awake and look for answers in their own marriage, instead of looking for solutions outside marriage!