Think about the friends you made in the gym. Are self-motivated! Everyone wants to go to the gym for fitness, but they may just go to the gym to pretend to be forced, but most people should have good personalities. The friends you want to make in the gym are all muscular ... like you said, there are a lot of idiots ... well, come on, brother. Don't always put your circle of friends in such a small range. You can develop other fields ~