Love is tolerance, not indulgence.
Love is caring, not love.
Love is mutual blending, not unrequited love.
Love is mixed, not all sweet.
True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others.
But the inner harmony of people who love each other.
Just to make each other's lives better and pay silently.
This love not only warms oneself, but also warms the secular heart.
True love is to cherish when you can love.
True love is letting go when you can't love.
Because letting go means having everything …
Please cherish, love and bless when you put it down …
True love is a kind of heartfelt care and care, without flowery rhetoric and grandstanding.
You can only feel it from what you say and do. So plain and so firm.
On the contrary, oaths and promises explain its uncertainty. Never believe sweet words.
Second, it requires emotional radio broadcasting.
How many friends will the torrent of time wash away?
When I think about this problem, I have begun to find that many good friends have gradually lost contact. People who used to meet every day are now extravagant. There is a saying circulating on the Internet: How many friendships, the only connection now is praise. Seemingly humorous ridicule, which contains how much helplessness.
I used to believe that as long as we are true friends, no matter how time and space change, even if we don't have to contact, our friendship will not decrease. But as I grow older, I have to begin to believe that: friendship, like love, will eventually become a stranger without management.
When I was in primary school, I thought that good friends were going to school together every day, chatting after school, calling for homework and visiting occasionally. Looks like this is a good friend. But then they all left for various reasons. At first there was contact, but at last there was no news. In junior high school, I thought a good friend was someone who shared common interests, ideals and hobbies, helped each other and promoted each other. When I got to high school, I found that my former good friends had lost contact. Even in the same school, I seldom see each other. When I saw them, I just nodded, smiled or waved politely. I never started, but I smiled.
I tried hard to get back that friendship, but found that because of the reduction of contact, I didn't know what the other party had experienced. Without the topic of * * *, I couldn't share each other's happiness or unhappiness for the first time, as if I had walked out of each other's world and seemed to become indifferent and silent. Not complaining, not complaining, but feeling, and then gradually understand that we lost each other in walking and fell into the torrent of years.
Buddha said, looking back 500 times in the past life, I got a brush in this life. I have always believed in fate, so I like Zhang Ailing's explanation of fate: meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people, and you happen to catch up in the boundless wilderness for thousands of years. There is nothing else to say except to gently ask: "Oh, are you there?"
Life is like a reverse journey. It is a kind of fate to make friends you think in a short life. Remembering a story about fate, someone asked a hermit what is fate? The hermit thought about it and said that fate is fate and life is fate. The man was confused and asked the monk. The monk said: Fate is the practice of past lives. The man didn't understand his previous life, so he asked the Buddha. The Buddha said nothing, pointing to the clouds in the sky. As soon as the man saw it, the clouds in Yun Qi fell and things went with the wind, so he had an epiphany: there is no fate, but fate is like the wind, and the wind is impermanent. Cloud gathering is fate, and cloud gathering is fate. Just like the secrets revealed by Buddha's actions, many things are arranged by God in the dark. From meeting, knowing each other, leaving, and then dispersing, it is actually a kind of fate. Isn't it a kind of happiness to be able to leave a place for each other to remember and think in the deep heart?
It took me a long time to understand that the so-called growth is to force you to accept something you once could not accept. For example, friends who you once thought would accompany you all the way and will never be separated will eventually be separated. So, I learned to accept, write down the joys and sorrows of life, and began to understand that we have been growing and will always meet all kinds of new people. New friends will gradually become old friends, and old friends will gradually become strangers.
A friend is not the earlier you get to know each other, the better your relationship is, but the person who will stay with you until the end after you get to know each other is a lifelong friend. Lin said: "No fate can last a lifetime. No matter how gorgeous a banquet is, it will end one day. Knowing this, there is no need to get together. We are all passers-by in life scenes. Someone came in this scene and someone was lost in that scene. " In the hurried journey of life, something is bound to be lost, and sometimes it is too late to return to god, leaving only a vague figure. It is futile to interpret brevity with eternity. Stay is an instant, turn is the horizon.
But I am still very grateful to those who have walked through my life, bringing me happiness, letting me learn to be grateful and cherish the present, bringing me warmth, and letting me learn to understand and tolerate. Because of your company all the way, I have gone through many mountains and rivers, experienced prosperity and loneliness, and I am still calm. Time can take everything away, but it can't take away the familiarity and touch we left each other in the quiet and beautiful time. Meeting and parting are staged every day, which makes me understand that I should cherish what I have and silently bless what I have gone.
Imagine meeting again after many years, and then gently ask, "Oh, are you there?"
Bless friends far away and wish you all the best.
See semorn/article/6526.
Third, seek to read long emotional articles on the radio.
A radio station is a general term for radio stations, which refers to one or more transmitters or receivers necessary to carry out radio communication services or radio astronomy services.
Often radio stations will rush into people's hearts and speak long and emotional radio readings. The following is what I have compiled about reading a long emotional broadcast. The most comfortable relationship is that you don't have to guess anything 1 like a sentence: "Doubt will turn all concerns into ulterior motives."
I think the best relationship is not to guess each other. The most tiring thing between two people is to say something directly to let the other person experience it, while people with good feelings often express their thoughts. The whole world advocates the feelings of two children, and there is no need to guess, because of this simplicity.
At a certain age, you will find that you don't want to please anyone at first, and you will be with whoever you are comfortable with. Stay away when you are tired, and approach when you are comfortable. Don't go the same way when you are tired. Life has been so hard, why not let yourself live a little better? A long time ago, an employee sent me a WeChat the day before yesterday. We haven't been in a city for a long time because we went home to get married and have children.
He told me: "I feel very tired at work recently. I need to try to guess whether the leader has a meeting or the boss gives me instructions. This not only takes up my working time, but also needs to find out what the voiceover of what the leaders said at today's meeting was after work. I miss being with you. I don't need to guess what you usually say. Those days not only made me grow up quickly, but also made me happy, which I can't understand now. "In life, love and workplace, the last thing many people want to hear is," Feel it yourself ","Think about it yourself "and" Think about it ".
But I'm not you. How can I understand you? Things that can be asked directly are speculated and misunderstood. Why didn't Andy choose singularity in Ode to Joy? It is because of the cold front and back of the singularity that the singularity hid something at the first meal. He took the subway downstairs to Andy's house and invited her to dinner. The whole process is full of preventive measures.
At the second meal, Andy was full of trust in him and even followed him to a remote private restaurant, but the performance of Singularity was extremely disappointing. He tested Andy and even asked his friends to check Andy's car. When Andy left, he left a message: "Don't always observe me, test me and study me."
The most important thing to get along with is to be comfortable and talk aimlessly. Once doubt is added, the taste changes. There are no fools in life, everyone is a wise man. When you try to figure out others, in fact, others are trying to figure out you.
Really smart people will come with great sincerity, because they know that only sincerity can't refuse. And those self-righteous doubts have become fleeting in the future.
If you like someone, you must tell her that it is not a round of temptation, nor is it beating around the bush. It is hot and cold, which makes you unpredictable. People who can't guess will eventually become memories, and those who accompany us to the end will bring warmth.
Zhang Jiajia said: "Love is a formula, which eliminates misunderstanding, eliminates doubts, fuses hope and leads to reunion. So many lovers are on both sides of the equal sign, but you can't count me, and I can't be equal to you. "
The future is getting farther and farther, and it used to be longer and longer. Love divided by time equals memory. When love lacks eyes and only ears, you only believe what you guess.
Doubt often begins with speculation. It's like one day when you see your lover go out and meet a opposite sex, but you don't say anything, but your heart begins to care silently. You pretend to ask each other easily, but she avoids talking about it, thinking that the guess has been confirmed.
Later, speculation fermented, became suspicious, began to entangle, began to ask questions, became hysterical, and finally broke up one day. Force the other person to tell the truth: "That boy came to me just to let me help him save his girlfriend, because his girlfriend is my best friend."
You are dumbfounded. You find that there are always some things that others can't tell you. Lovers can share it, but they don't have to report everything.
Give each other some space, you will share what you want to say, and I won't ask what you don't want to say. The more space you leave, the longer you will spend together.
Michael Jackson once said, "When a world is full of hatred, we must still dare to hope. When a world is full of despair, we should still dare to dream.
When the world is full of doubts, we should still dare to trust. "Friendship is the same. I don't have to worry about what you said is aimed at me, and I don't need to interpret it deliberately.
We get along very comfortably, and all the conversations and jokes are the most natural and don't need to be catered to. Everything that needs to be fully maintained is not worth nostalgia.
The best relationship is that when we stand in front of each other, we don't have to guess. You are yourself and I am myself. We are two independent and complete individuals. We just hit it off and hit it off very well. We don't need to guess, nor do we need anyone to cater to anyone. We just put ourselves naked there to attract people who understand. A person's accomplishment depends on his kindness when he is frustrated. Last winter, I came out of the gym and found that I forgot my mobile phone, so I went back to the company to get it.
No sooner had I reached the door of the office than I heard a shrill female voice reprimanding someone. I looked for the voice and found that the little brother who delivered the takeaway was apologizing again and again. He is holding a plastic lunch box with soup in it, and some soup has been spilled. The soup is still dripping down his gloves. The female voice still insisted: "I don't care, I don't want this anyway." I want to complain to you. I can't even deliver takeout. What else can you do? " Ignoring the helpless smile of the takeaway brother, she turned and walked inside, and happened to bump into me who was ready to watch the fun.
She is a newcomer who has just come to the company for a long time. She usually looks like a gentle and lovely little white rabbit. She was embarrassed to see me break the ice and quickly explained to me, "I ordered takeout at six, and it's only half past seven." I just want some soup. I spilled so much. The bag is juicy and looks disgusting. " Seeing me smiling without a word, she added, "I'm really unlucky today. I was beaten by my boss when I was late this morning. When half a ppt just catches up with the blue screen of the computer. It is very hard to work overtime until now. "