Weak and weak, "dia gas", girls can, for boys, it makes people feel sick. As a boy, you should be full of vigor and strive for masculinity, hoping to change this phenomenon as soon as possible. A man is delicate, pretentious, gentle and thin, and his appearance does not have the characteristics that a man should have in the traditional definition, such as being tall, overbearing, untidy and so on. Is that "false motherhood" and male chauvinism? I don't think so. Should men and women have a standard appearance? In my opinion, men and women should not have "standard looks". This society has some incorrect stereotypes about gender, some wrong prejudices, labeling a certain gender, and imposing some expectations on a certain gender. For example, there are some traditional old ideas that:
Boys should be indomitable, independent, confident, fearless, masculine, tall and powerful, and proactive. .......
Girls, on the other hand, should be gentle and considerate, kind and gentle, humble and courteous, not as capable as boys, not as brave and masculine as boys, attached to men and family, reserved ..... and can't put a rigid label on a certain gender. First of all, treat people as human beings and independent individuals, not men and women. Men can also be gentle, careful and well dressed. A person's gender should not be used as a standard to evaluate ta's work ability, talent, moral quality, development space, whether it is good or evil, whether it is an offender or a victim, and whether it is competitive in the workplace. Don't limit yourself because of your gender.
Compared with advocating "masculinity" and preventing "false motherhood", it is more appropriate and urgent to educate and guide teenagers, both men and women, to develop healthy gender and aesthetic concepts, to learn healthy sexual health knowledge, to develop healthy three views and personality, to educate them to get along with themselves and others, to respect the opposite sex, not to do things that hurt others, to strengthen physical exercise and to keep fit. Feminization of men is a worldwide phenomenon, not only in China. The rise of small fresh meat culture and the feminization of men are actually a symbolic phenomenon: it marks a long-term peaceful era and also marks the beginning of a better life for the whole society. Some netizens think that this is a "women's choice" society. In this social environment, it doesn't matter whether a man can beat others. Peace is the main theme. Whether you can please women is the most important thing.