Have your own temperament, which makes people feel attractive. The so-called temperament is that as the name implies, standing or walking will not hunch over, nor will you walk with your ass up.
Then there is personality: gentle and considerate, approachable, introverted and modest. It is said that women are made of water, with soft voice and intimacy. Women are sincere and calm, and they talk generously and elegantly. This is the so-called "combining rigidity with softness"! This is just my personal opinion.
From the traditional point of view, women are like water, tender feelings have tough characteristics, and women are like soil and virtuous. Like pearls or jadeite, it has a mild and delicate luster. The so-called femininity is the kind of tenderness and elegance that is unconsciously revealed, and the delicate feeling of Shui Rou is like satin.
As for the charm, we will say that pearls or jadeites have charm, because the beauty of this kind of jewelry is not obvious at a glance, it is as long as the lingering sound. And diamonds, gems with diamond luster, are clear at a glance in essence, lacking implicit beauty and charm.
So what is temperament? Huang Rong is witty, the little dragon girl is free from vulgarity and clear, all of which are the beauty of her unique temperament. Temperament does not lie in the appearance itself, but in the material gas field deposited by everyone, which is related to the inner spirit. The ancients said that each other is born from the heart. From the Buddhist point of view, what the heart thinks and what the heart thinks will eventually be presented in concrete forms in the real society.
Lin Qingxuan once told the story of a man selling eagles, because he had been catching eagles for many years and one day found himself an eagle. The so-called temperament is what you have experienced, just the expression of your thoughts.
Femininity is a fashionable term, which refers to the unique charm and attraction of women, and it is the embodiment of women's gentleness, elegance, kindness, wisdom, purity, sexiness and independence. Different people have different feelings, or different understandings.
The standards of femininity are: bookish, able to use body language, good to oneself, able to control emotions well, properly decorated, able to speak freely, slightly rebellious, leaving a little mystery and affinity.
Modern women have a broader space for self-shaping, and some traditional norms that have not completely passed away have long been unable to promise women's lifelong happiness. They grew up in confusion, and while thinking about the topic of women's life, they also spread a broader living space for themselves. Therefore, the connotation of femininity has become extensive and far-reaching. [ 1]
background
Feminine flavor frequently appears in various media.
There are many criteria for judging femininity, such as gentle eyes, elegant posture, shallow smile, faint greetings, silent concern, considerate actions, well-meaning help, rational response, inadvertently revealed taste, calm mind in chaos, indifferent feelings about life and so on.
Beauty does not mean femininity, and the relationship between beauty and taste is not proportional. Beauty does not mean taste, nor does it mean charm. The connotation of taste can cover beauty, but beauty cannot replace taste. This smell has nothing to do with age.
Mr. Zhu Ziqing once described a woman as follows: A woman has her gentle air, such as listening to flute and smelling rose fragrance, water like honey and smoke like fog, which covers us. Every step she takes, stretches, sweeps her hair and blinks, it's like honey flowing and water swaying ... A woman's smile is a half-opened flower, overflowing with poems and paintings, and silent music.
intelligence
Women should be feminine. Strong women are not cute, and little women can't love them. Whether you are a senior white-collar worker or an ordinary housewife, you must be feminine first. Many women should be gentle, kind, elegant and considerate. Find a balance between tradition and modernity, pursue the beauty of sexy and fiery fashion without abandoning the elegance and gracefulness of traditional classics, and be equal to men in career without losing the little mood of a little woman.
Femininity first comes from the beauty of her body. A woman with soft lines, long black hair like silk, skin like snow, eyes as quiet as a lake, and a beautiful smile like a rose will be full of femininity. Of course, femininity comes from the deep heart, a woman with a crystal clean heart, a gentle and considerate woman, and a woman who knows how to love. Her femininity is deeply rooted in people's hearts from the inside out.
gentle
Feminine, quiet as a pool, moving like ripples. A woman who can be attracted by her inner temperament is the most feminine woman.
Being a woman must be feminine. Feminine taste is the fundamental attribute of women, and it is also the charm of women. A woman is not feminine, just like a flower without fragrance and a bright moon without brilliance. Women have a taste, and three points of beauty can be increased to seven points; Women are tasteless, and seven points are beautiful and drop to three points. Feminine flavor makes women yearn for and intoxicate. Being an elegant and tasteful woman is a beautiful dream of every woman.
Being a woman and lacking femininity is tantamount to being sentenced to death in people's minds. Femininity is the charm of women, just like a precious dish, which has no taste in itself. It depends on the seasoning. Femininity is like fire and light. Feminine taste is a good wine, which lasts for a long time in Micari, and you will get drunk after a sip. Avantgarde is not feminine. Don't think that wearing strange clothes will make you smell. This smell is a strange smell. Rich women are not necessarily feminine, and materials can't be feminine. Cosmetics can only make women's skin. Such a woman is smelly with copper and lacks emotional appeal. Without emotional appeal, it is boring. A beautiful woman may not be feminine, but a woman with taste must be beautiful. A flower may have enchanting petals and colorful flowers, but it does not necessarily have a faint fragrance and a thin shadow. Beautiful appearance is unreliable, and beautiful appearance will be stained by the gears of time. Feminine and not feminine, a woman with taste is not disgusting and careless. A woman with taste is young and healthy, with rosy skin, full of vitality and always radiant.
It is not easy to be feminine. Without a certain cultural background, cultivation level and life experience, it is impossible to make intoxicating taste. Femininity is the lake in the moonlight, and it is a lily that blooms quietly. Such a woman is crystal clear, gentle and considerate, and considerate. Femininity also comes from the virtue of women. An unkind woman, even if she is charming and talented, is not an excellent and lovely woman.
Feminine taste is a kind of taste. A woman without taste, no matter how you practice, can only be pale and powerless. A woman with feminine taste, she is willing to study, read newspapers every day and surf the Internet frequently, but she is not obsessed with fashion magazines and gossip news all day; Literature, history and philosophy have their own dabbles, and occasionally they like to watch popular movies, but their eyes are not limited to the plot, but they can see different things from it. Maybe, she will learn English, practice calligraphy, tea ceremony, flower arrangement and yoga. A wide range of interests and hobbies have accumulated her introverted mind. A woman who can be attracted by her inner temperament is the most feminine woman.
Feminine flavor is a kind of fragrance. This fragrance not only refers to the fragrance emitted by the body, otherwise a bottle of perfume can solve the femininity. This fragrance is a charming smell from the inside out, which makes people feel that she is very fragrant at first sight. Her graceful posture can make this gray city full of spirituality. She is busy with her work, but she never scowls. No matter how nervous she is, she smiles and inadvertently exudes a delicate fragrance. She is kind and easy-going, everyone is willing to get close to her, and even the most secret emotional problems will tell her. Talking with her will often enlighten your life, make you calm, teach you to work hard and feel the beauty and hope of life.
Feminine taste is an elegant taste. A kind of elegance, a kind of calmness, a kind of calmness in the pursuit of peace in life. Have independent personality, independent economic support and independent ideological realm. Many women lose their elegance once they get involved with money. Feminine women also love money, but they don't stink. It is a pleasure for others to see her making money. She even loves money gracefully, making money to buy flowers and clothes. A woman's elegant taste is like this: her makeup is elegant, her words are appropriate, her smile is charming, but her love is persistent. No matter what occasion, she can cook herself well and make herself delicious.
Femininity is a charm. Gentleness is a woman's unique weapon. How gentle a feminine woman is. She loves herself more and loves others more. She is the spring rain, moistening things silently; She is the autumn wind, gently brushing your face. She embraced the whole world with a unique feeling of women. Gentleness is not only the femininity and charm of women, but also the kindness, care and kindness of motherhood. The most touching thing for a woman is tenderness, not affectation. Like a delicate hand, she knows how to be cold and warm, and how to be light and heavy.
Femininity is a sense of shame. She doesn't chatter, she doesn't do things in a hurry, and she doesn't treat people casually. Everything is measured and I feel a little ashamed. Shame is not a sign of weakness, but a beautiful sign, which can best arouse others' pity for others. Her reserved action language, affectionate eyes, smiling expression, elegant manners and lovely face are always better than a thousand words. Showing "weakness" is a way to create femininity. Overexposure will only appear frivolous and make people look down upon it. Proper covering can increase the mystery of women. Many people are very excited about the function of female hair.
Feminine is one meaning. Is mysterious, slow, touching, unpredictable, deep into the bone marrow, crazy love. It has no shape, no fixed position, it is a subtle temptation to moisten things, it is a looming beauty, it is a longing for exploration, and it is more wisdom with less. Every movement, every sentence, every smile is the best and most beautiful. It can be said that the green is a little red, and there are not many touching spring scenery. Feminine taste is like cold plum, beautiful and detached, beautiful and natural; Feminine taste is like a rose, full of fragrance and bright color; Delicate as cloves, charming but not enchanting, delicate and pretty; Feminine taste is like bluegrass, elegant and refined, outstanding but not group, and deep down, people are infinitely daydreaming.
Feminine flavor is an emotional flavor. Femininity is a lingering emotional appeal. A woman with emotional appeal, in addition to pots and pans, will also decorate her small home beautifully, with curtains, tablecloths, lace tassels and bright and clean windows. Even if there are no flowers in the vase, there must be some and the vase must be spotless. Femininity is still a kind of amorous feelings, a kind of rhythm from the inside out. Dressed in silk, brocade or silk cheongsam, her bare legs are beautiful, her hair is tall and graceful, and the oriental charm is like a classical flower, which blooms in the depths of time and does not fade with the polishing of time. It is so enchanting and exquisite that it shocked everyone. [2]
standard
1. Full of books.
Women who study are less obsessed with suffering, less desperate, lonely and melancholy, and less bitter. Because of the beautiful light in the book, it has been imbued with their moral integrity for a long time, whipping the "small" under the fur robe. So women who study will be gentle, kind and beautiful.
2. Can use body language
Affectionate eyes, smiling expression, elegant manners and charming face are worth a thousand words.
Be kind to yourself
Never hurt yourself at any time. Setbacks in love and career will bring you temporary depression. Learn to take care of yourself. Health is very important to modern people.
3. Be able to control your emotions well.
Take a deep breath when you are dissatisfied and tell yourself not to panic and lose your temper. Don't bring personal affairs and bad emotions to the unit or extend the unpleasantness in the unit to the home.
Appropriate decoration
The face is not beautiful, but you can make it as pleasing as possible, not following the trend, but having originality and personal taste.
This language is flexible.
I know the art of language very well, and I will never impose my views on others when I disagree. I will easily resolve boring jokes, neither making embarrassment with a straight face nor accepting all orders quietly.
6. A little rebellious
Not willing to be a good girl without thinking, she often has fresh and distinct ideas and opinions, does not agree with others, and can state her different opinions tactfully and firmly.
Step 7 leave a little mystery behind
I don't talk about personal topics in the workplace, especially love stories, but in front of my lover, I will play a little love song from time to time to make my lover intoxicated.
8. Have affinity
I won't spray strong perfume to make people around me sneeze, and I won't interrupt others' conversation for no reason. Even if I am better than others, I will not be complacent. [3]
trait
One of female characteristics: innocence
Everyone likes pure women, because they are like budding buds, beautiful and simple, as clean and simple as a blank sheet of paper, which makes people want to protect and possess involuntarily. A woman with pure breath is like a lotus without mud. They can see it from a distance, but they can't be used for entertainment. These women are unremarkable, naturally pure and refined, with a waterfall of long hair, a pair of pure eyes, a pure and elegant temperament, and their appearance is always younger than their actual age. They are standard dreams, how can they not make people's hearts beat? [2]
Feminine second: sexy
A pure woman is like an unopened flower. Imagine its beauty after flowering. Seeing plum can only quench your thirst. After all, it can't compare with the blooming red roses. A sexy woman is like a blooming flower, moving and fragrant, with the beauty of shame. Amorous feelings are the most essential femininity of women and the inner charm of sex appeal. All kinds of amorous feelings make women's bones exude sexy allure, which can show women's full charm, wild and unrestrained beauty, soft and shiny long hair, charming eyes and sexy and full red lips, which makes people fall for it. [2]
The third femininity: elegance
Elegant and generous women are very attractive. This type of woman has Wan Fang-style manners and elegant conversation. Elegance is the noble temperament that women exude from the inside out. A beautiful woman is not necessarily elegant, but an elegant woman must be beautiful and charming. No ink on the chest is not elegant, no taste is not elegant, kind but sentimental is not elegant. Elegance is synonymous with sunshine, openness, self-reliance and self-improvement. Only those who are knowledgeable, generous in speech, well-dressed, well-behaved and cultured can be called elegant. Elegant women will turn themselves into a light and precious wine, full-bodied, mellow and gentle. They may not be of noble birth and status, but they have a noble mind. [2]
The fourth femininity: gentleness
Most people want women to be gentle and delicate, because this is determined by women's physiological characteristics and is a natural demeanor. "Long hair shawl, gentle temperament", these eight words are the general term for oriental women. A woman can have no charm, but she can't live without gentleness, because youth is fleeting, and only gentleness can make a woman retain lasting charm, and this charm is feminine, hidden in the gentleness of a woman and reflected in her thoughtfulness. There is a line in Xu Zhimo's poem, "The gentlest bow is like the shyness of a hibiscus out of water." Presumably this is the truest portrayal of femininity. [2]
The fifth female trait: kindness
Kindness is the essence of human nature and the most precious character in life. Women are beautiful because they are kind, and this beauty is reflected in a simple, true and healthy mood. A feminine woman must be a grateful person. She always believes that life is always beautiful, she can live smarter and more interesting, get along with others with love, create a more harmonious living environment with kindness, and reap warmer emotional returns. This is also what people want most. [2]
Three key words
temperament
A person's real charm mainly lies in his unique temperament, which is attractive to both the same sex and the opposite sex. This is an innate personality charm.
bearing
The beauty of elegance lies in nature. "Clear water produces hibiscus, natural carving" highlights this aesthetic view.
Dress
Female aesthetics in the new era emphasizes individuality and self-confidence. Therefore, you must wear your own unique flavor from the inside out.
Connotation extension
High quality life
First, a woman with a high-end life must be feminine.
Taste is especially important for a woman who wants to be feminine. Of course, this smell cannot be simply rooted in clothes, things and other superficial things. Know how to live with high taste, don't just cook and wait on your husband after work, know how to have your own life, know how to live leisurely, and learn tea ceremony and camellia; You can also exercise and practice yoga; Besides, you can take part in some activities, climb mountains and make some friends ... In short, you should enjoy life and don't let yourself live for others forever.
Not avantgarde
Second, avantgarde is not feminine.
You should know that you are not wearing strange clothes, but that you have a unique strange clothes, not feminine, but "weird" The most important thing is to dress up for yourself and the environment. Not every woman can wear a Issey Miyake, but a proper dress will still make you full of femininity. Women should be sexy, but their feelings are not directly proportional to their exposure.
Stay away from the smell of copper
Third, don't get the smell of copper.
Women can love money, but they also have a fragrant femininity, just like Qiong Yao, the author of romance novels, who exchanged her own words for capital, so she can be said to have no femininity. Doesn't mean being rich makes you feminine. If you make money in the wrong way and lose your elegance, you will inevitably smell like copper. What about femininity?
economic independence
Fourth, be economically independent.
Dumas' La Traviata must have been read by many people. From the description of the heroine there, it is not difficult to see that she is a beauty, but she is not as good as Bing Xin, an excellent writer. Women need economic independence to be self-sufficient. A beautiful woman locked in a golden cage by a man can't be feminine. Isn't Yi Shu also making money to buy flowers to wear himself? Without economic independence, there is no independence of personality, and even personality is not looking for femininity.
Slowly cultivate
Fifth, femininity requires slow cooking.
Good food needs to be cooked slowly with spices, and feminization of women is not urgent. You can never eat a fat man in one bite, and femininity is not born. It requires you to practice slowly in your life, and the result of being eager for success can only be ridiculous and generous.
If not, you might as well cultivate yourself from now on. If your words and deeds are different, and you never have your own ideas, don't be a woman who has no opinion, and don't be a woman who is greedy for money. You should know how to own yourself, learn to be different, learn to stand out from the crowd, and know how to have your own taste. When you really do all this, women will have a smell, a fragrance that can confuse everyone.
Femininity is a concept and a perspective, which presents a broader living space for women. It also makes the connotation of women's beauty more specific and far-reaching. Femininity first comes from the beauty of her body. A woman with long black hair, soft lines like satin and snow-like skin, plus the quiet eyes of the lake and the beautiful smile like a rose, will be very feminine. Women are more from the heart, a woman with a crystal clear heart and a gentle and considerate woman. A woman who knows how to love someone, her femininity is deeply rooted in people's hearts from the inside out. Women want to be beautiful, and beauty is an automatic goal and task in women's lives. No matter you are a senior white-collar worker or an ordinary housewife, you should first be feminine, gentle, docile, virtuous, meticulous and considerate. You should find a balance between tradition and modernity. In the pursuit of sexy and fiery fashion beauty, don't abandon the elegance and gracefulness of traditional classics, don't compete with men in career, and don't lose the little mood and happiness of a little woman. Beauty is a concrete, vivid and abstract concept. Many women have pursued it all their lives without hitting the point. In fact, the core of women's beauty is femininity. Grasping this root to make a fuss, beauty will become a rational and operable thing, and everyone can make themselves beautiful. Feminine taste is the supreme and rich femininity of women, which is always associated with noble, warm and exquisite temperament. A person's real charm mainly lies in his unique temperament, which is attractive to both the same sex and the opposite sex. This is an innate personality charm. There are no ugly women in the world, only women who don't know how to make themselves beautiful. Beautiful women are dressed just right, which makes women shine at the moment without leaving a trace. The essence of femininity is to learn to be a person with taste, connotation, temperament and charm. Refers to the unique charm and attraction of women, which is the embodiment of women's gentleness, elegance, kindness, intelligence, purity, sexiness and independent charm. Different people have different feelings, or different understandings.
A confident woman who can dress.
Mature, intellectual and attractive women are the most feminine!
Men often like women's young looks and mature psychology. How can they spoil you all the time? After all, men are under great pressure in work and life and need a woman who can understand them. It's ok to be spoiled occasionally, they will always be tired.
Who doesn't like a woman who supports you at work and understands you in life? There is a good way to keep order at home. When a man comes home from work, he will feel very warm and comfortable. Home is your warm haven, and a woman who can keep a house will let a man take care of him twice!
Gentleness and subtlety are the characteristics of intellectual women, and their sense of humor is more feminine. It can be said that it is both emotional and rational, which makes men inseparable.
The above is my answer, I hope to adopt it, thank you!
Hello everyone! Glad to answer this question!
I hope my answer can help you!
In this divided era, every man has a different femininity in his heart. What if there is the same sex as most men? Maybe, but not necessarily. The kind from hormones.
So, there is really no need to spend too much time here. Theoretically, every woman always has a man who likes you waiting for you? If you don't wait, is there something wrong with your management? Lack of understanding of yourself and the environment, as well as your own design.
A gentle woman is recognized as the most feminine.
The gentleness of a woman is reflected in her tone of voice. She is not weak, but a gentle whisper.
The gentleness of women naturally has the power of motherhood. Gentle women know more about love. She will infect you with love and make you feel like a spring breeze.
A gentle woman knows that human feelings are warm and cold, but her heart is soft. She is never disturbed by real life, but changes the world with gentleness.
Tenderness comes from inner softness. Generally speaking, she is praised as very feminine, because love is released through tenderness.
Just like a child's favorite mother, she must not growl, but have a gentle tone, because she will feel her warm embrace and deep sense of security.
In intimate relationships, the integrated relationship is just like the mother-infant relationship, so gentle women bring security and calmness to men.
It can make men get inner peace in the hard work outside and relieve the nerves that are often nervous.
What is femininity? Feminine flavor is a unique flavor of women.
He is different from male masculinity, and she has a feminine temperament, which makes people have countless associations.
What are the general characteristics of a feminine woman? Look at these three aspects:
1, tenderness: a gentle woman knows more about love.
A gentle woman is recognized as the most feminine.
The gentleness of a woman is reflected in her tone of voice. She is not weak, but a gentle whisper.
The gentleness of women naturally has the power of motherhood. Gentle women know more about love. She will infect you with love and make you feel like a spring breeze.
A gentle woman knows that human feelings are warm and cold, but her heart is soft. She is never disturbed by real life, but changes the world with gentleness.
Tenderness comes from inner softness. Generally speaking, she is praised as very feminine, because love is released through tenderness.
Just like a child's favorite mother, she must not growl, but have a gentle tone, because she will feel her warm embrace and deep sense of security.
In intimate relationships, the integrated relationship is just like the mother-infant relationship, so gentle women bring security and calmness to men.
It can make men get inner peace in the hard work outside and relieve the nerves that are often nervous.
2. Charming: there is simplicity in shyness.
The second characteristic of femininity is shyness. Shy women always make people feel the truth and simplicity of their emotions.
Women blush only in front of the person they like, and women blush slightly only when their feelings are the most sincere.
Many men like shy women and always feel that this is the most feminine moment for women, because women want to say whatever they want, and everything is in silence.
Shy women have their own principles and bottom lines in their hearts. They are not unscrupulous, but deeply understand awe and respect.
The same is true of their attitude towards feelings. Because of her naivety, many people like Romance All over the House.
She will have the most sincere feelings in front of the person she likes, and she also knows how to refuse and stick to her true colors in front of emotions.
Therefore, the femininity of delicate women lies in their inner infatuation and waiting.
They deeply understand that, compared with ambiguous love, facing the most sincere feelings in their hearts is the best attitude and the biggest reason to make their hearts calm and fearless.
3. Dignified and elegant: a kind of maturity and atmosphere
The third characteristic of femininity is dignity and elegance. The modesty of women is an atmospheric beauty.
She exudes a maturity. Many men like women's maturity because men are actually more fragile than you think.
Women's maturity can often comfort men's anxious hearts and inspire them to move forward more bravely.
The maturity of a woman is also a kind of indifference. It is not easy to know things, so it will appear calm and calm.
Many people think that Angie Chiu is feminine, which is inseparable from her elegance and nobility.
Dignified and elegant women will know more about tolerance, and behind them is an internal precipitation of life and knowledge.
Most dignified and elegant women come from constant self-learning and will gradually have them.
For many people, dignified and elegant women often behave generously and have seen the world.
They will not be easily tempted by life and give up their bottom line and principles.
There is a strong tolerance in her temperament, which shows that femininity is not weak, but stronger than you think.
These are the three most common femininity we have seen. The more you look at it, the more attractive it is, and the more attractive it is in the baptism of years.
Generally speaking, femininity is the best thing in a woman's nature. She is very pure, which is a unique charm of women.
Feminine women, because they deeply developed their femininity to the extreme, they conquered the world with feminine power.
They attracted her because they were secret.
She comes from women's understanding of themselves and the world.
She is different from the masculinity of men, and is the way that women know how to display their temperament best.
This is their greatest advantage and the most attractive place for their femininity.