I usually give that person a smile on the spot, then say hello to the mother of the person who says I am fat in my heart, and then ignore that person. If I encounter a statement that makes me angry that I am fat, I will only say "I am fat, it's none of your business" and then ignore that person.

Then, besides that, I was told that I was in a hurry. I also made another coping style that feels more enjoyable than ignoring that person on the spot, and that is to lose weight.

I remember a few years ago, I was very fat. Every time my mother eats at home, she will use the reason that I am too fat to mobilize me to run and let me eat less. Every time, my fatness has become one of the topics of dinner. Imagine a big family eating around, telling me that I am fat and telling me to lose weight. From time to time, someone at home mobilizes me to lose weight and gives me ways to lose weight. Is this something that can be laughed off after a long time? Then, once they said I was getting fat again, I decided to lose weight. Then after several months (nearly a year) of diet control and exercise, I lost more than 20 kilograms and my figure appeared.

I still remember that after that, my mother and they looked surprised when they saw me. Everyone asked me how thin I was, so I told them truthfully, and then they were speechless. Then at dinner, my mother never said I was fat. After all, I am so thin. She said I was a little fat. ...

In short, I either fight back with words or prove that I can not be fat with actions. It feels better to act. After losing weight, many acquaintances will be surprised to ask me how I lost weight, which makes me feel very fulfilled. And those who once called me fat, just like I slapped them invisibly and sealed their mouths.