0 1, with independent self-care ability.
Nowadays, many people are calling on women to stand up and be independent and get rid of their dependence on their husbands. But just shouting slogans is useless. To do this, we must let women lay their own material foundation.
If a woman is not financially independent, has no financial resources and can't support herself, even if she just wants to buy a dress, she needs to look at other people's faces. How can she be independent?
Therefore, if middle-aged women want to live well after divorce, they must find their own jobs and careers. For married women, independence means whether they can take the initiative in marriage.
Independent women can have equal status. Even if there are problems in marriage, you can confidently say divorce, propose marriage, and face the money threat that men say.
Even divorce will not reduce the quality of life. Supporting yourself is happier and more meaningful than squandering your husband's money.
02, the heart does not miss the past.
I have to say that I have a relaxed mentality, a mentality of letting go of everything in the past, and I can face life positively without complaining or regret. There is really no need to worry about this woman's future. Facing what has happened, don't do those useless regrets and nostalgia.
You know, the role you choose to betray your marriage is not you, but the other party. Since it's not your fault, why let yourself get stuck in the past?
Generally speaking, divorced middle-aged women don't need to give themselves too much pressure and responsibility. At this time, the child has his own judgment and will not be disappointed with the whole world because of this. So they can see love rat clearly, stop in time, and pull back from the brink, which is also a better choice.
In fact, after this incident, the current husband and former husband have not been alone for a long time. No matter how much I miss the past, women can't turn a man into his original self, and they can't go back to the past. Let go of the nostalgia for the past early, let yourself forget those beautiful or sad memories and become a brand-new self.
03, still positive for the future.
Divorce is not your choice on the road of emotional marriage, but a small setback. You can't deny the pure existence of all feelings. Choose a divorced middle-aged woman. If you all dislike yourself and think that you will never be happy again, and there will be no change in the future, you can only make do with it.
This negative attitude will make your life worse and worse. Don't attribute the reason to divorce, because the key reason is still in your heart.
Divorce represents freedom. You can do what you want and cultivate your hobbies. After divorce, middle-aged women are also a role full of possibilities. Maybe at the next intersection, you can meet another love and re-enter the marriage.
The attitude towards the future largely determines the life that the world gives back to you. I am full of hope for the future and never regret the choice of divorce, so I won't let others question my decision. Only by making yourself better is the best ending, and it is also a kind of revenge for each other.