People at this stage are keen on communication and extroverted in overall style, and most of them are willing to open their hearts and embrace the world and society.
However, with the growth of age, people's personality and style of doing things will change greatly, because reality and humanity will teach you that what you get is not necessarily called ownership, and what you have may be lost.
What finally stands the test of time and remains in your side and hands is truly yours. There are a few things that people born after 50 need to understand most, which are often eternal truths in the world.
1. Sincere friends are worth interacting with.
In fact, there is really no need to feel sorry and worried about fewer and fewer friends around us.
Because this is the law of the world: the tide rises and falls, and people come and go.
No one can accompany you for a lifetime, and relatives and lovers can only accompany you for a while, not to mention just friends.
We should understand a simple truth: all hostility, intrigue, interests and concerns in the world are normal, and others have no obligation to be kind to us.
Therefore, under this premise, only those friends who are particularly sincere, have withstood all the tests of time and still stay by their side as always are worthy of communication and the most precious wealth that God has given us.
As for other friends who left quietly in various ways, it would be nice to have a happy and simple time together in the past. They left for their own consideration and specific reasons.
Don't insist, don't insist, just have a respectful attitude.
Over 50 years old, it is most important to keep everything you have accumulated through hard work, maintain an optimistic attitude, be healthy and have a happy family. Besides, if you have two or three sincere friends, life is enough.
2. What you lose is not necessarily bad, learn to be indifferent.
I remember when I was a girl, I once bought a dress that was particularly suitable for my temperament. It looks very fairy and pure.
At that time, I really cherished it and had the most opportunities to wear it. However, a year later, due to a laundry, I threw this white dress into some dark clothes and got soaked. The result was dyed colorful and scrapped on the spot.
During that time, I was unhappy and went shopping. I always wanted to find the same style again, but I never found it again.
Is this a pity? I guess so, at least now I remember. I think this should also be regarded as a kind of gain.
How many clothes do we have in our life? How many can you always keep in mind? Looking back, you will understand that what you lost is not necessarily bad, but it may become a precious memory, which will always be with you and can never be replaced. This should be regarded as a kind of harvest.
The truth in the world is the same, many of them have been lost, and finally they can stand the test of time. What can stay in your heart is precious. If it is gradually forgotten, then you won't feel much pity, that's all.
Love, friendship, wealth, status, reputation, connections? This is the case. Learn to be indifferent, let go and cherish the present, and life will be much smoother.
People over 50 should learn to look down on these things slowly, and there is no need to suffer all the time, which is not good for themselves and others.
Cherish those who accompany you and don't care about those who leave.
It is better to pity the people in front of you than to think far away. ?
Although it literally means love, it actually applies to all interpersonal relationships.
People who want to leave you naturally have reasons to leave. There is no need to be angry, angry and accused except to respect and express regret.
It turns out that in this world, people are close to each other only because they think that the existence of each other is very beneficial to one aspect of themselves, or are they three views, talents, contacts, resources, status or influence? Then in the interaction with each other, we will carefully identify whether the two are the same kind of people, then test whether the friendship meets our own requirements and expectations, and decide whether to continue to get along or let go at a certain stage of life.
Since making friends is a matter that runs through the whole stage of life, and it is voluntary for both parties, then each has the right to insist or give up.
People over 50, don't be sad or angry because those who think dealing with you is not a pleasure leave. It's normal. We make choices from time to time.
What you need to do now is to cherish the people who accompany you, cherish what you have now, and don't care about what you have left. The mountain is high and the water is long, and everyone has his own world. Everyone just needs to take good care and live their own lives.
In the final analysis, all things related to love stories in the world, except family ties, will naturally last a lifetime, and love or friendship may be at risk of leaving or losing at any time.
What we can do is to try our best to do our duty when we have the responsibility, and then wait for its development and change.
This is beyond our control. After all, living in the world, everyone has different ideas and pursuits. Everyone has his own interests. If one day, his friends around him gradually leave for various reasons, there is really no need to be too worried and sad, let alone blame others for it.
Others have the right to choose who to be friends with, but we don't force others to pay attention to their rights. It's that simple. what do you think?