First, boyfriends love others.
1. Human User Interface
A man who really loves you will love your joys and sorrows. He can't help laughing when you are happy, but he is actually very sad when you are sad. When everyone quarrels, you feel very unhappy and sad, but if your boyfriend really loves you and your experience, he will definitely take the initiative to make people happy.
Because he will be unhappy when he sees you unhappy, and he will feel sorry for your experience. A man who doesn't love you is happy, but he won't feel happy easily. He's not easy, pot calling the kettle black. He's not happy if you're not happy. So, if you want to know how much a man loves you, it depends on whether he cares about your experience. It is said that women know themselves well. A man who loves you, your mentality will also harm him, because he cares about your experience.
2. Your little temper
When a boy loves you, he will tolerate your shortcomings and temper, and he will regard your shortcomings as advantages. He will expand your advantages and reduce your shortcomings, so that you can only see your advantages and it is not easy to think too much about your shortcomings. But if a man doesn't love you, he won't tolerate your little temper easily. He always says that you are not good here and there, your advantages have become shortcomings, and your shortcomings have been expanded by him. How long is the peak of long-distance love? In fact, it is easy to detect the signs of military love breaking up in different places, but your own subconscious mind does not accept this statement.
How much a boy loves you depends on whether he can tolerate your little temper. If he can't stand your little temper, how can he love you? In any case, a man who loves you will tolerate you, but he can't tolerate you when he is married. Married and expect to tolerate you?
3. You
A man who loves you will ask you to send a message on his own initiative, and he will send you a message anyway. Because a person really misses you, he will take the initiative, invite you to chat and feel a lot of things with you. If you don't reply to his message, he will feel very anxious.
But if a person doesn't love you, he won't talk to you. Because he doesn't have you in his heart, he doesn't remember you at all, and he won't think of you easily when there are special key things. Then you can prove that your influence in his heart is not very high.
Second, the main performance of men love you
1. miss a good opportunity!
There are thousands of norms to consider whether a person loves you or not, wasting time with you and missing good opportunities! Wasting youth with you is just one of them. Boys who are willing to pay can spend a lot of money for others in the future. You don't know whether the boy who talks sweet words to you is sincere or obedient. And someone who wants to share life with you and take out a room to accompany you must have enough feelings for you.
How a person feels about you depends on whether he is willing to invest the most precious things.
Compared with other things, _ is gone forever and there is no way to buy it. Only valuable enough people are worth wasting his time and missing a good opportunity! . When you have to wait, it happens before your eyes for the first time, and you are lonely because you have no choice. Sad situation, let you hug and shoulder, do not want to see you cry and suffer indignities. Even if two people are together and don't say a word, they just sit together and become speechless, which is also extremely happy.
Being with the person you love is a waste of time and a good opportunity! It is also a kind of enjoyment. It's hard to do anything with people you don't love.
2./p & gt；
In the case of the object, women and men are just the opposite: the more a boy loves you, the harder it is to be angry with you; The more a woman loves her lover, the easier it is to lose her temper.
When a man really evaluates a person, he loses his temper with her because he loves her deeply. I can't help being angry with her, hurting her and watching her cry.
When a woman really falls in love with someone, she always loses her temper because of a little incident. Something bigger can cause a bloodshed, but she cares too much and cares about everything.
If you find that your boyfriend is getting less and less tempered, and everything follows you and depends on you, then you love the right person. On the other hand, my boyfriend's temper is getting bigger and bigger, and he is always angry with you, endlessly conveying negative emotions, which shows that he doesn't love you very much.
A person who really loves you will always keep you in his heart, capture your negative emotions, care about your mentality all the time, and even refuse to convey his negative emotions to you. Being with a person is not how good he is to you, but how bad he is to you. If you can't stand his "bad", then you must carefully consider this relationship.
3.
I heard that many girls are confident in shaping the national flag. Those who "lose weight after eating this meal", "lose 20 Jin a month" and "lose weight without changing their heads 10 Jin" have always been full of energy.
Boyfriends have different reactions to this matter Some say "Don't finish eating if you are so fat", some say "Eat more, it doesn't matter if you are physically and mentally healthy", and some say "You don't have to go on a diet to lose weight, the human body is the most important".
In fact, if a boy loves you, whether you are fat or thin, he still loves you.
He doesn't care whether you are beautiful or ugly, thin or fat. He only cares about your health, whether it is good or bad. Even if you mumble verbally that you want to lose weight, he will continue to buy better snacks you like quietly. If you don't eat on time, he will yell at you and he will continue to let you order a barbecue in the middle of the night. If you diet too much to lose weight, he will be more sad than you.
Third, the way to retain and reverse smart girls
1. Think independently from the perspective.
It's easy to disagree when two people are together. In fact, it depends on everyone's own subjective suggestions. They always feel that they really love each other, so they do it for the better of each other. So many times, you don't want to communicate with each other, just think about it. However, with the communication between two people getting longer and longer, you will find that everyone's differences have not been handled well. What you think is good for each other is not good for each other, and the differences between them are more intense.
You are not her, you don't know what she is thinking, and you never know what she really thinks, so another convenience will attract attention, so it is not enough to have doubt and belonging. Therefore, if you want the other person to have a sense of belonging to you, you must know what the other person thinks and wants, so you must think independently from the other person's point of view, put aside your own thoughts and do your best for the other person.
2. Adjust your mental state.
Now is the period of free love. Everyone has the right to pursue perfection and happiness. The other person chooses to separate from you just to make his heart happier. Therefore, when the other person breaks up with you, you don't have to give up all day, you don't have to slander the other person in front of your family, and you don't have to think about how to deal with him and tear him to pieces.
Your personal behavior damages the other person's daily life, so it always makes the other person more and more resistant to you. Why did he turn around? So you should adjust your mental state, and don't feel that the other party has done unforgivable things. You need to pay attention to his choice, and you can't put all kinds of bad statements on each other at will. Besides, you have no right to stop him from pursuing inner perfection and happiness. Therefore, if you want to stay, it is appropriate to find the root cause of breaking up with yourself. What needs to be left is your own change and diligence, rather than complaining to each other blindly.
3. Make yourself more "attractive" than new feelings.
The reason why the other party cheated is that you are very attractive to the other party. The new feelings are much more elegant for him, so his ability to resist temptation is reduced, and he will leave you with new feelings. So, if you want to stay, you have to make yourself more attractive than your new feelings, so as to attract him back. As the founder of the field of saving love often said: "All love is gradually attracted, whether it is first love or retention. Therefore, if you want to stay, you need to make yourself more and more attractive. "
The most important thing for girls to keep their cheating boyfriends is to understand the reasons for their cheating, and then change the status quo according to the reasons and improve their use value, so that you can save your boyfriend and rival's new feelings. Otherwise, questioning, discouragement, pestering, begging, scolding and other personal behaviors will always speed up the other party's giving up on you.
Authoritative expert analysis:
How much a man loves you can be seen from his personal behavior. A man who doesn't love you must be perfunctory to you. I always advise girls to let go of those who don't care about you. Isn't it enough that you died because of his adaptation, his indifference and his indifference? Every girl deserves deep love. But there are always some girls who are deeply stubborn. So what if he loves someone else? He once loved me because I could make him love me again. As long as you have confidence and a little method, it is not a problem to keep the situation. It is better to bid farewell to long-distance love with dignity, change yourself and save it.