It is true that all the achievements are inseparable from her personal efforts, but as far as the entertainment circle is concerned, efforts do not mean success. Andy can achieve such good results. It can be said that her superb sense of humor is absolutely indispensable.
Andy has always been known as a player in the entertainment circle or in the eyes of fans, and he knows the essence of humor. He often laughs at himself inadvertently, entertaining both people and himself, and narrowing the distance with fans.
A few days ago, she made a self-deprecating move in Weibo, poking fun at the old greeting way: "Every time someone asks me if I am here, I especially want to say something. Just say something directly. If there is no accident, I will stay here for decades. " A few words tell the difference in humor of Beijingers.
Another Weibo just posted a photo of his hotel room number: 538, and then said: OK, thank you! Quietly shaking a subtle joke makes people laugh.
Who wouldn't like such a girl who spreads happiness!
I remember a variety show in which Kelly was teased directly by Andy and sprayed in Andy's face. Andy replied tactfully, "Can we talk about it if it doesn't rain?" A simple sentence not only eased Kelly's embarrassment, but also added a joke to the program.
To say that a well-known actor with high emotional intelligence in the entertainment circle is Bo Huang. No matter how embarrassing the scene is, how difficult the problem is, when it comes to him, he will often solve it humorously in a few words, which not only effectively solves some embarrassing scenes, but also cleverly avoids some questions he doesn't want to answer, and sometimes quietly responds to the malicious satire of others.
At an award ceremony, the host joked about Bo Huang's appearance and sarcastically said, "It seems that a person's face value and talent are inversely proportional." Bo Huang responded humorously: "Well, I believe this sentence has always inspired you."
A typical example is that Bo Huang went to Lu Yu to make an appointment for this program. Lu Yu came up with a hidden murder question: "Bo Huang, are you angry now?" This question is difficult to answer. If you give a positive answer, you will feel that you are bragging. If you give a negative answer, you will feel a little hypocritical. Moreover, if you give a formal answer, you will lose Lu Yu for some time.
Bo Huang replied, "It must be very hot. Can you sit here and chat with Lu Yu? "
This is textbook humor. In short, it not only safeguarded its dignity, but also made fun of Lu Yu and praised the program.
As can be seen from the above examples, humorous language is indeed a great weapon for us to deal with various social relations and participate in various social activities. If used properly, it will have great effect.
Some people say that humor with appropriate benefits is the embodiment of high emotional intelligence. The author is deeply convinced.
According to the research of psychology and public relations, humor is the most popular capital in people's character.
Imagine, compared with a dull and boring person, who doesn't like a person who talks humorously and can bring laughter and good mood? It can be said that it is human nature to like humor and happiness.
Therefore, whether in social occasions or in the workplace, humor is a lubricant, which can make you make ends meet.
A humorous person always shines with wisdom, naturally forming a powerful charm atmosphere, revealing self-confidence and optimism.
Even in business negotiations, a timely humor can eliminate the opposing emotions of both sides and release a kind of goodwill and relaxation.
It can even be said that humor is also a great productivity.
An enterprise in Colorado, USA, confirmed through investigation that the production supervisor who participated in humor training increased the output by 15% within 9 months, while the sick leave was reduced by half.
In his book Jokes and Their Relationship with the Subconscious, Freud believes that humor is to express repressed thoughts in a socially permissible way, which is somewhat abstract.
Lin Yutang said that humor is a kind of wisdom.
The author's understanding is that true humor is a witty joke that flashes at a certain moment in combination with the current time, place, people and situation. It is a flash of wisdom, and its jokes are often closely related to the time, place, people and situation.
As far as the characteristics of humor are concerned, it is mainly manifested as wit, self-mockery, ridicule and humor.
Humor can be understood as a main way of thinking, an attitude towards life and an angle of observing things. The same thing, if you look at it from a humorous point of view, may not get better, but it can make you feel less bad.
It is true that some people are born with humor, which is closely related to their personality. Generally, humorous people are optimistic, open-minded and eclectic.
But as I said before, humor can be understood as a way of thinking and a novel perspective of observing things. Since it is a way of thinking and an observation angle, it can certainly be mastered slowly through a lot of practice.
As far as my personal understanding is concerned, being a humorous person can grasp the following six points:
First, we should break away from convention in thinking, broaden our thinking, get used to looking at things from an unusual angle, look for similarities between unrelated things, and use this contrast to create humor.
For example, in a program in Wu Zongxian, female guests were asked to list something once a month. The female guest suddenly blushed and looked embarrassed, unable to say anything. Pretending to be very strange, Wu Zongxian asked: How simple it is, electricity bills, water bills, credit card bills ... When the female guest heard this, she paused and blushed even more.
Electricity, water, bills, etc. It has nothing to do with what the female guests think is a holiday. Wu Zongxian skillfully used the frequency of "once a month" to make them jump, and deliberately misled the female guests, creating a humorous effect of hilarious laughter.
Lin Yutang once used length to associate a speech with a woman's skirt, saying, "A good speech should be like a woman's skirt, the shorter the better!"
Second, we should consciously find the jokes in ordinary things. Although there is only one form of everything in the world objectively, we can see different results with different eyes. Even if there are many serious things, there is also a funny side.
For example, there is a humor about funerals that there is a beautiful and vain woman who likes to be the focus of attention everywhere, and others have to revolve around her, so she likes to attend funerals the least, because she can't be the focus of attention there.
Third, be open-minded and optimistic, relax physically and mentally, and live a stressful life every day. It is impossible for people who suffer from loss to be humorous. They should have an open-minded concept that "everything is a trivial matter except life and death".
Once a famous scenic spot hung a warning sign on a steep mountain road, which read: "Please slide down the cliff carefully! If you slip unfortunately, please look left when you fall, and the scenery is excellent! "
This kind of humor that satirizes life and death is unexpected unless you have an open-minded and optimistic attitude.
Fourth, dare to show others your shortcomings, don't take yourself too seriously, and learn to laugh at yourself. All humorous people know that self-mockery will not belittle themselves, but will quickly narrow the distance between you and others, make them wary of you and open their hearts to you.
5. Read more humor or jokes at ordinary times, carefully analyze the mechanism and principle of their jokes, and accumulate materials. Although real humor is difficult to imitate because it involves time, place, characters and scenes, it is natural to create humor in time after reading more and getting familiar with their basic elements. Just like poetry, the so-called "memorizing 300 Tang poems, knowing it but not knowing why" is also the same. Practice makes perfect.
Master some common speaking skills and routines of humor, such as exaggeration, deliberate misinterpretation, pun, metaphor, analogy and so on. And consciously practice and use them more.
Of course, the above are purely humorous skills, but if you want to be truly humorous and talk about elegant humor, you should pay more attention to knowledge accumulation and strengthen your own ideological interest and cultural accomplishment. Cultural background and knowledge literacy are fundamental. After all, humor is not a simple joke. True humor contains one's own point of view and profound ideological core.
Of course, humor should be moderate, divided into occasions, time and objects. Humorous people will not make jokes about other people's shortcomings, will not maliciously ridicule others, and will not make jokes about unhealthy or vulgar subjects. People who are full of yellow jokes are not humorous but vulgar. Humor should be properly limited and measured, otherwise it will only backfire and cause resentment and disgust of others.