Such a person is suitable for marriage

1, self-motivated, positive and optimistic: what is more terrible than poverty is that there is no self-motivated. If he is content with the status quo and has no plans for the future, he will certainly not care so much about you and your future.

2, in line with your three views: only when the three views are complementary can we talk about it and there will be fewer contradictions between them. If the three views are inconsistent, it is an irreconcilable contradiction, ranging from basic necessities to family relations.

3. Willing to spend money for you: He can be stingy, but he must not be stingy with you. He may only have 100 yuan on him, but he is willing to spend 99 yuan for you. Can help you when you are in trouble.

4. I will take the initiative to comfort you after quarreling: couples are most afraid of cold violence when quarreling. Even if they quarrel with you, they are still willing to take the initiative to coax you, comfort your emotions first, and then explain his feelings and thoughts to you. Such talents are worth entrusting.

I'm totally unprepared for you: if he won't even show you his mobile phone, or even tell you his family or his financial situation, what's the trust? How much weight do you have in his heart?

6. Urge you to make progress independently: spoil you blindly or move to the point where you don't really love you. People who really love you and treat you well will hope that you will make continuous progress and remain excellent, and will also spur you to move on.

7. His relatives and friends all know that you exist: whether it's a friend's party or a family dinner, he can take you out and introduce you to everyone whenever there is an opportunity.

8. I am very happy to travel and date with him: most people now regard pre-marital travel as a trial marriage, which is a good opportunity to get to know and get along. Marriage itself is like two people walking together, with good scenery and thorny problems, depending on how we solve them.

9. Have an independent economic foundation: Love can grow on the basis of real bread: it doesn't have to be rich, but at least it has enough economic foundation to support your family.

10, life has a sense of ceremony: those who can send you greetings and small gifts on anniversaries or festivals will always keep you in mind.

1 1. Can accept the way of thinking of Ding A: A person's way of thinking often determines his attitude and method of solving problems. If you can't agree with his way of thinking, you will inevitably face many quarrels.

12, good wine: if the other party makes a scene after drinking, talks nonsense, and even tends to be violent, then married life will be very sad.

13. Respect you and your family: From what you like to eat to the life decisions you make, you will not be forced to change your mind, so that you can be kind to your family.

14, neither "Ma Bao" nor "helping my brother to do magic": it is right for family members to help each other when they are in trouble, but if he has no opinion, listens to his mother or unconditionally obeys his family, then it is necessary to consider his position in the family. Can you * * * share his responsibilities?

Issues that can be discussed before marriage

1. Do you want to have children? When do you expect it? Who is mainly responsible for taking care of after birth?

2. Where to settle down? How to buy a house? Real estate license signature? Do you live with your parents after you get married?

3. Work Problems Where can I develop my job after I get married? What should one party do if it wants to go abroad for development?

4. Should the family economy sign a prenuptial agreement? Who will be in charge of family finance? How to arrange the expenses? How many red envelopes do you give your parents in the New Year?

5. How to divide housework after marriage? Do you want to invite aunt housekeeping?

6. Does the physical condition run in the family? What is the history of the disease? When do you have a premarital examination?

7. What is the definition of cheating? What do you think of emotional infidelity? What do you think of physical infidelity? Can you accept it?

8. How much is the wedding bride price expected? What about the banquet? How do both parties bear the expenses?

9. What will never give up because of marriage?

10, what bothers you most about my family? (For the questions, please refer to the premarital questions listed by an American marriage expert published in The New York Times 15. )

Tips for keeping fresh after marriage

1, various festivals and anniversaries, even if you don't give gifts, you can have a blessing, a flower, a piece of cake or cook a meal together.

2. Have a formal two-person date once a month, and dress up beautifully to attend.

3. secretly buy something that the other party wants but is a little reluctant as a gift.

Always say I love you before going to bed, good night and kiss each other.

5. Revisit the place of dating or what you did when you were in love.

6. Take risks together and try some extreme sports.

7. Travel once a year to make new memories.

8. Praise each other sincerely. At least you can say "you have worked hard" when you come home from work.