A person's life, there will be some half-hearted confusion, busy in the four seasons, you have to deal with all kinds of things, even if it is six static, it is difficult to suppress anxiety and anxiety, tangled thoughts, twists and turns, nine times out of ten to experience, the world is no bigger than a heart; No matter how far you go, you are far from your dreams.
Everyone has pain and scars. If you expose them often, you will create something new. Learn to forget, there is sunshine, there is joy.
Time is not buried in time, but submerged in endless worries. Many things can only be seen clearly when the distance is getting farther and farther. Perhaps, many people have passed by us, but few have set foot in our hearts; Perhaps, there are many people who stir our hearts, but few people leave traces in our hearts. People who have suffered setbacks are always more tenacious, mature and brave, and they can see that success is just around the corner.
No matter how clever a person is, he can't see through everything; No matter how clever a person is, it is impossible for everyone to understand; No matter how open-minded, you can't live without troubles; No matter how indifferent you are, you can't have no desire for life. Life, how can everything go smoothly, life, how can everything go smoothly, many people are not recognized by us; Many things are beyond our decision.
Life is precious because it is short. Try to live. The past is like smoke, let go of the gains and losses in time and live a happy life.
Cherish life, love the people you love, love yourself, love life, and don't spend precious time on depression and boredom, indulging in precious years.
The right or wrong of grievances is illusory, but it is not as beautiful as the vast sky. Don't care too much.
I don't need applause, I just want to move myself. Wandering for several years, the wind smells of pursuit, and the rain smells of tears. When will the sunny day clear up? No longer because the dream is difficult to round and the mood is uneven, no longer because the feelings are difficult to get together and secretly sad.
Some things have reincarnation, how can I pray for everything as I wish? With this idea, walking again, I filtered out some impetuousness and eased some melancholy. Don't focus on yourself, watching the lights at night, how many dreams are lit up.
People are alive, in fact, there are many things that can't be said, sometimes they go too far and often forget the circuit; Sometimes you see too clearly and often you can't see anything; Sometimes I think too much and often lose myself. Life is like a mirror, you have everything in your heart. If you have nothing in your heart, you will be quiet; If your heart is empty, you will realize. Learn to smile, learn to face, learn to let go, let everything follow your heart, follow your nature, and follow your fate.
Happiness depends on yourself, and no one can sympathize with and share your sadness; Be strong yourself, no one will pity your cowardice; Try to rely on yourself, no one will accompany you; Cherish and rely on yourself, others are not willing to squander their youth; Stick to yourself, no one will advance and retreat with you; Go all the way, no one can always accompany you to the end.
Living in the world of mortals, you can be indifferent to gains and losses, try your best to be secular, and know how to let go of grievances.
Live a good life, no matter the wind and rain! If you have nothing, then drop everything. It's enough to be relaxed. If you have love and relatives, then cherish everything. Running around and being busy is a kind of happiness. With a tolerant, calm, strong and open-minded heart, look down on the storm, laugh at the world of mortals, always enjoy the beauty, and feel happiness and happiness everywhere.
Life journey, no regrets!
The fish caught, whether in a small fish tank, a big fish tank or the sea, are unhappy. The reason is not because the fish tank is too small, nor because the sea is too big, but because the fish can't dominate themselves and make their hearts happy.
To control our own happiness, we need to stick to ourselves all the time without being transferred by the external environment.
Throughout the history of China, there are countless people who can dominate happiness.
Yan Hui, a disciple of Confucius, was in a mean alley, but he didn't change his interest, even though "a meal, a bean soup and a ladle of water". Tao Qian, a poet in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, gave up the idea of being a scholar and an official, devoted himself to the field and enjoyed the happiness in "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely"; After Sun Shan's downfall for many times, Liu Yong changed the name of floating into a low voice. Although he lives in a place full of fireworks, he writes lyrics and composes music for geisha and dancers, but he is still addicted to it. There are also Li Bai, Wang Wei and Su Shi. ...
Their experiences may be different, some have bad careers and some are frustrated in love, but the same thing is that even if the world gives up on them, it gives itself a meter of sunshine, dominates itself in life and is happy in dominance.
The ancients did this, and today's society also has many patterns that dominate their own happiness.
The maverick Chen cursor. He is "special" and his behavior is "special". As the first good of China, the way of doing good is often questioned. "Falsehood", "putting on a show" and "for fame and wealth" ... Gossip and controversy poured into this high-profile charity. No wonder people are joking. This social donor is often scolded. If you donate less, you will donate less. If you donate more, you will be scolded. If you curse, you will not donate more!
Fortunately, Chen cursor has not been shaken by these doubts and denials. He persisted all the way, sang all the way and enjoyed it. He said: "I insist on what I think is right, and there is no need to care what others say."
Yes, just be happy. There is no need to care whether the environment is good for you. In the face of public opinion and criticism, Chen cursor has mastered himself and enjoys happiness in doing good.
On the other hand, some people have been sad for a long time because of someone else's casual words, because of the score of a question, because of the ranking of an exam, Lacrimosa ...
Although we are not saints, we can't be praised by the world without giving advice, and the world won't be depressed, but we can learn to dominate ourselves and find the joy of life in the road of life accompanied by adversity.
My friend, please don't be the unhappy fish who can't get out of the "fish tank". Since you can't change the environment, it is the right way to change your heart and make your heart happy.
I have begun to dominate happiness, and you?
Save yourself some happiness. We have to finish a lot of boring homework assigned by our teacher every day. Instead of spending a little time playing and relaxing. Sometimes you can have a little time to play, but you have to be called back to study by your parents.
In addition, every exam is coming, and I have to be in a tense environment a few days ago, and I have to recite the review materials for the exam. After the exam, if you don't get good grades, you will be accused by your parents. Therefore, in such an environment, we should make ourselves happy and live a meaningful life. Don't idle away your time, idle away your years.
We should do something meaningful in the limited time to make ourselves happy.
Time is like running water, gone forever; Time is like the wind, which blows and never returns; Time is like a leaf. When it falls, it will no longer prosper. Therefore, we should cherish time, do meaningful things in limited time, and do things that make us happy.
If you leave yourself some happy time while studying, you can not only study, but also combine work and rest.
I want to know how many people can make themselves have a happy time while studying, and how many people can make themselves study for a while while playing, so we should know how to use time and squeeze out some time to relax ourselves when we can study hard, so as to relax our bodies and give our brains a rest, so as to better absorb knowledge in the next study, which is clear at a glance.
Those who don't like learning, but just like playing games online, should also spend some time studying, which not only increases their knowledge, but also makes their parents feel some comfort. We should combine work and rest, so that we can improve our academic performance and let our bodies have a rest.
Therefore, we should make good use of our time, arrange our study reasonably, and leave some time for ourselves to do some happy things, so as to be happy and relaxed. composition
There are many small animals living in the forest, including bear Beibei, a strong uncle elephant and sika deer Huahua, who likes to brag.
One day, Babe Bear accidentally fell into the river while playing a prank by the river. Baby bear kept shouting "help", but there was no one there. At this time, uncle elephant heard the cry for help when he passed by, thinking: Is anyone in danger? I am going to the river now. Uncle elephant came over and saw little bear shouting "help" in the river. Uncle elephant immediately went into the water to save the baby bear. Uncle elephant rolled baby bear ashore with his long nose. Baby Bear is very grateful to Uncle Elephant and says, "Uncle Elephant, I will definitely repay you."
One day, the sika deer "Huahua" was stared at by the hunter while playing in the forest. When the hunter raised his gun to fire bullets, he was seen by skunk Coco. It thought, "I can't be saved from destruction!" " The skunk farted and the hunter was stung by it. Sika deer Huahua heard the sound and saw a hunter lying behind her, scared for a long time! The sika deer looked at the skunk again and said, "Thank you."
Since then, helping others has spread continuously. Every little animal is very happy in his heart, because he loves to help others.
Sometimes I wish I were a fish. The fish's memory is only three seconds, and after three seconds, it forgets everything. Sometimes I really want to be an epiphyllum, which only blooms for a moment and then disappears; Sometimes I wish I were fireworks. The fireworks only bloomed for a few seconds, and then they drifted away with the wind.
Whenever something unpleasant happens, I hope that time can go back, but the long river of time will not stop. I hope I can forget everything and forget all my troubles. There are more and more troubles in my life. The more troubles I have, the more I imagine a fish with only three seconds of memory, so there are only three seconds of pain and three seconds of sadness. Forget the pain, forget the unhappiness, and only keep the happiness for yourself!
Flying in happiness, only forget the pain and worry, can you swim in the beautiful sky like an "angel"! Pain is like a "devil" and trouble is like a "devil". I just want to shoot Angel's Angel, but the pain and troubles like Devil always surround me. I want to forget the troubles and hardships in "The Devil Comes", leave that beautiful memory and that happy fragment.
I don't want to be a fish, because the memory of fish is three seconds. After three seconds, all the memories disappeared with the bubble. It is because of pain that I can better understand the sweetness brought by happiness. I don't want to be epiphyllum, because epiphyllum is fleeting. After opening, the elegant fragrance will fade with the flowers. It is because of trouble that I can cherish the only happiness; I don't want to be a fireworks, because fireworks only bloom for a few seconds. After a few seconds, all the glory will be gone with the wind. It is because of sadness that all happiness cheers for existence.
Happiness is a flower blooming in the painful soil, a towering tree growing from the troubled grass, a clear spring flowing in the dead desert, and a bird flying in the troubled sky. Happiness is meaningful because of pain. Leave yourself some troubles, that is, leave yourself some happiness.
Leave yourself some happiness is trouble, leave yourself some trouble is happiness, leave yourself some happiness, even if you have trouble.
In the face of troubles, I don't want to forget or go back in time. I only hope that when I am in pain, there will be a little happiness around me, just like breathing wounds, and I will feel a little fresh at the same time!
Three seconds, a flash, a few seconds, I don't want my memory to last only a short time. I will remember my life, even if it is like a fish washed by the sea, even if it is an epiphyllum withered by the sun, even if it burns out and turns into hot yellow sand, I will remember the salty, elegant and gorgeous bloom of the sea in my painful memory.
People's gains and losses are common, so leave some happiness for yourself in pain!
My happy composition is 6 years old. I can't help but feel that duang~ is old, but it doesn't seem old. Young, I will enter senior three in two years.
Twenty-six. At an awkward age, all my classmates and friends are in love, getting married and even having children. With me, there are only a few single people left.
Twenty-six. I want to see a very long movie. At the beginning of my memory, the past is vivid: in that distant small county, I was spoiled by my grandparents, playing pinball, riding a bike, climbing mountains, picking apricots and eating jujubes every day; The primary school in my impression has no color, except skating and playing table tennis with my playmates. There seems to be nothing to be happy about, such as the teacher's corporal punishment, grandma's departure, school transfer, and the disappointment of leaving grandpa ...
In this way, I came to Baoji and stayed for more than ten years. In fact, I like this city, not because I love a person and a city. I am a person who doesn't like to leave a familiar place, just like letting me leave the university dormitory where I lived for three years. Even if I leave, I will still remember.
In the twenty-six years of my youth, whether I was ignorant when I was a child, rebellious when I was a student, or worried about my job now, my dreams were looming in my memory, and I can't remember when they appeared. Maybe it's hidden ...
Thank you for every meeting in the past 26 years. Whether you are a friend, a passerby or a liar, you have enriched my life.
Thank you for your love. I think many people prefer hugging to holding hands and kissing shoulder to shoulder. Because when you hold her tightly in your arms, nothing can make people realize what it means to have. For love, what you don't like will not be ignored, what you like will be angered, and true love will be cautious. Because the more people grow up, the more they can understand that love is the second, and getting along is the most important. Although I am still alone now, I think it doesn't matter if I can love him all my life.
Thank you for your friendship. Everything between friends, tacit understanding and sincerity, is beautiful and warm
Thank you for your family. I still thank my parents for giving me life. This feeling is irreplaceable, beyond anything. After all, it is connected by blood. They taught you too much, such as walking, running, eating, talking, being polite, treating people and so on.
The person I love most in my life is gone. I don't want to live to be 100 years old, only 70 or 80 years old, so after a third, I can't help but feel a little scared, and there is a little comfort in my fear. After all, I have been crazy, loved, chased, bumped, wasted and regretted.
Words are too light and memories are too heavy. I can only miss youth. I have to say that 26 years old is the tail of youth. Blue and thin, mushrooms.
Happy birthday to me.
I woke up in the morning and felt cold, so I hid under the bed alone and didn't want to come out. After getting up, I feel dizzy again, like turning dozens of times. Let me take out the garbage. I picked up my heavy bag and staggered along. I finally came to the gate and threw away the garbage. When I came back, I remembered that there was a class this morning. I went to class soon after eating.
When I came home from school, my head was still a little dizzy. I think: I'm not feeling well today, so I won't criticize me until I finish. Forget it, save it for tomorrow, and lie in bed and watch TV today. I just want to lie in bed and have a rest, when I suddenly remember that I have a math exam tomorrow, and I often ask us to finish what we did today. If we don't finish our homework, we won't be allowed to sleep even at ten o'clock. So I quickly got up and sat at my desk. I kept saying to myself, "What is this disease? Hold on, hold on. "
In this way, I not only wrote this diary, but also finished all the things I should do that day, faster than usual. I feel relaxed and dizzy.
At school, there are many things to do by yourself. I beat myself up today, and I feel very good!
I stood in the first post of youth, the breeze rubbed against the eardrum, and my clothes were flying. Not far away, a girl named Qi waved to me. Since then, the desert of the soul is no longer lonely and cold. -inscription
( 1)
It's raining hard. I opened the drawer, picked out a notebook with a cute little angel printed on the cover and wrote this sentence. It suddenly occurred to me that Qi had one just like mine.
"It's beautiful!" It was the other day that she saw so many notebooks with beautiful covers in my drawer. When she said this, she looked at me with admiration, and her clear eyes shone. I saw that she liked it, so I gave it to her. I don't know what she wrote in this book.
Thinking.
What girls of my age like should be continuous drizzle and golden breeze, or walking in the rain and dancing in the wind. But I didn't. I just like windy and rainy weather. It seems that a flash of lightning can break God's face into pieces, and there is a seamless space between heaven and earth, giving people the feeling that everything is spinning. Just like today, just like our vibrant youth. I don't know if the word "energetic" is accurate, but I like it.
I'm real, really real. I'm not good at cheating, I'm not good at pretending, even if I mean well. But the fact is different from reality. After all, the reality does not belong to me at this age. I love fantasy, daydreaming and looking for a non-virtual face in the virtual network world. Is it possible? I asked myself. I don't know, but the only thing I don't want to do on the computer is writing. I like to listen to my heart flowing in the nib, making a rustling sound, just like a lonely soul whispering, just like a gentle singer singing emotionally. I can't imagine the hypocrisy when I mechanically beat out lines of dull characters with my numb fingers. Although it's so easy and quick, I'm still willing to take the trouble to pour my heart out in my notebook and then lie on the computer, for nothing else. Just a sense of satisfaction, comfortable satisfaction.
(2)
Suddenly I thought of Qi, the girl who walked through the rain and tears with me, and felt a strange touch in my heart. For eight years, Qi and I have been working together as always, rain or shine. Laugh together and cry together. Cherish our precious friendship carefully. Although we know it is not like fragile glass, it is like the wings of an angel. Although it is beautiful and can carry many beautiful dreams, once it is broken in the raging wind, I know we will regret it. Good things always look so fragile in the gale. Like a kite with a broken line, although it broke free from the shackles of the rope, it also lost its balance and direction. ...
Fortunately, Qi and I are not like this. We still fight as soon as we meet, sometimes as naive as nursery dolls. But we also feel that talking about ideals and life is as deep as two thoughtful old people. I can't help laughing at the thought.
This is us.
To tell the truth, I have very few friends, and I can be called a real friend, only one. I wonder if my friend's size is too high. But it's different. She has many friends around her. I may be just one of them, but I don't mind. Because I know that if I want to rank all her friends together, I will definitely live at 1. I am very satisfied with this. Am I particularly easy to satisfy? I don't know. However, the contented are always happy.
(3)
The dreariness and monotony of summer makes people feel particularly dreary. I always want to do something to turn monotonous into colorful.
"Ding ..." The phone rang loudly. I grabbed the phone, and a familiar voice came from the other end of the phone: "Jing, I will come to your house to play this afternoon!" " "
"Come on, come on."
"You don't seem to welcome me very much."
"How can. Welcome, warm welcome, ok. " Put the phone down, I think, if I don't talk, she will chatter.
Qi poked his head out of the computer room and said, "Who?"
India. " I answered in a flat tone.
In fact, Yin is my primary school classmate, and the relationship is good, but not particularly good. Therefore, her arrival did not increase my happiness. But this is not the main reason, because since she entered middle school, the whole person has changed, and the innocence before has disappeared without a trace. What is revealed from her is a maturity that is extremely inconsistent with her age. The mark has become "bad", at least I think so. She began to chase the new trend, longing for "romance", made one BF after another, changed one fancy dress after another, made up all day and did nothing. What else did you say? I call it the trend. People like you won't understand. All day long, I left a sentence of "I am dizzy" and the right sentence of "invincible", and I also called others ignorant. Is it? I sneered.
Someone knocked at the door in a hurry. It was printed. Red miniskirt, black corset, dyed hair and strong perfume.
"Come in and sit down." I pointed to the sofa.
"No, let me borrow your computer." India said and rushed into the computer room with a step.
Qi is looking up information online at the moment.
"Hey, beauty, can I borrow your computer?" Yin said, snapping her fingers, which she thought was cool.
Qi said nothing, stood up and walked straight out of the computer room. I quickly greeted her and smiled awkwardly: "I can't help it, she is like this. Otherwise, read a book first. "
"It doesn't matter." Alas! Only Qi understands me.
I went back to the computer room and sat down beside Yin. I always feel that I should say something to her, but I can't.
"Yin, you ..." I don't know what to say. "Are you all right?"
"Hey, what's wrong with me!" India didn't even look up, and her hands were banging on the keyboard quickly. She is busy chatting with a net friend.
"Aren't you worried about your future at all?"
"The future? What future can I have? " A strange smile appeared on her face when she spoke. "My biggest future is to marry a husband who makes a lot of money!" She knocked on the carriage return with her little finger, looked up at me and continued, "What? Why are you looking at me like that? This world, this is it! I tell you ... "
I really couldn't listen any longer, and stood up: "I didn't expect you to be so stubborn!" " "I pointed to the door." You can go out! "I think it doesn't matter if I don't make friends like her. I don't know if this is right or wrong. All I know is that I regretted it afterwards.
"good! Go away! " India slammed the door.
Qi came over and put his hands on my shoulder: "Don't be sad, you have done your best."
"I'm not sad. I just watched my old friend step by step into the abyss, and I was impatient. "
"Stop it, I know everything." Qi expressed understanding.
(4)
It rained in succession these days, and the water in the river rose again, probably flooding the stone steps, I think. Stone steps are my favorite place to go with Qi. Every weekend, manager Qi and I will make an appointment to go to the stone ladder to read books. There are many weeds around, and there are many elegant small white flowers, fresh and elegant, just like our character. Although it is not as gorgeous as peony and rose, it is pure without any flaws.
I walked down the stairs hand in hand and sat on my knees. Talk to each other, listen to each other, listen to the melody of the river and look at the sky dyed red by the sunset. I think it would be beautiful if a photographer took this scene at this time.
(5)
Just before sunset, it finally cleared up. This late sunny day! Streets washed spotless by rain are extremely clean. The sun shines on the wet land, in every corner of the city, in everyone's heart, leaving no shadow.
Suddenly remembered a sentence: "Tell you a way to never see the shadow, keep your face facing the sun!" " "
Yes, I'm relieved.
Postscript: I haven't seen Yin since that incident. Maybe she is living her own life in the distance now, I don't know. But I think it's okay. After all, I can't force everyone to live according to my imagination. Because everyone has the right to pursue their own "happiness".
Until one day, I passed Yin in the street and saw her shopping with her boyfriend on her back, laughing happily. Really happy? I think. I hope so. She didn't see me. After she walked past, I looked at her distant back and gave her a sincere smile. Although I know she can't see it, it doesn't matter, let's laugh by ourselves.
In the future, Qi and I will, as always, repeat our ordinary, full, busy, confident and happy life.
Be happy for your own happiness.
Near dusk, I can sit at my desk, face a blank manuscript paper and simply write down fragmentary sentences. I just like these words. Is there any emotional external cause that makes Balzac pay off his debts, so comfortable and leisurely, and the night becomes more and more intense with the flowing temperature? ...
I can hug snacks, nest on the sofa like a lazy cat, watch a series and a variety show beautifully, and then either sigh Qiong Yao's delicate feelings, or spit out a shocking drama directed by Zhang, or marvel at the determined and persistent figure in the spotlight, or greedily have all kinds of stress-free feelings given by a happy family. Then, I was tired and the snacks were exaggerated to the ground. ...
I can sit by the window, where I like, and I can see the endless midsummer blue around me. I sighed at the glass, solemnly and seriously wrote down my beloved exo with my fingers, wrote down my dear khuntoria, and stopped at the precipitation time of a certain day with my own language and symbols. ...
No matter how long it takes, I can sit in front of the computer and wait for Ernie's more papers excitedly. Although it will be accompanied by all kinds of anxiety and helplessness, the sudden update of a certain time always brings me endless joy. With the ups and downs of the ill-fated characters in her prose, I am either sad or happy or moved for a long time, because there is a deep feeling that a person's life can be the only condition for gambling, that is, someone cherishes this life. What about you?
I can wander around in a leisurely afternoon, maybe go to a small shop to pick and choose, and finally I will find my favorite baby, maybe a glass ball or a hair band, which will make me excited for a long time. Maybe go somewhere and see the world from a certain angle, just like a dream I had before. Look at the sky with the eyes of the sky, the stone with the eyes of the stone, the cloud with the eyes of the cloud, and then giggle at my beautiful discovery.
When my parents go out, I can turn up the stereo to the maximum, choose some punk music, follow the rhythm of jumping, jump my brain program to the highest level, entertain myself, direct and perform my years, and don't have to worry about my neighbors' complaints. After all, I am intoxicated in my world. What does this have to do with me?
It's sad to suddenly think of some stories of heart abuse in one night. I can stare at the long night, tell other people's fairy tales and cry for other people's stories. Until the next morning, maybe I don't remember anything, maybe I laughed at myself for a while and then I was busy with today's things.
I am very happy. Although my happiness is insignificant, I am just an ordinary person. It is enough to be content with the status quo and be happy.