1, grasp the big and put the small.
Children will have many things to worry about when they grow up, but some things are irrelevant, some things can be passed with one eye closed, and some things may not be as serious as adults think. Parents should not be nervous all day when educating their children. They can relax themselves. Parents should learn to let go of some trivial matters in their children's lives. After all, children grow up day by day, and he has done a lot of things. There is no need for adults to tell them again and again. At this time, if you remind me again and again, the child will definitely think that you are nagging. Parents should learn to focus on the most important things and take care of their children's core needs, such as their attitude towards life, values, future aspirations, study habits and learning methods. In this way, not only will parents be much more relaxed, but children will naturally be closer to you and will naturally listen to you more.
Step 2 learn to wait
Some parents have this kind of psychology, saying a word, hoping that their children will do as they say at once and put forward a goal that they hope their children can achieve immediately. But let's not forget that children are children. His mind and ability have not developed to such a mature level. Some things he may not understand, some things he may not know how to do, some things he may not do well temporarily, and some things he may often make mistakes. Therefore, parents must learn to wait, restrain their impatience, give their children some time to change and allow them to repeat. Children can't grow up in a day, and growth needs a process. Whether it is the improvement of self-care ability, the formation of good habits or the accumulation of cultural knowledge, it takes time to practice, and this time will not be shortened because of parents' nagging.
Step 3 say it only once
If parents want their children to do something, they should first choose the right time, then sit down face to face with their children and talk to them seriously. In order to attract children's attention, parents can clearly tell their children, "Listen carefully, this is what mothers only say once". When telling your child, you must highlight the key points and choose something weighty to say once or twice. Don't nag them repeatedly if you are not sure about their children. Even when correcting children's mistakes, parents should not nag and scold their children endlessly. As long as children can admit their mistakes and are willing to correct them, they should do everything. You know, nagging is often unpleasant, but talking too much will not have a good effect.
4. About this matter
Even children make mistakes. When a child makes a mistake, an incorrect way for parents is to turn over the old accounts of the child. Many years ago, the old sesame seeds and rotten millet used to talk about things and could not help but criticize the children. If the child doesn't do well and the child doesn't finish, he will criticize all the "bad things" of the child more and more angrily. In fact, it is normal for children to make some mistakes in life. It is their right to make mistakes, and children grow up in the process of constantly correcting them. For children's mistakes, parents should be practical, wrong is wrong, wrong is wrong. Too many associations can only make children think that you are too annoying and nagging.
Tell parents the above truth and let them understand that their nagging is useless, which will only arouse their children's disgust and force them to become so-called youth rebels. They must understand the great harm of nagging.
Parents' Open Day Composition Alas, I am so nervous today.
Today is a special day. It is the "Parents' Open Day" set by our school.
When I woke up in the morning, I sat up to open my eyes, but my eyelids were as heavy as iron, so I had to rub them hard and then they opened.
I prepared everything for school as quickly as possible and began to urge my mother to go out quickly.
When we arrived at school, we got a timetable from the security guard. I took a closer look, and after that, we were the first to show! I broke out in a cold sweat at once and my clothes soon got wet.
Just when I was nervous, there was an order to "start showing" on the radio, and I climbed the stairs trembling.
As I expected, everyone was nervous as hell. Although everyone has successfully rehearsed again and again in front of classmates, teachers and even leaders, it is still different in the formal performance. Although facing such kind faces every day, everyone is still a little discouraged.
Just when I was in a daze, Mr. Cao waved and motioned for us to start now.
Faced with these familiar faces, my heart slowly bred a lot of warmth and courage, and I couldn't help singing happily with the pace of the teacher and the rhythm of music, and gradually integrated into the music.
At the end of the song, the teacher gently disconnected the accompaniment band and the melody slowly stopped. At this time, applause rang out. From the warm applause, I feel that our past efforts have finally paid off today.
When will parents' open day be held again?
Today is Sunday, and the weather is sunny.
We ushered in the parents' open day of the "Third Grade Department of Shixiaodong Campus".
Early in the morning, we combed our hair, put on our makeup and came to school in our dancing clothes.
Remembering that the weather was so cold a while ago, several students caught a cold, and everyone forgot to rehearse carefully, just to prepare for this day.
This day has finally come, and our mood is extremely excited and nervous.
Our performance began with a burst of light music.
The first program is the dance "blossoming flowers Facing the Sun" in our class.
Standing on the stage, I can see my mother from a distance.
Mom is watching my program carefully.
I thought: how hard my mother worked! I have endless housework every day, whether it's wind, frost, rain, snow or heat, I send it to school on time every day.
I saw our teacher again. How hard it is to miss a teacher! Teachers are hard-working gardeners, and we are the flowers of our motherland.
With the help of my teacher, I have made great progress in my study this semester.
Thinking of this, I acted more seriously.
I secretly made up my mind: teachers and mothers, I won't let you down again. I will study hard and be a useful person to my motherland when I grow up.
Our dance was over, and our parents gave us warm applause.
The short one-hour performance is over.
Although the parents' open activities ended, they left a deep impression on me, which I will never forget! Today is the parents' open day, with the first two classes and the last two activities.
Students are very active in class and want to show their best to their parents.
In the last two sections, a skipping competition was held. I also bravely took part in the dance, and our class was skipped.
The teacher also participated in the competition, and everyone cheered for his teacher. The headmaster swung higher and faster like an old urchin, forcing the teacher to dance "ballet" in the air, which made us laugh. The math teacher is always active when he is in high school.
Mom said that through observation, I found that I have three major shortcomings: 1, and I don't take the initiative to speak in class.
Don't say what you can say, let alone what you can't say, especially English; 2. inattention in class.
Looking around, the teacher said here, and I was still thinking there; Answer the question in a low voice, you can't hear it later.
Parents' open day is really good. We can study, play and correct our shortcomings.
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2065 438+00. 4. 2 The composition about junior high school parents' open day is our parents' open day. On that day, the students and their parents came to school happily.
It's already 8 o'clock! It's time for morning exercises. Mother will see if her son is doing well at school. We not only do morning exercises, but also hold hands. This is a sign language exercise, which is a bit disgusting to do, but it can show the cuteness and vitality of our primary school students.
It's 8: 40, the first English class is coming, and I'm a little nervous occasionally.
In the middle of the teacher's class, he played a game for us, called "passing the ball", which was very fun and could give us extra points for our big group. It is ok to add points. The second period is math class, and the teacher asked us to design a travel plan. We went to Hollywood, USA, and the traffic was 80,000 RMB ... 1 * * * 3.83 million RMB! The third class is Chinese, and the teacher mainly talks about some environmental protection issues, so that adults will also be environmentally friendly.
The fourth class is physical education class. The teacher just practiced the sports meeting, so that we can play better in the sports meeting.
Through this parents' open day, parents have gained something, and we have gained something, because we have learned something we don't know.
My feelings about parents' open days (400 words) Last week in junior high school, our school ushered in parents' open days four times a year. Countless students are looking forward to the end of this "rare" open day writing class for parents. Many students rushed out of the platform and asked who was the teacher who gave us the lesson this time. What's the theme this time? "This time, the parents of Class One gave us a lecture. The theme this time is how to protect teeth." The students are ecstatic, and some are crazy enough to howl! At the beginning of the class, the classroom was suddenly silent, and the teachers and parents were ready to attend the class. After a long time, this "rare" dental class began.
The teacher who teaches us has a kind face and black and yellow hair like a big spring.
The teacher first introduced us to all kinds of teeth, such as grinding teeth, which are specially used for chewing; Cutting teeth, it is specialized in tearing, cutting and biting things.
The teacher also told us about the structure of teeth: the outermost part is the tooth, the red part is the "coat" gum of the tooth, and the root is wrapped by the gum.
Through this open day for parents, we learned a lot about "teeth".
As soon as the teacher walked out of the classroom, I began to guess how wonderful the next parents' open day would be.
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How do parents tell their parents at the opening ceremony of the open day that children as children are like mud that has never been discharged, and parents should carve a pool of mud into works of art.
Among them, perfusion education is needed.
With the growth of children, this piece of mud gradually takes shape and becomes more and more solid and difficult to carve.
Even sometimes, this mud just doesn't work. No matter how you pinch it, you can't get what you want. Just too stubborn.
If this time, it is too late to carry out the education that should have been carried out long ago, and it is simply out of date.
Of course, those bad habits formed from childhood are difficult to correct. Even some bad habits developed more than ten years ago have already penetrated into the bone marrow, and it is really difficult to correct them for a while. This is naturally an example of failure, and it is doomed to be terrible.
Educating children is not only important in childhood, but also more important in transition.
In particular, children's transition to adolescence is not only a physical change, but also a spiritual change.
During this period, children have formed their own outlook on life and world, and have their own personal opinions. Because the life experiences and backgrounds of the two generations are completely different, the generation gap is inevitable, and there are contradictions and conflicts in thought. Education is necessary in order to eliminate all unnecessary disasters.
Everything is difficult at the beginning, and education itself is a norm of moral behavior.
Education, first of all, should lead by example, make yourself a role model for children and believe in the authenticity of education. Only when we do it ourselves will the children follow suit.
If we just talk about education and preach the truth, but we can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and failed education will not work at all.
For example, parents teach their children to tell the truth and not lie, while parents often lie themselves, even in front of their children.
If one day, the child knows, it will be very sad and will learn to lie. From then on, he will distrust his parents and have a confused attitude towards them.
How can this kind of education succeed?
Education should also be close to reality and proceed from reality to educate children, not vague fantasies.
As long as education is effective, there is no need for exaggeration at all, as long as it is dull.
Moreover, education close to reality is more acceptable and easier for children to accept.
Children can do what their parents say every time, and every time they sincerely agree, no one will be unhappy. But if education is too ethereal and gorgeous, children may not accept it at once, or even fail to do it every time. It is likely that he will be sad. Who wants it? Not a day goes by when a good parent fails to educate his children. He may have a short sentence or two, but he can speak for three or four days.
Although children may be upset, wordy and tired of listening, for parents, it is bitter, as long as children can listen to a word, even for a month.
Children need education all the time.
Parents should imprint what they want to say every day on their children's minds.
Even if children don't accept it, they should not consciously print every sentence into their minds and always remind their parents of their advice and tireless education.
Sometimes, words alone can't contain a child's stubborn heart, just like Horri-bull rushing to a cliff.
At this time, appropriate punishment is also necessary.
Of course, at the same time of punishment, children should also admit their mistakes and be convinced.
After admitting mistakes, of course, you can't go too far. You should talk to children and communicate with each other like friends. Parents should find their own shortcomings at this time and correct them later. This is a good time to educate children.
According to the requirements of the school's "Special Practical Homework for May Day Holiday", I need to calculate with my parents how much money I have spent and how much time I can spend with my parents since I was born.
This is a very interesting assignment and I am willing to finish it.
On Saturday night, my mother was still making clothes, and my father was drinking tea while watching TV.
Once, I heard my mother say that when others counted how much money their children spent, the conservative figures were full of shock.
How difficult it is for a family to raise one or two children! I talked about the content of this special assignment, which is difficult and easy for parents to understand: the hard part is that it is already the second day of junior high school, and I can't remember the money spent. Why should I do this kind of homework? It is easy to understand that we teenagers who study knowledge can understand the hard work of our parents and will be able to repay their parents' parenting kindness, repay the society and make contributions to the society in the future.
Communicate with parents, record expenses from small to large, and write more than 20 thousand in total.
With my present ability, I probably won't earn a penny back! But this is to lay the foundation and pave the way for later success.
I think this amount is too small. I wanted to buy everything when I was a child. Next, I calculated the time spent with my parents. Because I stay at school now, I stay at home two days a week.
But my geography and biology are not very good, and I have to spend half a day as a result, so my time at home with my parents has shrunk a lot.
Because of games, study or other reasons, I spend less and less time with my parents.
In the next three years, the next 10 year, maybe I will gradually get rid of my parents' life track completely.
Only by cherishing the present and communicating with parents more can we make up for it.
After this communication, I feel the meticulous love of my parents from childhood to adulthood.
They have been paying for me, and I will communicate with my parents more in the future to relieve their depression and vent their bad emotions.
First, communicate sincerely and keep close contact with teachers. If you want to get in touch with parents, you should meet them actively and enthusiastically, and build a bridge of mutual trust psychologically, so as to win the effective cooperation of parents. For example, I visit each other through my hometown and contact by phone; Hold a parent-teacher conference; Parents' open day; Parent-child games, etc. Through these activities, the distance between parents and teachers is brought closer, and the relationship between children and parents is also brought closer.
You can also regularly carry out individual counseling activities for parents to help them solve practical problems.
For example, Jia Rui, Rong Teng, Lotte, Jia Zheng and other children in the class have weak independence in life.
So how to cultivate good independence of children? It is the concern of these parents.
Therefore, in the communication between parents, I suggest that parents usually give their children more opportunities to deal with things, such as washing handkerchiefs and socks for their children, bathing themselves, and packing toys, exercise books and small picture books for their children.
With the continuous exercise and training of children, I believe that children will gradually enhance their ability to live independently, think independently and do things independently.
These are the ways for teachers to communicate with their parents.
Second, respect parents and enhance understanding. In educational practice, there are many uncooperative phenomena between teachers and parents, which are largely caused by teachers' disrespect or incomprehension of parents. Therefore, in the interaction between teachers and parents, we should respect parents, their feelings, their opinions and their personality.
Teachers should not put on airs of educational authority, or attack parents by innuendo, so that parents are unwilling to approach them.
Second, we should understand parents and let them understand teachers. As parents, they generally expect their children to grow up and are very concerned about their growth. Children will feel ashamed if they don't behave well in school. Teachers should not always point out children's shortcomings and deficiencies to parents, "complain" to parents, and should not use harsh language to accuse and dig at students. They should exchange views objectively and learn from each other and cooperate in education.
Third, encourage help and do a good job of cooperation. In order to make parents and teachers cooperate better, teachers should encourage parents to establish educational confidence and help parents improve their educational literacy. Teachers should know more about students' parents and take different measures according to their different situations.
For the parents of underachievers, it is necessary to help them make clear their education plans and directions.
For example, Yufeng, Yi Yun and Zhaofeng in our class often find aggressive behaviors in their interactions with children.
Afterwards, they will shirk their responsibilities or accept criticism to show that they will not dare in the future, but most of them will do it again soon.
In view of this situation, I have had feedback and communication with my parents, hoping that the family will provide a healthy and upward living space for the children and don't say offensive words in front of them.
Parents are also advised to take the method of "diverting attention" and pay more attention to their children, such as wasting energy and taking them to run, play ball or play chess when they are nervous or angry; Guiding children to engage in such activities often helps to restore their psychological balance and gradually transfer aggressive behavior.
Refer to it and adopt it.
Message to parents of composition Tuesday is the parents' open day of our school this month. My mother came to school early in the morning and watched us do exercises first.
Everyone's movements are uniform, heroic and spirited, and their mental state is very full. They all want to show their parents! Next, the first class is Chinese. Teacher Wang gave us 26 lessons "vigorous". The classroom atmosphere in the class is very active, and everyone actively raises their hands to speak. Mom thinks our class is very lively and expanding, and a class ends unconsciously.
The second section is the inquiry class. We all lined up to go to the classroom on the second floor. There are two teachers in the classroom, China and a foreign teacher. This lesson wants us to explore the mystery of plant growth, mainly talking about "life cycle", and President Sun is also listening.
The third section is our most relaxed physical education class. Everyone came to the playground, lined up to practice stepping and queuing, and did exercises one by one. During the break, I simply lie on the grass and let the sunshine warm my whole body, so I can relax! In the fourth quarter, Mr. Pan gave us a math lesson to learn the calculation method of abdication subtraction within 20 years. In class, everyone listened carefully, ordered muscles to lift snow, used their brains, and actively raised their hands to answer the teacher's questions.
After all the classes in the morning, the teacher also showed us the talent show of Fukuyama Little Wit. We watched it and waited for dinner! Through the open day visit, my mother felt that I was really lucky and happy to go to school in Fushan, because the hardware and software in Fushan were excellent!
One of today's activities is parents' open day. The teacher decided to hold a food competition for making cold salad in the fourth class. A group of four people cooked cold salad in 20 minutes. In the fourth class, we brought materials, including gloves, sesame oil, soy sauce and vinegar.
Then the teacher said, "The game begins.
"Students race against time, and we don't want to fall behind.
I am very nervous, because I am a little flustered under the fierce competition of my classmates and the eyes of my parents.
But time is limited, I secretly told myself not to panic, not to panic.
A classmate and I are responsible for cutting cucumbers and tomatoes.
At this point, I cut the cucumber beautifully, put it on the plate immediately, and then put the tomato slices on the edge of the plate to decorate it.
Unconsciously, more than half of the time has passed, and we have accelerated our speed. I handed the plate to the team leader, and the team leader put in sesame oil, vinegar and soy sauce, and then stirred it to finish the first course. Then another student put the cut cucumbers in a circle, put a tomato like a flower in the middle, add sugar, and then make a cold dish.
Finally, I served food for my parents to taste. My parents thought it was delicious, and we were very happy. We also tasted it and thought it was really delicious.
After this activity, we experienced the fun of doing it ourselves, showed the spirit of cooperation and unity of the students, and enjoyed the happiness of labor results.
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Please indicate the source? My parents are always nagging and annoying. What should I do?