However, for people in love, perhaps love is more important than life.
What is love? My understanding is an emotion, an extreme love for a person, which is often beyond my own control. It is crazy and passionate, but it is also short and painful.
Love is not equal to love. It is not equal to the kind of love that cares about, understands and cherishes each other. It's just a strong attraction, an uncontrollable emotion caused by being strongly attracted by something from the other side. So Shakespeare said: Love is just a kind of madness.
People who are hit by this kind of love are often affectionate people, and every affectionate person is often unfortunate.
1922, Xu Zhimo, who was passionate and frustrated in love, returned to Beijing after studying abroad and met Lu Xiaoman, the wife of Wang Geng, a friend who didn't understand amorous feelings and romance. As Zhang Ailing said: Meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people, and in the boundless wilderness of thousands of years, you happen to catch up, neither earlier nor later. Just when they were both in an emotional blank, they met, and love hit them like this, and their hearts boiled. One is a charming man who has just divorced, and the other is a well-known lady who is married. In China in the 1920s, such love was undoubtedly deviant and despised. Their love was blocked by many criticisms, which made Lu Xiaoman, who was sickly, fall ill several times. However, this huge wave of love is surging, sweeping everyone involved like a tsunami. No matter how parents obstruct, no matter how hard and soft her husband is, the two people baked by the flame of love still overcome all kinds of difficulties and obstacles and come together.
However, the two people who entered the marriage hall did not live a happy and sweet life from then on. Love always has a shelf life. No matter how strong and passionate love once was, it will cool down one day.
After getting Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo's feelings for Lu Xiaoman, who has become his wife, began to cool down, but his feelings for Lin, the star he had been expecting, gradually warmed up. He can't forget Lin, so he never stopped chasing her. Affectionate by nature, he not only hides Lin in his heart, but also maintains an extremely ambiguous relationship with other women. This makes Lu Xiaoman, who loves Xu Zhimo deeply, unacceptable. Her heart hurts. The reason for the pain is not only Xu Zhimo's feelings, but also the disgust and neglect from Xu's father and mother. They couldn't accept this unruly daughter-in-law from beginning to end. The unhappy Lu Xiaoman began to give up on herself, perhaps to escape from something or to seek something. She re-entered the old communication place and took drugs. Although Xu Zhimo advised and begged her to leave the decadent life in Shanghai and go to Beijing with him several times, she never agreed.
Lu Xiaoman's huge expenses made Xu Zhimo deeply embarrassed. He is overwhelmed by money, but he must work hard to earn money for the manuscript. In order to make money to meet his separated wife, he flew around for free, and his once-in-full-swing love cooled down, or was covered up by something. In Xu Zhimo's heart, he still loves Lu Xiaoman deeply. It's just that she let him down so much that he didn't know, so why didn't he let her down?
During the period of 193 1 year, 1 1 month, Xu Zhimo begged Lu Xiaoman to go north again, but Lu Xiaoman still refused. Desperate, Xu Zhimo left with the box. He wanted to fly from Nanjing to the north by China Airlines Jinan Post to attend the lecture on China architecture art held by Lin for foreign envoys in the small auditorium of Peking Union Medical College that night, but the plane crashed halfway.
In fact, Lu Xiaoman, who has always loved Xu Zhimo deeply, is painful. After Xu Zhimo's death, her biggest regret was that she didn't promise him to live with him in Beijing. Repentant Lu Xiaoman repented of his previous bad habits and stuck to his love for Xu. At 65, she died alone. Her only last words were to bury her with Xu Zhimo after her death, and she never got married because she wanted to die. Unfortunately, this wish was not realized because of the strong opposition of the Xu family. The moment I read this passage, I burst into tears.
Everyone who is sentimental is unfortunate, just like Zhang Ailing. When she left Hu Lancheng, her blooming flowers withered forever, so that she died alone for half her life. Like Ye Zhi, she has been pursuing hopeless love all her life.
On the contrary, people who are rational and can control their emotions are happy. For example, Lin is a smart and rational woman. She will never be carried away by love, let alone sacrifice herself for love. At first, she also loved Xu Zhimo. However, when she saw Xu Zhimo divorce his wife without pity, she hesitated. Between Xu Zhimo and Liang Sicheng, although she obviously likes Xu Zhimo a little more, she finally overcame her emotions with reason. Between Xu Zhimo, who is always compassionate and mature, and Liang Sicheng, who doesn't understand romance, she resolutely chose Liang Sicheng. Later, no matter how Xu Zhimo pursued it, she was unmoved, because she knew in her heart that she could not control such an emotional man as Xu. That's why I have a happy life. True love is never a crazy passion. Love should care about each other, it is still water, and love, it is a thunderstorm, a tsunami, a hurricane, and it is easy to destroy and hurt people.
What a complete and enviable life it would have been if Lu Xiaoman had been able to control his emotions and not be emotional like Lin, and lived quietly with her husband, a bachelor studying in the United States from Princeton University and West Point Military Academy, a man who didn't know romance but was practical and only knew how to work hard?
However, love has always been a crazy thing that is not easy to control. It will only hit those who are enthusiastic.
Satire a romantic sentence.
When I hold you, you are a cup, and when I let you go, you are a piece of glass. Don't be superior, as if no one can leave you. I can only live better without some people. Don't flatter yourself. It's not like the earth revolves around only a few people. Where is the confidence?
Satire a romantic sentence.
First, what you can do at this moment is to ask yourself what you need and strive for it for yourself; Ask yourself who you need and let them know. As for whether the world needs you, that's the world's business. If you are not strong enough to reason with the world or fall in love, please at least don't flatter yourself about this need.
Second, I hope tomorrow can be a year of powder powder. There are no impossible problems, and there are no bad interpersonal relationships. Don't touch feelings, don't flatter yourself, and don't love people you shouldn't love.
Third, sometimes don't flatter yourself. Others are good people, but you become a sinner. Remember it.
Fourth, don't flatter yourself, okay? Let's not make waves in our quiet hearts just now, shall we? She's okay now. Don't disturb her, okay? How does your love persuade you to wake up, okay? Don't expect anything without results, okay? Tell me why you are so hard on yourself, will you? Since you love her so much, protect her from afar, okay?
5. Unless a person is really shrewd and can see through others' real weaknesses at a glance, it is best not to flatter yourself and send criticism and suggestions to your door. You can't solve other people's problems, you can't get others' thanks, and you are likely to resent it. It's totally unnecessary, right?
6. 20xx left a little regret for himself. 18 Come on. Don't flatter yourself. Let's go Don't talk about feelings, houses, money, and talk less.
7. Don't indulge yourself by trying to stop crazy people. After all, your influence may not be that great.
Eight, small suckling dogs are only suitable for simple and lovely children. Some people don't flatter themselves, just you.
Nine, Yang, are you shameless? What's wrong with letting the apprentice scold you for being pregnant? Must pregnancy be announced? Can't people keep a low profile? Do you care so much? I pretend to imitate the video of Lele all day, and Lele delivers positive energy. What about you? What happened to Xuanmai Live Kick? Now I'm torn with Sun Chen Xuanmai. Do you think there are many fans? Poof, don't flatter yourself,
Ten, a year has passed in a blink of an eye, and a year will grow again in a blink of an eye. At this age, it is better to be realistic. Don't flatter yourself about some things!
Eleven, the new year, the new can't, don't flatter yourself, don't be pretentious, but in the end, the ants in the torrent, your glory, your pain, like a snail with a load, God is not because you can fly, but because of the strong wind, don't be proud, don't be afraid, and fall down on a stone. Don't send 20xx, I hope you are good, 20xx.
Twelve, young men and women, if on a strange occasion, people who have never met praise you for being beautiful or handsome. Don't flatter yourself, as long as you understand the word high emotional intelligence, hello is enough. Don't think, first of all, you are really beautiful or handsome. Second, people are interested in you. People just don't want to use this kind of low-level greeting. Of course, if you are really ugly, don't praise others for their beauty, or you will think you are scolding them.
Thirteen, no one is the savior of anyone. Don't flatter yourself that you can. Actually, you can't even save yourself. Don't always be kind and soft-hearted. To be soft on others is to be cruel to yourself. Be a wise man and don't deceive yourself.
Fourteen, don't flatter yourself, wash and sleep, there is everything in the dream.
Fifteen, if the person you love, you look for her, she took a long time to reply to you, but also various excuses, that means she doesn't love you, don't flatter yourself.
Sixteen, a voice tells me every day, give up! She doesn't like you. Don't flatter yourself. You think you touched the whole world, but in fact you just touched yourself. At this time, another voice in my heart told me that I finally met someone I like. How can I give up? Even if there is only 1% hope, we must make 100% efforts. Even if we don't end up together, at least I won't regret it, at least I won't regret it for a lifetime. A long-term active person will be really tired. If one day I no longer take the initiative to contact you, I'm sorry, it's not that I don't love it, it's that I love it too much.
Don't flatter yourself. How can people who have time to play games but have no time to reply to your messages love you?
Even if you think of him after listening to the same song, he may not necessarily think of you. Don't flatter yourself.
I thought you loved me, at least, didn't you? So many, fool. Don't flatter yourself. At least people who love you will not spare no effort to hurt you.
Twenty, in the eyes of others, it simply doesn't matter: don't follow other people's public opinion, don't sell yourself short and deviate from yourself more and more. What are we? Don't flatter yourself. Deal with a man as he deals with you.
Twenty-one, electric donkey is like a boy's heart, suddenly like you, suddenly hate you. There is no reason, no sign; It's either central air conditioning or central heating, ambiguous ABCDEF, and you are just one of the letters, so don't flatter yourself.
All in all, I want to say: you just like one of his/her audience, so you can't thank anyone for him or punish anyone for him. Don't flatter yourself.
Twenty-three, prepared something but no one appreciated it. Forget it. I feel a little sorry for myself. Don't flatter yourself next time, alas.
24. I want to be happy. Just one person. What's the big deal? No matter how much you cherish what you have in the future, I am very happy. I have a good friend and a person who loves me very much. Isn't this the life I want? I still care so much. Why don't you think about the past? Anyway, it's just a temporary miss. What exactly do you like? Don't flatter yourself. Don't always affect your mood because of things around you. Whatever others say, don't take it to heart. I hope in the future, just
Twenty-five, 20xx Lesson One: Don't flatter yourself, you are nobody.
Twenty-six, everyone has stopped doing their own thing. Come on, don't flatter yourself. You are nothing to me.
Twenty-seven, at this age, don't expect any good feelings. You have found everything you can and given up everything you haven't met. Being kind to others but never flattering yourself will only make people's hearts more and more complicated.
Twenty-eight, there are some people or things that you can't let go. It's just that you're so lonely. Seize that little pity, even the sympathy that others give you. Don't flatter yourself.
You are an enthusiastic mountain traveler, and I come from the valley of despair.
1, don't control the pressure, we don't have to follow the time, just follow the mentality and ability, follow the fate, do our best, achieve the goal, have a clear conscience, and leave the rest to heaven.
2, a thing, if you want it too much, you will see it very big, even big enough to become the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. My suggestion is that whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and really see its real position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. If you get it, you won't get carried away, and if you don't get it, you won't suffer.
If you feel tired, the best way is to make yourself more tired. Only when you are completely tired can you get rid of it.
4. If a person is full of happy and positive thoughts, then good people, things and things will sing with him and be attracted by him; Similarly, if a person always carries a pessimistic thought frequency, it is no wonder that unlucky things often happen to him.
5. Don't set the standard of happiness too high. Any little thing in life can be said to be related to happiness as long as you taste it with your heart. Because in any case, happiness is just a feeling.
6, some good, just accept it, the only thing that will get to the bottom of it, the pain will only be yourself. People who live in this world are too smart to be happy. It is wise to muddle along and make mistakes.
7. I would like to be a narcissistic flower in the afterlife. I will always stand in the wind, wake up when spring comes, die when winter comes, and live a short and happy life.
8. Once upon a time, there was a mountain called Affectionate Mountain. There is a deep valley in the mountain called Despair Valley, and there is a clear spring called Forgetting River in the valley. I often drink the wine brewed by Forgetfulness River alone. You are an enthusiastic mountain traveler, and I come from the valley of despair.
9. Forgetting is our unchangeable destiny. Everything is like misplaced paper. Everything in the past can't go back to the past, so it slowly extends out bit by bit. Maybe we should really forget about those interlaced things. As long as you can remember me, even in a hateful way. When I try to hate you, I will think of your smile.
10, when we were young, we cried and laughed; When we grow up, we laugh and laugh, but suddenly we cry.
1 1, reliable men are the least lovable. The more sincere, the more cautious.
12. If someone cares about you to a certain extent depending on whether he is busy or not, then be an ordinary friend.
13, you can see that she lit crimson cinnabar for your messy clothes, but you can't see that I miss Chang 'an for you until my hair turns white.
14. Memory can really turn a person into a neuropathy. A second ago, his mouth rose slightly, and this second, his eyes were moist.
15, many times, after inadvertently knowing something, pretending to be indifferent on the surface and covering it up with a smile, in fact, my heart hurts more than anything else.
16, I didn't know sweet words, but I was accompanied by you. Now I have a glib tongue, but I am alone.
17, there is only one kind of heroism in life, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life.
18, the more people who have nothing, the more likely they are to be angered. Just say one word and you will fly into a rage. Like weeds on the wall, a breeze can make it stagger. On the contrary, those who are very successful, regardless of outside gossip, ridicule and ridicule, will stand firmly on the earth and be firm. He has the right to lose his temper, but he can control it firmly. This is the terrible thing about a person.
19, I dare not promise, not so much that you are not good enough, but that I am afraid of losing you. Friends often live longer than lovers.
20. Deep feelings are in the true feelings, and deep feelings are in the heart.
If it's just sentimental, why say love?
1, it's time to leave, but my mind is full of eternity. -Gu Man's "The Sun Is Like Me"
2, when you understand that life and self are not used to overcome but to get along! You will understand that some things are unreasonable, but you must believe that some things are powerful enough and you must rely on them. -"The Fantasy Drifting of Youth School"
3. Not because things are difficult, so I dare not do it; It is because we dare not do it that things become difficult. Seneca
Everyone has his own world, one person has one world. A glamorous appearance or a strong body can't express the happiness of others, and everyone has their own sadness. Mag, who looks strong, will think that without his family, his dinner will only be like completing a task. This may be the shadow under a person's aura. So no one is the most sad. You just don't understand. Marc levy's The Shadow Stealer
5. Beautiful women are liked and strong women are respected. When a woman is beautiful and strong, she will be invincible. -Tonghua "Those Youth Years that Can't Go Back"
6. Waiting for a colorful flower is happiness. It is happy to dream in the sun with the person you like. It is also happiness to get old and have a period of warmth and coldness. If you are well, it will be sunny.
7. Her biggest weakness is that she doesn't like to trouble others, but she always finds trouble with herself. Why do you hate yourself and deny yourself because of the malice of others? -"I may not love you"
8. There is no unbearable injustice in the world, only a weak heart. -Vae
9. One of the biggest lessons I learned from traveling is that there are really many kinds of people in the world who live in various ways. Their different values make the world look complicated and interesting, and make people who understand them sing, while those who don't understand them have topics. They are ascetics, gamblers, artists, business tycoons, farmers, hermits, practitioners and urban vagrants. ......
10, everything that appears in life can't be owned, only experienced. All gains and losses, hidden and obvious, are landscapes and customs. -Tahiram Dodo, "Muttering"
1 1, a glass of wine with water is no longer intoxicating, but you can still smell the clear wine, which can intoxicate memories and dye the smell you can't bear; Or like a tragic novel that has been read countless times, tears can't help but flow down when you read it again. However, I still have a small fist in my chest, knocking at the door gently. -Jing M.Guo's Tiny Times
12, I admire those who can endure, hide their pain so deeply and share their happiness with others. In fact, their inner sadness has already flooded, but it seems as if nothing has happened, and the years fly by. -Larch
13, you can always find countless excuses to lower your bottom line, and those excuses are always good, so you gradually blur what you want and become an unknown self. -Lu Sihao
14, no matter how popular you are, only a few people can help you when you are in trouble. Carnival is just the loneliness of a group of people. A true friend is someone who can accompany you through loneliness, loneliness and silence. -"People on the Road"
15. The religions most people believe in in the world are not Christianity, Buddhism and Islam, but "fame and fortune". But many people believe it and are unhappy. -Gu Long
16. Shallow people believe in luck or environment, while strong people believe in cause and effect. Emerson
17, a person's greatest weakness is not selfish, affectionate, savage and willful, but paranoid love for someone who doesn't love himself. -Zhang Xiaoxian "Why not send me a spring rain?"
18, if you just like it, why exaggerate it into love? If it's just sweat, why make love? If it's just a little cool, why cry roast meat? If it is only a little bitter, why should it be said to be ruined? If it's just sentimental, why say love? If it's just heartache, why say heartbreak? If it's just a sad thing, why should it be called resentment? -Zhang Ailing
19, fate is always unsatisfactory. But it is often in countless pains, in heavy contradictions and hardships that talents mature. -Lu Yao's Ordinary World
20. Without the trip, I wouldn't have seen them. Even if I buy ten QQ instead of the money I saved, I will not be more satisfied than I am now. -Ke Keliang's "Caution and Action"