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After packing the luggage I moved all morning, I have embraced Bali in my heart. While sorting out the seemingly messy but traceable luggage, I imagined myself having a tryst with the Italian water city. In a daze, I saw a woman in a black skirt! She has long black hair, a cherry mouth painted with cherry red on her chest, a A Jin Shanshan bracelet on her wrist, and a pair of white slender thighs coming to me in the catwalk. This should be a man's dream lover and an ideal type in a woman's heart!
? Mature women are always accompanied by a forbearing heart. The meat cleaver always faces itself. Take figure as an example. A woman's perfect figure depends entirely on her self-discipline. I talked to a model of a company before. Behind their perfect figure, they always have to sacrifice their desire for food. I remember she said, "Every hot summer, when other girls are holding the ice cream bought by their boyfriends, I can only think about her ice cream packaging." So, she said, "On careful analysis, sometimes we want to eat something in an instant. After a while, we will have our next goal. We can seize this moment and imagine all the delicious food as shit. You may not have such a big appetite. Even if there is, your pupil diameter will be much smaller. "
? Compared with me, I feel really unfit to be a goddess. After giving birth, my baby is completely out of shape. Every time I look in the mirror, I am as full of fighting power as chicken blood, vowing to make my swimming ring disappear. However, in the face of numerous food temptations, all of a sudden, the beautiful fantasy of slimming collapsed like a utopia. What S-shaped beautiful figure, what small waists are left behind, only pay attention to whether spicy chicken legs and big-faced chicken chops are spicy enough; Only when you taste the steak in front of you is it more delicious.
Therefore, there is a saying that really confirms this point, "What will you get if you give up?" Give up the temptation of food and get a slim figure; Give up the control of the body, and you may get the favor of the disease; Giving up the management of one's posture, body, mind and emotions may lead to dissatisfaction with his wife.
? What does a high-profile woman look like?
? As the inscription says, "from caring for others to caring for yourself", such a woman is not tough on the surface but soft on the inside, but soft on the outside. When it comes to love, if you manage it with your heart, no one may have paid or enjoyed it. If you don't love, let go decisively, leave without delay, and leave those beautiful things in your memories with blessings and expectations; When they meet friendship, they may not always get together with wine and meat. All they need is a glass of red wine and a few stories, and they can talk for a long time. They can talk and laugh, and no matter what the other person has experienced, their shoulders can always be relied on. They are the lovely daughters of their parents when they are naive, the most trusted mother of their children when they are gentle, and the powerful helper of their husbands when they are virtuous. Of course, even so, they are themselves. They have their own names, occupations and hobbies. They don't live for anyone, but everyone's appearance is their most beautiful scenery!
? Gu Jia's recent hit song "Thirty Stand Up" has a sentence that reflects the high attitude of women. When she found out that the tea factory she took over was run by Mrs. Chen, she questioned Mrs. Chen and said, "You just took a shortcut by taking advantage of your husband's position. Besides, you don't even have your own names. You are just their accessory, my name is Gu Jiajia! "
? When I heard this sentence, it really woke me up. I repeatedly thought: in marriage, most women like me are wondering whether my husband loves me or not. Today, his tone is suddenly so heavy, does he not love me?
My teammates and I often make too much trouble at home because of this kind of problem. Every time the team members sell out to solve it, they occasionally think that it is really much ado about nothing. Sometimes, from the perspective of an outsider, I can really compare myself with the real version of the dissatisfied housewife:
? Every day, the ponytail is tied casually, and occasionally it is combed into a gourd shape and hangs lazily on the shoulder; Slowly curved back, like a camel bump; The breasts on both sides seem to see the gold on the ground extending downward; A stronger and stronger belly is like a flower of the motherland that has been pregnant for several months. A pair of rough hands occasionally drop a few pieces of metabolized "protein", which may be providing nutrients for life on the land.
This is me now, without a trace of anger, far from my ideal self.
The highest gesture of a woman is to gain her own confidence. The source of this self-confidence is not only the abundance of material foundation, but also the enrichment of spiritual civilization and psychology.
? The best woman I have ever seen should be a famous program host-Dong Qing. Her elegant speech, clear speech and gestures all show her upbringing.
? When she was a child, her father made her read a lot of books, and she also had the shadow of being born in a family. However, from her eyes, there is no obsession with the past, but meditation on the future.
She said that she once read a sentence written by a mother to her 100-day-old child. "May you have good luck, if not, may you learn to sympathize in misfortune. May you be loved by many people. If not, may you learn to be tolerant in loneliness. "
When she read this passage, I remember that my eyes were a little wet and those eyes were beautiful. They are not sharp and sharp eyes, but kind and gentle eyes.
High-profile women should be gentle and generous, but also kind-hearted, "not happy with things, not sad for themselves." From this perspective, a woman is a medium to convey love. She must love herself before she can love others.
? Therefore, I want to share this with many precious mothers who take care of their babies at home. The best education for children is the happiness of mothers. You may not have a goal, it doesn't matter, there will always be, don't worry; You may have no financial resources now, which is really a problem because I don't know how to solve it myself, so I can only comfort myself, cheer myself up first, and take the rest slowly!
? A woman's high-profile is to love herself in many ways and shape her inner armor!
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