I'm afraid to introduce myself, a nameless rat, and I'm afraid I'll spill the beans. When you are educated from an early age, you should be realistic, modest and prudent. As a result, I really became a penniless person. Later, I learned that this is a psychological phenomenon-self-testifying prophecy: people will unconsciously act according to the known prophecy, and finally let the prophecy happen.
Before you start, set your own upper limit. Then I believed it. This time, I changed it.
Introduce yourself and go.
Gary the Snail: Walking in the beautiful Xinjiang, slowly exploring and experiencing the little snail in the world.
Urumqi Municipality
Over 40 years old
Birthday Virgo
Professional state-owned enterprise, 23 years of service, 18 years of administrative personnel management, 5 years of logistics and distribution, resigned at the end of the year.
My tags/features
Once a dedicated and strong logistics sister.
Amateur piano lover
Philosopher (Nietzsche)
Family financial experts
media worker
Personal therapy writer
Lifelong learner
Two. Main achievements of 20 18
My milestone
00 1. 1 month-Empowering 20 18 with nutritious breakfast. Join the nutritious breakfast community, make exquisite breakfast, change tableware and tablecloth, and eat breakfast with originality and ritual.
February, 2002-Spring Festival-Family self-help tour of Tengchong Ancient Town. Looking for a new place to live, drinking tea and wandering around, my feet are finally not hot wheels, and the gyro finally stops rotating with inertia. Take back the initiative in life.
March 2003-Find a peaceful home for the spirit. I joined the first club in my life, Uncle Mao's field action camp, and finished reading and writing for 2 1 day in the morning. Won two best of the day and won the title of counterattack dark horse. The old habit of laziness and procrastination is gradually disappearing, and time management is getting better and better.
April, 2004-joined the action camp plus-continued to tap the potential for 3 months. I thought that childbirth had exhausted my physical strength, but I didn't expect to get up early to finish writing and reading. I am tired and full. My thoughts are more and more balanced and I can reflect on myself more and more.
April 2005-Attend the meeting of extreme practitioners and make new friends. I can't believe that at the age of 40+, I still have the impulse of 18. Seeing a lot of fresh life, I explore another possibility of life: of course I can choose again.
March 2006-Joined Fan Deng Book Club. On 20 18, I read 25 books, and Fan Deng listened to 27 books and had a big class on 10. I found a suitable learning platform. Confucius' sentence "A gentleman is not a tool" opened my understanding of his role orientation: man is not a thing, and his role cannot be confined to one place, nor can he be bound by his own image and purpose. Although I was still at a loss at that time, I finally stopped being tied to the roles of employees, mothers and wives of state-owned enterprises and began to reflect on my own value.
September 2007-sprained ankle for one month. Reflect on your four years and make a decision to resign. Even if you still have eight years to retire, you still can't waste time. For me, the quality of life is more important than the length of life.
008. 1 1 month-ranked second in customer satisfaction of logistics distribution (ranked by 45 deliverymen in Urumqi)
Second Prize of Logistics Loading Skills Competition (Loading Efficiency)
010.65438+February —— Attend teacher Xu Zhou's year-end resumption, sort out the past 23 years, and find the energy for progress from his own efforts. The most beautiful life is when I get lost.
0 1 1.65438+ February-the year of shaking hands with my mother-in-law. We haven't quarreled since New Year's Day in 20 18. I did it. No matter what happens, don't quarrel again. I didn't fight back, and I didn't resent it. I just learned to listen to myself.
012.65438+February-The official WeChat account was opened with the encouragement of Teacher Xu Zhou.
Three. Status of 20 18:
00 1. Physical pain is getting worse and worse. Four consecutive years of logistics sorting and distribution, wind and sun, cold and summer, exercised my will and destroyed my body. Gradually suffering from severe cervical spondylosis and scapulohumeral periarthritis. I have been hospitalized twice in the past year, and my hands are numb, rheumatism and joint pain, herpes zoster, asthma, and my psychological burden is aggravated. There is no guarantee for going out to send lunch boxes, and long-term pasta malnutrition. It was not until September that I sprained my ankle and had to stop working that I began to reflect on the meaning of health to myself.
002 survival anxiety. To change the status quo of delivery fatigue, but nothing, although maintaining the momentum of learning, but always in a wait-and-see state, "riding a donkey to find a horse." After 23 years of service, there are 8 years left, so you can retire. Can you last eight years? If you leave, all your previous efforts will be in vain. Is that really the case?
003. Find the initiative in life. You have no choice for yourself. If possible, create all the space for yourself. Find a balance between busy work and lost self. No longer cater to the environment too much, no longer be responsive, start from getting up early and planning time, adjust the rhythm, and gradually return to yourself.
004.？ Life is a choice. Face it bravely. Stop loss in time, save yourself, anything is possible. Reflect on the past and make a decision to resign.
Iv. 10 20 19 major events to be done:
00 1. Operate the official WeChat account, otherwise it will be "night shift" or "weekly shift".
Become a writer: summarize the knowledge learned from reading and the truth understood in life, write practical notes, what can be used and how to use it, and write down your own thoughts, feelings, experiences and lessons. Learn from Uncle Akiba's writing training.
Train yourself to summarize and express quickly. Learning speech
002. Investing in health and safety.
Practice the scientific concept of nutrition, make a nutritious breakfast for your family and ensure a balanced nutrition throughout the day.
Practice yoga and teach your mother-in-law Tai Chi. Ensure that a family's body can support the consumption of a day.
Weekly health center nursing to build a healthy body.
003. Be a family financial consultant. Change the financial situation of green and yellow.
Accounting, learning financial management courses, daily expenses, savings, security, investment science, good family financial situation, make the best use of everything.
004. In the first year of insurance, you must first be able to support yourself. The monthly income is 3000-5000 yuan, reaching 1000 yuan by the end of the year.
005. Organize a small-scale reading club and attend a local reading club. Join a reading camp to learn about community operations.
006. Meet 20 awesome people and 20 new friends, especially those with economic achievements.
007. Your personal brand image is improved, your clothes are improved, and your skin is elastic, so you will stay away from the yellow-faced woman.
008. Learn to live in a beautiful home with the concept of minimalism.
009. Take your family on two value-added and reliable trips.
0 10. Be a lifelong learner. At least 10 cattle people can consult, study, interview, report their work and invite them to dinner all the year round.
Those who can't kill you will make you stronger! Happiness is finished. 20 19, self-certified prophecy!