The key point is that the threshold of these so-called fitness instructors is really low, and there are really few people with good character and high quality, regardless of professionalism. In particular, many fitness instructors in small gyms are unemployed and can't get along with other jobs before. I heard that fitness instructors are easy to do, so I came to do this job. There is no professional ability and professionalism. After studying for two or three months, I went to work without a license, and then I learned a little from some old coaches through hearsay.
What is really useful can't be taught to students. But when I meet a female student, I will get together and teach people to practice peach hips and vest lines at every turn, and then take the opportunity to touch my chest and hands in the name of teaching. Now the quality of this posturing is really low.
In addition, I think if girls just take fitness as a hobby and practice relaxation when they have nothing to do, there is really no need to take any private lessons. There are so many online teaching videos now. If you don't need to practice professionally, just follow the online video, and you've practiced almost. Besides, if you really want to have a tutor, can't you have a female tutor? Do we have to hire a tutor and contact each other? Those private male teachers may not really teach you anything.
In a word, I don't deny that there is a tutor with high professionalism, good character and responsibility, but if it is my girlfriend, I will definitely mind. If my girlfriend insists on having a male tutor, I will also go to the gym to have a female tutor. This kind of thing needs empathy and mutual understanding. If she still insists, then I will consider breaking up.