Are you particularly envious of families with twins? Me too!
Do you especially envy twin brothers and sisters playing together, and my brother protects my sister's family? Me too!
However, "Goose" (and) ... We see many cases of twins: boys are "cowards" and girls are "women".
Don't believe it? Look at the picture below:
Let me explain this scene again:
After watching this scene, the mother who recorded the video can't help but sigh:
Emmmm……
Since my mother asked this question, please help my mother solve the problem.
I remember my son was a coward when he was a child. I didn't dare to slide on the slide, and even sat in the rocking car in front of the supermarket and began to cry. I'm afraid I can't sit still I thought I was encouraging and understanding my child, but that's what he is, and he hasn't changed at all.
Later, I found that two children (from two families) who often play with their sons, a boy and a girl, are also timid, crying and timid; Girls are brave, bold, and dare to say and do.
I checked some information and learned that:
That is to say, before the age of 10, the brain development of boys is slower than that of girls.
Therefore, we can see that among children from kindergarten to the third grade of primary school, girls generally have good academic performance; However, with the growth of boys, after high school, boys' academic performance is obviously better than girls'.
For boys under 10, their educational strategies are completely different from those of girls.
For example, when boys are timid and afraid, parents can stop exposing scars and hug more. Hugging boys will make them feel safe and satisfied, and then improve the balance of boys' nervous system. This view comes from the research of neuroscientist Sekar Raman and doctor of medicine.
Shekar Raman and MD believe that:
According to the records, premature twins aged 12 weeks were put in an incubator. This can provide enough skin contact for the baby and stabilize the fragile body function. This method is called "Kangaroo Mother's Care" and is often used as a good way for premature infants to regulate their body temperature, gain weight and keep a good sleep.
Among twins, boys are timid and girls are bold, which is a common pattern in many families, and it also verifies the view that boys develop later than girls and have poor perception.
Specifically, look at the reply of netizens:
Facts have proved that parents should start from the differences of individual growth and development of boys and girls and carry out different educational strategies. Therefore, you don't have to worry about your mother who was born every 1 minute. Men will grow up sooner or later, but in the process of growing up, they need the patience and love of their parents.
I hope that after reading this article, it will inspire you.
May you be born in the sun, full of spring breeze, and be the best yourself in your heart.
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