Because the two sides care about each other and are silent, they are still lonely in essence. Loneliness is a terrible thing, and it is difficult for many people to understand that they still feel lonely after marriage, but they are passively accepting it. In fact, after marriage, many women began to regret it, because they found that their husbands never asked about housework, always worked all day, and even if they didn't work, they wouldn't take the initiative to do some housework. The housework at home has always been done by themselves. Over time, these trivial things seem to have become what she should do, and the two men no longer say anything and gradually become silent.

In fact, I think that if no matter what the two sides do or talk about, they can't get a response from the other half, which will really make the relationship between the two people more rigid. If at home, the wife always completes the housework alone, and the husband is always used to being the shopkeeper of cutting, then he won't feel sorry for his wife. From the apple of parents' eyes to the yellow-faced woman who cooks and cleans the house, what marriage has given women seems to be more unhappiness.

We entered the marriage with good hope, and some people accompanied us and were happy, but our husband was not as good as we thought, even the initiator who made you very ordinary and boring. In my opinion, this "widowed marriage" is really unfair to one party in the marriage. They should be happy, but they have tasted loneliness, and this feeling will accompany her all her life. I suggest that if this happens in your family, women might as well try to communicate with their partners and reach a consensus that marriage should be maintained by two people instead of putting all the responsibilities on one person.

If your marriage has gradually entered the "widowed type", it means that both parties need more investment and care, and you need to manage the your relationship well. If left unchecked, there will be a crisis of emotional breakdown sooner or later. If you don't have the courage to continue singing this monologue, it is better to end this state as soon as possible, get rid of this lonely life, and make it clear to the person who always escapes and keeps silent.