Aya's success seems unexpected, but if you think about it carefully, it is also reasonable.
Unlike good sisters, Aya always makes a scene. Aya is a man of few words, and suddenly generate shows strength and light.
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In the fourth period, she and Dapeng went to Guizhou to visit left-behind children.
Chatting with her at a little girl's house, the little girl said that she wanted to go out of this small mountain village to go to college in the future and take the whole family out, so that the family would not have to live apart like this.
Dapeng couldn't help hiding in the room and wiping his tears. The little girl asked doubtfully, "What happened to him?"
Aya said, "He was moved by your dream."
The little girl asked again, "Why do you sometimes laugh and sometimes cry?"
Aya smiled faintly and replied, "Because this is life."
The words in this conversation are plain and the tone is plain, but I believe that every adult who hears it will inevitably feel that something unknown has hit the soul, which is boring and light, but has far-reaching repercussions.
I think the little girl may not fully understand the truth at the moment, but Aya's attitude will touch her more or less. When she meets ups and downs, sometimes she laughs and sometimes she cries, she can look back on this moment calmly. Oh, that's life.
As for the bitterness pouring out of her heart, Aya couldn't bear to sit on the side of the road and collapse on her way back.
There is no need to explore who the tears are for at the moment. Perhaps it is sympathy and pity for children, perhaps it is thinking of their own children and relatives, or perhaps it is an outlet for the current life that is too difficult. ...
What does it matter? Everyone can have their own understanding.
This is not only Aya's tenderness, but also the attitude and feelings of this program.
Advanced.
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In the fifth issue, Aya and Zhou Xun visited the elderly with amnesia.
In the hospital, Aya and Zhou Xun couldn't help crying after seeing grandpa. When she got home, she apologized to her grandmother: "Miss Daozi, we have been crying today. I hope you don't mind. "
Seeing this, I feel that Aya is really careful and really understands life.
Many people think that it is natural for a kind person to show sympathy and cry for the misfortune of others.
However, it is inevitable that ignoring your tears may make people feel a little uncomfortable for them.
Only Aya noticed this.
It has been some time since it happened, and my relatives have survived the stage of collapse and unacceptable. Now grandma has adjusted and faced life with optimism. Hard as she is, she lives quietly. Does she really like to see others cry for her misfortune? Will the tears of outsiders inadvertently offend her?
Aya's carefulness and sensibility are rare.
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In addition to Adventure Life, Aya has another program that has aroused heated discussion this year, that is, We are Real Friends.
After the program was broadcast, many people were angry with her, and even criticized the way Big S treated her as "bullying".
In the program, Big S kept attacking Aya personally, saying that she had short legs and wore jeans. Said she thought she was a strong woman now, and asked Chen Jianzhou to teach Aya a lesson. Said aya's face looks the least advanced of the four … ...
I didn't see Aya play the same joke on her sisters. She will only sincerely exaggerate that S's face is "very advanced".
Indeed, the friendship between them was unequal from the beginning.
Wu Peici can join the "Seven Fairies" because everyone thinks she is beautiful, while Aya can join the "Seven Fairies" because this small group needs a runner.
She is often regarded as a joke by her sisters. Xiao S even said that everyone thought that the "Seven Fairies" were not so beautiful, precisely because Aya dragged down the overall value level of the "Seven Fairies".
Aya always plays a clown in variety shows to set off the beauty and elegance of the guests. Aya in Seven Sisters always seems to be a minion and an "ugly duckling". She had to laugh at herself in order to cooperate with her sisters' jokes.
In the program, Xiao S directly asked Aya, "What would you say if others said that the two of us (Xiao S) bullied you?"
Aya's response is to slap the little S who plays the doubter and shut her up: "You don't know anything".
Perhaps, in places that the audience can't see, these sisters who "bullied" her are also the people who supported and helped her: Aya's father was seriously ill, and Big S came to the ward first, holding Liu's father's hand to comfort him; Aya's transformation producer is successful, and Xiao S will be proud of her with tears.
Friendship has no fixed pattern. Some people like to stick together for 24 hours. Some people like to be busy on weekdays, and they are duty-bound when necessary. There are also some people who like to have a party together, and some people like to quietly nest in the corner of the room and occasionally smile at each other; There are also some people who like to boast about their friendship, while others like the joy of daily communication.
Outsiders can't evaluate other people's relationships, after all, each has its own taste.
As Aya herself said, "They didn't bully me, we were in love." .
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However, perhaps in those days, my sisters were silently watching and shining. In the jokes and blows of my sisters, she learned to appreciate the glory of others and understand the difficulties of others, so she can be so gentle and tolerant and know how to be measured.
Aya in the first half of her life, like her own songs, seems to be really a "miss wallflower", like a flower growing silently in the corner.
At that time, she defined herself as "a comedy character with tragic character."
Cai Kangyong once asked Aya in the program: "What do you think can beat Xiao S?"
Aya replied: "Probably very easy-going!"
"Easy-going" doesn't sound like a word to praise people's Excellence. It may have been a helpless acceptance, but now it can be regarded as a "consideration" and a choice.
Probably people really have to go through "cold and warm" to know "weight".
She was not dazzling when she was young. After years of tempering and precipitation, she now dares to be herself.
For the first time, she bluntly said to Xiao S: "Please don't make fun of me like this in front of everyone in the future. Very uncomfortable. "
Finally, she is no longer afraid of losing or being satisfied with perfection.
I used to have a good temper, probably because I didn't have a gorgeous aura, because I felt inferior, because I was afraid of losing, but now I have a good temper, because I am pessimistic after the experience, because I know how to tolerate and understand.
In Adventure Life, Aya's character is really "soft" without any aggression. The whole body exudes an intellectual warmth, eyes are always sincere and sincere, and posture is always calm and calm.
She habitually treats everyone from an equal perspective, and is always willing to think more and pay attention to those places that ordinary people have not noticed.
What she said, there is no gorgeous language, beautiful rhetoric, every sentence is plain and gentle, but every sentence has its own strength.
This power is called "understanding".