2. Do things by yourself and judge behind your back. Sometimes we pay too much attention to the voice in our ears, make indecisive decisions, act timidly, and finally tire our hearts and spirits. Even if it is done well, there will be people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, you can still hear hymns. The only thing that can save you is yourself. You don't have to twist yourself to please the world.
No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares how many autumn you have to toss and turn. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process themselves. Listen to sad songs less when you are in a bad mood. If you are hungry, you can find your own food. If you are afraid of the dark, you can turn on the light. You can make money to buy it yourself if you want. Don't care too much about what you can't change. If you can't stay, try to give up. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, there is no need to exaggerate your difficulties with sitcoms. Except for life and death, it is a small matter. Don't embarrass yourself.
Don't be too sensitive, be open-minded, not only to others, but also to yourself. Thinking too much will hurt you. The speaker is not interested in the listener's intentions. You are too tired to think about it. Many things, the listener remembers, but the speaker forgets. Don't mistake others for being too self-centered, in fact, it is your own self-awareness at work.
You don't need to tell everyone how you spent those difficult days. Most people see how high you fly, and few people care whether you are tired or not. So, do what you should do, take the right path, don't shrink back, don't waver, no matter how difficult it is, tell yourself to stick to it, and don't let yourself be unworthy of your ambitions and disappoint everything you have experienced.
6. People don't really need too many things. They are already very rich, healthy and happy, living safely and loving sincerely. Life is very tiring, a small part comes from survival, and a large part comes from comparison. Just adjust your mentality and have a clear conscience.
7. At this age, no one wants to please anyone. Stay with anyone who is comfortable, including friends, and stay away when you are tired. It is better to be better than to maintain a relationship; Try to find friends, it is better to let others approach you actively. I would rather be lonely than against my will; I would rather regret than make do with it. Pleasing others is far less than being happy with yourself.
8. Do you often make such mistakes? The stranger, the more respectful. The closer you get, the more you often complain. Our biggest mistake is to give the worst temper and the worst side to the closest and favorite people, but leave patience and tolerance to strangers. Home is a shelter from the wind, not a trash can for bad mood. Only the closest people can tolerate everything about you. So, please love them.
9. Put aside your complaints and collect all negative energy. Exercise, painting, cooking, hiking, reading and so on, to keep yourself busy. People are too decadent because they are used to it, and they are used to it because they moan every day. Stop the so-called heartfelt words and get used to a brand-new self, sunshine and positive energy. The sun likes sunflowers, and people will like you who love to laugh. Get used to yourself and everything will be fine.
10. Don't be sad when someone ignores you. Everyone has his own life, and no one can always accompany you. The most embarrassing thing is to overestimate your position in the hearts of others. In fact, you clearly know that the lowest thing is feelings, and the coolest thing is people's hearts. What is yours is yours. Some things are like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the faster they will run. I have tried, cherished, and have a clear conscience. Leave the rest to fate.
1 1. Tomorrow's sun will not rise because of your disappointment; The moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Just because you are blindfolded doesn't mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, does not mean that the light belongs to you. If you are happy, just smile and let everyone know; Sad, just pretend nothing happened. Be kind to yourself, because nothing matters, be kind to life, be kind to yourself and be happy.
12. The more you think, the more trouble you will encounter; Nothing, but no trouble at all. The more you are afraid, the more others will bully you; You are not afraid of anything, but no one dares to bully you. This is the world. If you are too weak, others will take advantage of you. If you cross the line a little, everyone will come to please you. Don't give in blindly. When you are wronged, say bravely: no!
13. Instead of expecting to meet someone, I hope I can attract such a person; Instead of expecting positive energy to warm you every time you are lost, expect yourself to be a positive energy person; It is better to work hard now than to worry about the future. Sometimes even more comfort and guidance is useless. Only you can convince and encourage yourself. And all I can do is tell you that we are all the same, don't be afraid.
14. Wash your face carefully every day, read more books, go to bed on time, eat less and eat more meals. Become gentle and generous, continue to be kind and maintain love. Don't be melodramatic in front of people, talk about it everywhere for comfort, but learn to face it calmly and think it out for yourself. It's okay to be single. If you are so pious to be a better self, you will meet the best, and that person is definitely worth waiting for. Try your best to meet the best people.
15. Everyone has extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
16. The best state of being a man is always full of energy, having what you like, but interfering in other people's lives too much, knowing the boundaries of interpersonal communication, not showing off everything you have everywhere, being gentle in speech, being kind to others and having moderate ambitions. To tolerate the imperfections of life, we must also stand up to the bumps of the world and take everything in life as a root.
17. I have always believed a word, I have been looking at people for a long time. Time is a good thing, which can reveal people's true colors, and whoever is sincere is hypocritical. Don't be carried away by a moment's rhetoric. You never know if there is a knife hidden behind someone else's smiling face. It's a good thing to stab yourself in the face when it's impossible to prevent. Accompany you through the ups and downs, hard-won friends who can't be defeated by gossip. Cherish it.
18. The older you get, the more you learn to let nature take its course. I don't want to keep anything. I believe that things here will not leave. Get calm, lose indifference, strive for inevitability and let nature take its course. When you meet more people, you will understand who is worth cherishing with your life and who is only suitable for detours. Stop insomnia and anxiety. There are still many roads to go tomorrow, many customs to break through, many delicious foods to eat, many people to see, many minor things to experience.
19. If it doesn't fit, don't force it. You are grinding your own feet. If the caller doesn't answer, don't repeat it over and over again. People who cherish you will call the first time. Don't go all the way to the restaurant where you moved. You can't always spend time on the road. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. Anyway, what is left is the scenery and the life.
20. You can't change other people's thoughts and practices. The only thing you can do is to do your own thing wholeheartedly, go your own way and live your life according to your own principles. Don't perform, don't hurt, never expect, it's not yours, you can't force it, it's destiny takes a hand, it will happen, don't live to please anyone, don't wronged yourself.