The big problem of trusting mental state depends on how to save the marriage by guiding the driving force of change to both husband and wife.
Everyone says that detention is actually an emotional disease, so we must treat it symptomatically. The best medicine to deal with the psychological state of trust depends on the defendant first repairing the subjectivity of daily life.
This is often mentioned suddenly because the girl who just took over a case a few days ago to save her boyfriend mainly showed a strong psychological state of trust. By the time I took over, she had broken up for more than half a year.
During this period, I used to read the content of the article to retain myself and save my feelings. I also tried to add other elite teams to help retain them, but the actual effect was not great. I asked her what she had done, because it had been half a year, which should actually be enough for her to save her love. How to save marriage?
Then she talked about changing her head, sending a circle of friends on WeChat, learning to dance the second dance, and picking up the sketch that had been put down for a long time before? After reading all the information, I found the root of the problem.
She made all the second attractive attempts: breaking up, becoming beautiful, becoming active, becoming strong, learning and training a lot of professional skills, showing many advantages. Although the whole process was very hard, she worked harder. The only problem is that there seems to be no reason to stay, and the other party seems to turn a deaf ear to her changes, or sometimes stays at the level of praise. I do not believe in love. How to save marriage?
Diligence means the ability to use good ideas.
This is also often said just now, it is necessary to treat the symptoms to save love.
At that time, they often broke up because the girl had a strong attachment personality. In other words, the serious psychological state of trust pushed her feelings to the Jedi.
3. Have an established cognitive ability for yourself.
Keep a clear understanding of your own shortcomings, dare to accept your own shortcomings and tolerate each other's shortcomings.
4. People who have their own inner world.
Stick to your own preferences, no matter how much you love each other, you will never give up and become your best self. Independence itself is equivalent to giving the other party the power to let go.
5. Very tenacious
It is not easy to have strong viability and be able to cope with daily life with each other.
What can save feelings more than wealth and freedom is independent personality, which is a panacea to save love!